Sunday, November 3, 2013

Glad To Be Of Help

The case against Justin has been discussed seven ways to Sunday. How he did it, why he did it, when he did it, and where he did it.

The comments slow down on all sites as there are only so many ways someone can say, Justin did it. People grow weary of being called a skirt or Dip lover, so they stop commenting for a while.

There are those who refuse to absolve Trista of all liability in this case until LE states who is suspect and who is not. This helps to fuel attacks, but none the less causes discussion about the case again.

I took these attacks as personal, but in my short time of not commenting have had time to rethink the reasons for attacks. Nothing personally intended I was only helping to keep the discussions going.

So if by thinking and saying Ayla may still be out there alive. Until there is a person of interest, or an arrest is made. I am glad to be of help in keeping the discussion of Ayla alive.


Dana B.

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  1. Dana,
    Is this really about Ayla for you? You mention yourself in this post more than Ayla, just an observation.

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    1. Yes Dana mentions himself.
      Many comment on how Ayla's case has affected them.
      Most comments concern someone's thoughts, opinions, and feelings about Ayla,
      Sheez.

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    2. If you can't seriously figure that answer out it would do no good to explain it further. I don't take your comment personally as you see you did mention Ayla's name. Ayla this is about you we are not giving up.

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  2. Thanks Dana for keeping Ayla name out there. No matter what others say Ayla is still out there somewhere and we need to keep her name and story alive.

    I think about her daily and wonder why would someone not speak for her and tell the truth. Morals have changed so much but common sense should override that.

    Ayla and all the missing children deserves so much more. If I was one of the parents of these missing kids and if I was not the one that caused them to come up missing, I would be in touch with every group that does searches and ask for their help. It would not matter to me what the police think because that is my child and I would not rest until I bought them home. It would be my responsibility as a parent to max out all my resources and I do not take any excuse not to do this. It seems that neither parent is doing the right thing. They are just sitting there waiting. What in the h-ll are they waiting on? Give me a good excuse for this.

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    1. It is going on 2 years and the summer has been wasted when someone in the family could have been organizing searches with dogs and people, instead of circus acts for the media. JMO

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    2. Dana, your anger is showing again.
      Why don't you have more anger for the people who have Ayla's blood in their home?

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    3. Dana, you mean instead of sitting at home and doing nothing the DiPietro family could be organizing searches? Because from where I sit, I see Trista and her family are the only members of Ayla's family that are doing ANYTHING. "circus acts" with the media? Really?!?! At least they are trying. More than anyone can say for Justin and his family. I think Justin would prefer we all go away and forget about Ayla like he has.

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  3. Thank you Dana for all the help you have given in keeping Ayla's name ALIVE.
    I commend you for your dedication.

    Today, not being one of my better days, I am perturbed with both of Ayla's parents.
    Even some of her relatives.

    Since Justin and the paternal family feel that Ayla was abducted they should be working their butts off on awareness projects. Getting Ayla's name and picture out there. In any and all ways that they can. I want to hear what they are doing to promote awareness for Ayla. How about making and devoting a website for Ayla.
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    Trista and the maternal family, since they believe Ayla is deceased, should be putting their energy and time to get searches organized to find her body. There are many professional search organizations that can help. All that behind the scene time and energy might be better served in enlisting the help of those organizations.

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    1. I agree winter is coming on and the summer has been wasted, unless they did some searching they told no one about.

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    2. The DiPietros accuse Trista of hiding Ayla, yet they are content to leave Ayla with either Trista or one of her relatives or friends for NEARLY TWO YEARS without doing personally anything to find her. If they really believed Ayla is being hidden by Trista they'd have done something to bring her back, and that doesn't include hiding like scared rabbits.

      You refer to "circus acts" and I suppose you , again, are slyly in your passive-agressive way, targeting Trista for her media blitz.

      You are content like the DiPietros and their supporters to just target the Reynolds never asking any of the hard questions of the DiPietros if you can help it.

      I don't think you have ever been able to hide your feelings under cover of an objective blogger, so why do yju pretend to be objective? You have two faces. One here and one at Voices for Ayla. There, your true feelings can blossom. Here you have to hide under the mantle of martyr to the cause.

      It doesn't wash. And your protestaions of just being here for Ayla would be believable only in a context where you ask some hard questions of the DiPietros... just as you and others continue to "research" everyone that Trista has ever met in hopes of taking some heat off the silent DiPietros who are a "circus act" all on their own even as they squirrel away in their burrows.

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    3. Absolutely Anon, were the situation with Justin and Trista reversed, common sense would dictate suspicion toward Trista and her family. With Justin taking Ayla, breaking her arm, buying an insurance policy in case of her death, spilling her blood and loosing her - and all within, I believe it was, a two month period?
      No, common sense dictates Justin is key to what happened to Ayla. Suspicions cast toward the other side of Ayla's family seems heinous.

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    4. I don't really care what you think of me or my reasons for what I say. Both sides of the family have wasted precious time. Both sides should be out there searching. Loose the silent act, and loose the circus act, and search for your daughter is what I say.

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    5. Dana, got any ideas where they should start searching? You seem to have contempt for what they haven't done, so how about you suggest exactly what you expect them TO do. Should they go dig up the DiPietro's yard? Maine is a big state and the area between Waterville and Portland is huge. Where do you suggest they start?

      How about we start with getting the person who hid Ayla to tell where she is hidden? Perhaps if Justin would just tell the truth about where he put his daughter, you wouldn't be so gosh darn angry!

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  4. Dana, I haven't read this blog in a long time, I'm not familiar with what you say.
    Trista has been the only visible and vocal parent since Ayla disappeared - I would never call what she's done a circus act. I feel empathy for her and her family. As I stated, were the situation reversed, I would feel empathy for Justin and his family. How horrible to not know where your baby is, or what happened to her?

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    1. Justin made it a "circus act" when he ran like a spoiled little brat who wasn't getting his way. And his "mommy" was right behind him wiping his @$$.

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  5. I don't think it was a circus act either. Instead of being on Tristas case I think we should incourge her keep on pushing for answers.

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    1. The only way she will push for answers is with a camera crew.jmo

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    2. "One shot on the evening news is worth 20,000 posters."

      -- Patrick Sessions
      http://www.ojjdp.gov/pubs/childismissing/ch3.html#ch3-1

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    3. Dana wouldn't you think that is the best way to get Ayla's name out there is in front of a camera. It sure works a lot better than staying hidden and silent through this whole mess.

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    4. He won't respond MM. He knows we are right.

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    5. "Therefore, for your child's sake, conduct yourself as if all eyes were upon you. Realize that you no longer have the same privacy you once had. Try not to be paranoid, but be careful.** Don't do things that might cast you in a negative light**....",

      http://www.ojjdp.gov/pubs/childismissing/ch3.html#ch3-1

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    6. Anon 4:43 yes but not to be used for chasing silence down the streets of Portland what did that accomplish? More searches would be nice.jmo

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    7. I agree MM the one shot of her chasing Justin down the street was worth alot.

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    8. I will tell you what it accomplished, it showed a side of Justin that we all knew was there even though there are those that don't see the coward he is. Why couldn't he stop and speak to the mother of his lost child? Because he knows he is guilty, he knows that Ayla is no longer with us and he just hopes it will all go away. We are not going away Justin. Where is Ayla. Be a man for once in your life.

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    9. Dana, you obviously hate Trista. If so, why the heck are you even here? You really belong at Voices where they just trash Trista all the time.

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    10. How can you hate someone you don't know? You can not like things they do or don't do but you can't hate them. If you feel that way oh well build a bridge and get over it. Who are you to decide where anyone belongs? If Tori asked me to leave I would. So maybe you should send her an email.

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    11. Dana B.November 6, 2013 at 5:03 PM
      I wonder why Trista would tell so many lies, to try to convince everyone Justin killed Ayla. What can it be she is trying to hide?

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    12. anon 8:06 Why didn't you answer the question? why the lies? why try to convince everyone Justin killed Ayla? What could it be she's trying to hide?

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    13. You know the blood thing who has ever heard a professional investigator use the term a cup full when talking of blood found at a crime scene. LE said more than a small cut. Who really thinks Justin and family wouldn't be locked up if there was a significant amount of blood found that would point to Ayla's death?

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    14. Trista did not try to convence this at first. She did not want to believe he could have done anything to Ayla until later when LEtold her about the blood.

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    15. Dana, you are now once again favoring sides. Why?

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    16. I'm not just pointing out neither is 100% truthful. There is more to this mess than any side is telling. It gets very sickening finding out most everything that has been said is a lie.If it wasn't then there wouldn't be all the discrepancies in everything she has said. You want to believe them go ahead be my guest just don't expect me to.

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    17. anon 3:17 did you ever think maybe Voices don't want me there. I read there once in a while they ask questions , but haven't read where they trash her.

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  6. Dana, your comment sounds almost verbatim of what Terri Horman supporters have directed towards Desiree Young, Kyron Horman's mother. Then, when Desiree organized a major search, she was accused of interferring with LE's investigation.

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    1. I agree Rose. The same would happen in this case, with some posters, were Trista to organize a search. No matter what, some will criticize the effort. You can't win for losing.

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    2. Trista needs to do the same thing Desiree did and have searches done Justin as well. Snow is coming and then another year. Time for the cameras is after the search.jmo

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    3. I don't see how anyone can say I am for one parent over the other when I say BOTH parents need to be out there doing and organizing searches. I also said the silent act needs to stop.

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    4. Maybe the maternal side is doing things without the cameras on them. If they are doing things to help Ayla with out publicly, then your angry about that too.

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    5. Dana, I disagree with you about the media exposure. Each and every time Trista speaks out about her daughter Ayla, the fact that a 20 month old baby girl disappeared under suspicious circumstances is once again in the national limelight. In fact, I recall when Trista was criticized for not speaking to the public after law enforcement shared the blood evidence slides with her. In my opinion, there is never a wrong time to speak to the media about a missing person, especially a missing child. Both Desiree Young and Kaine Horman have made a point to keep their missing son, Kyron's name and face in the media. What is concerning is when a parent refuses to publicly call out for their child. However, we can agree to disagree, I suppose.

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    6. Dee, you are correct. It is also a fact that Trista has been working with a legitimate missing child advocacy organization from almost the beginning of Ayla's disappearance.

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    7. Anon 10:47 if someone said that about the paternal side you would be the first to say your crazy. When are people going to realize the only victim in all of this is Ayla. If they spent half the time talking for Ayla as they did condemning one side and defending the other side it might do some good.

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    8. Rose media exposure is A #1 but when it is a chase scene down the street in Portland it was a circus event. The big PC everyone expected with question and answer session never happened. Now if it had that would have been great.

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    9. There was a press conference. I really don't believe the altercations between the mother and son DiPietros' and Trista and her father were planned events. I am sure emotions were high that day. It is also my understanding that Phoebe herself made the first offensive remarks to Ron Reynolds inside the courtroom. If I was in Trista's situation, and I had the opportunity to put pressure on the person who was the last known individual to see my child alive, I would have been right there in the courtroom and confronting him/her too. Honestly, in such a situation, I would have probably held less restraint than Trista. Justin had the perfect opportunity when he was confronted by Trista to proclaim his innocence and call out for Ayla right then and there. What was captured for the nation to see was Justin's silence and pathetic running away from the questions he didn't want to be asked. But, that's me.

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    10. I guess we have to agree to disagree. If you want to buy into the game go for it. There was no PC with question and answers and it was planned that is why cryin Ron was in the courtroom. I really thought you were a fair person until this last statement.

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    11. What does my comment have to do with fairness? Fairness to who? Because Ron was in the courtroom, the altercations between the families was planned? I would be in the courtroom too, especially with the hope that the man--who has never been held accountable for anything he has done to people--would at least be sentenced to spend more than a few days behind bars for assault.

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    12. "Justin had the perfect opportunity when he was confronted by Trista to proclaim his innocence and call out for Ayla right then and there. What was captured for the nation to see was Justin's silence and pathetic running away from the questions he didn't want to be asked. But, that's me."

      That's it in a nutshell right there Rose.

      I agree also with the restraint Trista showed. She's desperate to know where her daughter is but she didn't get violent or abusive. When she caught up to him she was simply pleading for answers. You could see in his face that she was getting to him. Had it been me, I would have been much less restrained.

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    13. I too read about a press conference. It was not as publicize.

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    14. Anyone have a link to the press conference? I have searched and searched...

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  7. Must not be enough posting going on the new private Blog to have DanaB posting here. LOL. On one of the Trista hating blogs the blogger starts out his post with "Since Elisha's daughter is a minor I won't mention her name" WTH They have dragged Trisha's children's name all over these blogs.

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    1. Apparently I have been out of the loop the last week or two. What new blogs?

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    2. Tori, I'm not aware of a private blog.

      There is .. http://voicesforayla.blogspot.com/
      Looking For Answers stated it about 2 weeks ago when Nina closed her blog.

      Anonymous 4:40
      "They have dragged Trisha's children's name all over these blogs"

      ....Who are they?
      One of Trista';s children, Ayla, is the reason for these blogs.
      How many video's has Trista done with little Ray in them? She has brought little Ray into the public.

      Who is the one that announced that Trista had to appear in court because of a complaint made to DHHS about little Ray?
      Leaving that open for discussion.

      Who is the one that announced Anthony's name.

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    3. Thanks for the info. I have been busy in my personal life lately so have not been on top of blogging plus trying to help on an awareness campaign for Emma Baldwin. I will try to update the blog tonight with a new post

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    4. I don't want to hear a flipping word about exposure for Trista's children when she has one of them in every flipping interview like a prop. Especially when u4a has a picture of Gabby on their blog calling for her to be taken from her mother. There is no proof that Elisha has done anything wrong and a judge ruled that her place, SAFEST PLACE, was with Elisha. Shall we chat about Ray Jr and Anthony and the potential danger for them being cared for by proven addicts???

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    5. Sure. Because Ray Jr and Anthony are in Trista's care, so that's obviously the safest place for them. What do you mean by proven addicts? There are admitted addicts posting on these blogs. You like those addicts though? What causes the difference for you?

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  8. How do private blogs help Ayla?

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    1. There are no private blogs. Just gossip mongers who like to cause hate and discontent.

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  9. I wish Trista would continue going to the media. She is way too restrained for my money. And she has been for way too long.

    Her statemenst and appearances are the only things the DiPs respond to. Anything LE says about them seems to wash right over their backs. But let Trista open her mouth and, whammo, the weasels scurry out of their holes to accuse her of hiding Ayla. It's mind boggling..

    Hey Justin, get your mommy and go get your daughter from where Trista has hidden her for two years!

    Rescue Ayla again so that you and Phoebe can take good care of her! Remember, Ayla is not safe with Trista or any of the Reynolds.

    Isn't that why you and Phoebe took her in the first place? It was about making a safe and caring home for Ayla, right? Not about the money from the state you could receive .Not about being relieved of support payments

    . So come out of your dens and go get Ayla. Perhaps you can rehire that P.I. whom supposedly you hired.

    How did he work out for you? Did you turn over his findings to LE? Or does he even exist?

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  10. www.forayla.blogspot.com

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    1. Has anyone else noticed the pic of Ayla on the new blog? In the enlarged version, it's clear that Ayla's upper lip is swollen in the center. When compared to other pics of Ayla there is a marked difference.

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  11. Dana you constantly say things digrogatory about the maternal side. Look at you past comments. At least they try to find the answers. It seems you defend those that need to come forward with the truth.
    We are not storming the castle with torches. We just want answers from the Depietros.
    And unfortunately, you seem to be defending them from questions.

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    2. The comment I had made was in poor taste so I deleted it. I don't need to call names to make my point.

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  12. Calling Trista';s statements, interviews and questions for the DiPietros a "circus act" tell some of us all we want to know about your true feelings. Of course the DiPs have not put themselves out in public to do anything for months but repeart, "Where is she Trista?" We don't know whther you think that is a "circus act" or not. I think it is one big attempt at deflection. "Don't look at us; look over there at Trista. We may have Ayla's blood in our house, but look elsewhere."" The DiPs are a 3-ring circus.

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  13. Ayla may never be found. I don't believe that's Trista fault.

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  14. I'm totally lost on your post.

    Attacks are ok, not so bad, because they keep the discussion of Ayla going? Is that the interpretation? If so, I'm sure there must be better ways to keep the discussion of Ayla going.

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    1. Well lets look at facts check out comments made when they are attacking vs when they are not. Just mention Ayla is all I ask. Try to get to the truth. In 2 years of Justin done it what has been accomplished? The story has changed how many times? DHHS is at fault, but I thought she was safe with Justin, Justin and I had an agreement he was to move to his mothers, Justin with Phoebe took Ayla from Jessica with DHHS help, I am suing, it's on hold pending.

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    2. The gist of it is, if Justin and his family would tell the truth, Ayla would be found.

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    3. The gist of it is if Trista could make a true statement and stick to it Ayla would be found. Lie once and it could be a mistake lie twice and your a liar.

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    4. Dana B.November 7, 2013 at 10:18 AM
      The gist of it is if Trista could make a true statement and stick to it Ayla would be found. Lie once and it could be a mistake lie twice and your a liar.

      That's a pretty strong implication Dana. Care to expound on it? Are you saying Ayla hasn't been found because Trista has lied? Where's your proof? Link?

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    5. Just saying if the truth was told from the very beginning this whole thing could have been over.

      Pretty strong implications saying Justin killed Ayla. Where is the proof? LE would have made an arrest if it were there. Oh but it is ok to say he did it I forgot you don't need proof.

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    6. Meant to say possibly over left out one word.

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    7. "Pretty strong implications saying Justin killed Ayla. Where is the proof? LE would have made an arrest if it were there. Oh but it is ok to say he did it I forgot you don't need proof."

      I have NEVER said Justin did it. I think it's possible, maybe likely. Don't put words in my mouth that I didn't say.

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    8. I think it could be a possibility too, but she also could be alive. With 3,000 anons it gets difficult to know when your talking to one that hasn't said it. Don't take it personally wouldn't put words in your mouth just stating generally speaking.

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    9. "Just saying if the truth was told from the very beginning this whole thing could have been over."

      If you're refering to Trista, what lies has she told that could have (possibly) ended this and made Ayla be found?

      She delayed discussing Ray in jail, so if you want to call that a lie so be it. She delayed talk of the last time she slept with Justin. I can't think of any straight up lie from her. It seems like she tries to be vocal for Ayla, and maybe didn't want personal information out, that doesn't pertain to Ayla being missing or Ayla being found. Anything that people have proclaimed as lies, are things that she and Jeff have tried to correct instead of leaving misinformation out there. It would be dishonest to leave the misinformation, not correct it.

      Is Justin included in this truth comment of yours? He's the one who LE has said is not telling the truth and withholding information. I haven't heard them say that of Trista. If they have, please copy a link.

      The thing is, do you want justice for Ayla? That's the name of the blog. Yeah, I've heard it, so many people question Justin, you want to question everything and everyone. Ok, then do it. Where's the tough questions for Justin, Phoebe, Elisha, Courtney, any of them? You don't want to question them because other people do? That doesn't make sense to me.

      Justin lies. At least by omission and 1/2 truths.

      And how about question tomato soup. S/he says Justin tends to his son. No one has ever said that before. Justin has to work. Where or doing what? What is Justin doing to find Ayla? These things are just thrown out with no question of their validity.

      If you want to question everyone, then have at it. If you only want to question certain people, then admit it.

      If you want justice for Ayla, where and how do you think her justice will come from? From thinking that Trista withheld personal information, or from the adults in the home who have withheld information regarding Ayla?

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    10. Justice is the main thing and I have never said Justin shouldn't answer questions I can't answer them for him nor would I try. I won't stick up for him and I won't stick up for Trista.Stating not telling all you know is not saying someone lied in my opinion. LE words things a lot different than Jeff or Trista would have someone believe.

      LE will not confirm or deny anything Trista has said on any blog, yet people @ U4A will tell you if Trista lied LE would say something. So do you take LE at his word or go but what is said @ U4A?

      So was she shown over 40 photos of blood or is it a fabrication how do you decide? When it is stated several drops of blood and you ask the question how many is several, and you are told several makes a bigger impact than a number what would you think?

      If a person starts out with the truth and sticks with the truth I can believe what they say. When a person keeps changing their story I can't. If you want to that is your prerogative.

      I agree Justin and family should answer a lot of questions but they don't and Trista doesn't answer any on the blogs either someone else speaks for her. I do not say don't question Justin, in turn I do not say don't question Trista.

      I am sure if Justin would speak I would ask questions of what he stated the same as I would Trista, Can the rest say the same?

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    11. So explain to me again how it is Trisas fault that Ayla has not been found?

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    12. Yes, but you can't claim the 40 photo's, or anything else to be lies, because you just don't know it to be lies. It's not fair to claim someone is lying without proof of them lying.

      Yes, LE won't confirm or deny anything Trista has said. They have, by comparison, confirmed and denied things that Justin has said and done, including his polygraph and the fact that he is withholding information about Ayla.

      I just don't think its fair to only question Trista, for the simple fact that her and her family are the only ones speaking. For me, the Dipietros silence raises even more questions of them. It really honestly doesn't for you?

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    13. Question Justin also I don't have a problem with it. Don't cry foul everytime someone questions Trista either. If she talks more and keeps changing things she is going to be questioned also.

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    14. "Question Justin also I don't have a problem with it."

      But you have no questions for him, just because he's not talking?

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    15. Justin said she was kidnapped, then basically clammed up, so he's all good, no further questioning needed.

      If Trista said "Justin did it", then clammed up, would that have been all good too?

      Or she needs proof and explanation, and he doesn't? LE said no abduction took place, from numerous agencies investigations. I think he needs further questioning. You know, to keep Ayla's discussion going.

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  15. Trista does nothing without cameras?

    Here are some of the other things Trista has done:
    print and electronic media interviews
    worked on the Case for Ayla with Jeff and the related Press for Prosecution
    repeatedly tried to get Justin to talk to her, privately, about what happened to Ayla
    goes to vigils and other awareness events (yes some involve cameras)

    She does these things while raising two very young babies and dealing with the loss of her firstborn.

    It seems obvious to me that her priorities are having Ayla found and getting justice for Ayla (hey, isn't that the name of a blog? :) ) and the cameras are incidental.

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    1. Maybe she shouldn't have had another baby. We absolutely do not have to believe anything you say about what Trista is doing to find Ayla. Unless you're ready to believe what you're told about what Justin has and is doing. Ray Jr is not a very young baby. Ayla should not have to suffer because Trista makes bad choices to reproduce while allegedly recovering from addiction while she's supposedly looking for her daughter. Let's not forget that Justin also has another child to tend to and a job. At least he's not reproducing more.

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    2. What have you been told that Justin is doing?
      How do you know he is not reproducing.
      Does he even see his other child?

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    3. How exactly is Justin tending to his other child? Does he have custody?

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    4. Are you serious?

      Trista shouldn't have had a baby? Must be nice to think you're God. You won't believe the actual things that Trista has done to find her daughter, UNLESS other people believe things about Justin, which no one has ever seen him do, besides supposedly a select few? That makes sense. What things has Justin done that you'd like people to believe?

      Ayla is suffering because Trista had a baby? I'm sure Ayla would like for her baby brothers to be well cared for.

      Trista became pregnant while allegedly recovering from addiction. That doesn't even make sense. An addict of any kind is forever in recovery. Anyone who has even been addicted to anything should never have children?

      You have an awful lot of hate. It's obvious. Not just for Trista but in general. It appears your heart is full of hate. I feel sorry for you.

      Justin tends to his other child? Really? Have you ever seen or heard of him tending to his other child? What does Justin do for work? And finally, how do you know he's not reproducing or trying to or trying not to? Are you his partner?

      Since you're so interested in other peoples reproduction, how much time has to pass for a person to reproduce after their child has gone missing or passed? I don't know what gives you the right to decide, but I'd love to hear your answer.

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    5. If you believe for a second it was responsible for Trista to reproduce in her then current situation, I have nothing more to say to you. You clearly have a brain that thinks the same way Trista's does. Further conversation with you would be detrimental to my IQ. I'd rather spend my time with my LOVING family enjoying their company than going round the bush with a brick wall. Good Day!

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    6. Ah yes, good day. Thanks for not answering to any of your absurd allegations. Your non answers speak volumes.

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    7. You have "friends" on here and other blogs who have admitted to having addictions and drinking problems. Your rash generalizations of addiction carry over to every addict, alcoholic, and persons who are forever in recovery from alcohol abuse, not just Trista you know.

      Ayla should not have had to suffer at her fathers house. At her grandmothers house. At her aunts house. Where are those 3? If they're doing something, anything at all to find Ayla, please share. Maybe if they even pretended to care people might look at them in a different light. They can't even pretend though.

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    8. I made no allegations... I stated my opinion and my thoughts. ok for you to do it concerning Justin but not ok for anyone else to do it concerning Trista. Get a grip... Not engaging in your ridiculous recourse says nothing other than your blah blah Trista is an angel, Justin is the devil blah blah is old and unconvincing.

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    9. You can say whatever you want and feel whatever you want. If you don't want to converse with other people, why state your feelings on a public blog? I didn't say Justin is the devil. I'm commenting on your own comments and asking questions, but you put this stuff out there, that doesn't really make sense, then don't want to talk about it.

      When has or does Justin ever tend to his son? What type of career does Justin have? What is he doing to find Ayla?

      If those questions equate to me thinking Justin is the devil and Trista is an angel then so be it, but you put this stuff out there in your comments.

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    10. The rumor is that the mother of Justin's son does not want any contact for her son with Justin. If true, it is understandable. But does Justin have to support the child? Or is the mother supporting him without help from the state?

      So much "research" is done by Dana B. and his crowd on Trista, but very little on Justin. He's sacrosanct. And how about his new GF who has a child? Wouldn't she be a subject for "research" just as Alex is?

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    11. The only research Dana B. does is what he reads on the blogs U4A, Voices, for Ayla, and J4A. So if he gets the impression Trista lies it is because of what you people say she said, and then it gets retracted and reworded. Maybe Jeff wants it that way I don't know. Seems she should be a politician.

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    12. Anon I don't know who the crowd is you are referring to.

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    13. You don't think Justin and Phoebe have lied? Or you just don't feel the need to question them? They both lied very early on and it backfired on them, and I'm pretty sure that's why they stopped speaking out.

      She blatantly lied about being home that night. He lied about knowing the results of his polygraph,,which LE refuted quite quickly. He knew he lied, he then even changed his tune to say, well I didn't get to SEE the results, they can tell me whatever they want, I didn't see the results.

      That sounds like they told him he failed. If they told him he passed, he would have been happy to say so.

      Trista and her mother didn't finish or take their poly's, but they said so. There's a difference between liking and agreeing with what someone says or does, and the truth being told. Maybe people don't like that they didn't take and finish, but they were honest about it.

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    14. Tomato Soup, re your 7:18 pm post
      No you absolutely don't have to believe anything I said Trista did (and btw I never asked you to) but you would be ignorant not to believe at least some of it since it is public record. A belief that something did or didn't happen isn't something a person chooses to fit a preconceived notion...

      Also there is no tit for tat in factual beliefs. Any one of us is free to believe what we want about what Trista does or doesn't do for Ayla as well as what Justin does or doesn't do for Ayla independently of what we believe about the other parent

      "Ayla should not have to suffer because Trista makes bad choices to reproduce while allegedly recovering from addiction while she's supposedly looking for her daughter. " I can't begin to fathom what this is supposed to mean. How does Trista having a baby during the time she is looking for Ayla cause Ayla to suffer? If Ayla is deceased, it is obviously too late for Ayla to suffer. If she is alive, and Trista is looking for her, what relevance is the baby?

      Also how do you know whether Justin is reproducing or not? What relevance is his current sex life to the topic I posted about and you replied to, which was what Trista is doing to find Ayla?

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  16. Tomato Soup is Elisha D.

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  17. What a snobby assed person!

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  18. Please tell us what justin does for work and how he provides for his other son. Further more you comment on Little Ray isn't that young, are you kidding me, he is just walking do you have any idea how hard they are to keep up with. Well if you truly are Elisha, which I am believing is true, you definitely didn't watch Ayla very good so I can understand you comment. Elisha where is Ayla? Why don't you tell your big brother to stand up and act like a man just once in his life and tell us what happened to Ayla. TRISTA DESERVES TO KNOW!

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    1. Idk if it's Elisha or not, but her non answers seem to fit her style. Why bring such things up then refuse to discuss. Then try to backpedal on top of it.

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    2. Of little Ray is just walking, I can understand why dhhs would be concerned about his welfare. A child who is nearly, what, 2 1/2? I would be very concerned about him.

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  19. My Gut instincts are usually correct. Tomato soup has so much hate for Trista and shows that she is all for Justin. The lazy ass mama's boy. For Shame. These people haven't got one iota for a heart, Evil, sickening and it definately shows in their writing!

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  20. Please God! Rescue Gabby! She is Living in evil. No child should be subjected to this!

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    1. Please God! Rescue Ray Jr and Anthony! They are living in evil. No child should be subjected to this!

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    2. OMG Elisha-with her comeback! You know your hate just shines right through Elisha. Would you like to have an intelligent conversation. Let's start with, Elisha, tell us your true thoughts about Ayla Bell? Do you miss her. ? Do you think she is really loved by anyone in your family? Do you think of this sweet baby when you tuck Gabby in at nite? Explain to us Elisha, how you feel everyday not knowing if this will be the last day you see Gabby. Who would you choose Elisha, Justin or Gabby?

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  21. Mam oh man! These DiPietros and their suppoters are the pitts! As human beings they come up negative on the scale of possessing any human feelings about Ayla. It's rant, rant, rant about Trista and her past from dawn to dusk. Everyone Trista knows is dutifully "researched" and found suspect.

    And Ayla didn't disappear from Trista's motel room. And Ayla's blood wasn't even found in Trista's motel or car! Trista isn't even accused of withholding info from LE. Trista's stories about where she was that night and early morning must match up with what LE has found. What a concept!

    How about researching the DiPietros and friends for a change?

    1. Who is PD's significant other? Why isn't the man or woman speaking out for Ayla? Like "Phobe was with me that night and we are both devastated about Ayla. I am looking everyday for Ayla,and urge you all to find her blah, blah."

    Nothing. Absolutely nothing is allowed out about this important witness to Phoebe being "out of range" of the "kidnapping". Odd, very odd. Who was Phoebe's alibi? Was she/he vetted by LE?

    2.) Nothing is allowed out about Courtney's arrival at the DP house. When did she get there? How many times did Courtney visit the old DiPietro mansion to spend the weekend with Justin? Justin didn't spend a whole lot of time at the Violette Ave. house, it seems. He's mostly in Portland about his usual business.So how many times did CR and Ayden actually spend the weekend? Was CR asked to come there as an added witness to the "abduction"? Any searches for Ayla's body in Portland?

    3.) Has LE ever searched places along Phoebe's route either to work or to meet her SO for great burial sites for little bodies? I'm thinking abandoned wells or septic tanks. Yes, I'm insensitive like the DiPietros. They don't believe Ayla's alive, either.

    If the DiPietros did believe Ayla was alive , they'd be worried about her care and condition with the ninja kidnapper. Not a word ever about how Ayla is faring with her captors. Is she being well cared for? How's her health?

    Instead we have Justin's "Ayla is probably adjusting to her new surroundings and probably thinks it's all a game." Thank you, mensa candidate, Justin. Yes, Justin. We all get it. You are one worried papa!

    Excuse me,I forgot. According to the DiPietros, Ayla's being hidden by Trista with some members of the unholy Reynolds family so the DiPs don't have to worry about her...as they worried before their Ayla grab about Ayla's care and condition with those horrible Reynolds!

    Now they can relax; Ayla's okay with the same people the DiPs grabbed her from. So they could, what? Why, give Ayla a better life, of course!

    Anything about the DiPietros, their stories and their attitude make sense to anybody?Nothing makes the slightest sense about any of the DiPietros and their houseguest, Courtney Roberts. (another one who never gets the "research" treatment.)

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    1. I think u4a has the research covered on Justin and his family. Which is why there are so many people questioning Trista now. I don't see any research beyond the media links and what is being said in fb groups. If Trista doesn't want her words quoted, she probably shouldn't have said them to begin with. For just one second look at Trista as a regular person. Forget that her child is missing. What would you really think of her if you didn't know about Ayla?

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    2. So basically plead the 5th like Justin, and no one will question you.

      Are you planning on discussing the subjects you brought up, or you want to just sweep them under the rug?

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    3. Anon, can you do what I asked above? Can you set aside Ayla as a factor and just look at Trista? Her choices? Her words? The involvement in her life of dhhs and LE before Ayla was missing? Is this truly a person you would trust? Someone you would befriend and entrust your own children to?

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    4. The problem for me, with your train of thought, is that from all accounts, Ayla was fine and thriving with Trista. Ayla was with Justin for just two months. In that time her arm was broken, a life insurance policy was taken out on her, she bled enough that luminol found where it had been cleaned up and then she disappeared. Ayla was lost while Justin had her. I don't understand the complete lack of empathy for a mother who wants to know where her baby is, not just Trista, but any mother that has lost a child and doesn't know where to find them.

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  22. I think you hit it right on with Tomato Soup being Elisha, she appears to have run off just like her brother once the hard questions started being asked. They are definitely related!

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    1. Do you not see your comments? Why would any rational person continue a conversation with any of you? You really do believe that anyone who doesn't agree with you must be a member of Justin's family? Not even close. When someone doesn't believe Trista or questions her words, character or integrity you all go apeshit. You've all proven the point that Dana was trying to make. Get a grip!

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  23. Get a Grip Elisha!

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    1. You're useless to Ayla, anon.

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    2. Tomato, why should I bother about Trista when she didn't take Ayla?I don't care about anything but who did something to Ayla. I don't care if Trista has inumerable babies by a Shiek from Saudi Arabia. How does that factor into Ayla's blood in the basement of Phoebe's home?

      I don't see your point. Do you want to forget about Ayla being "missing" and just focus on Trista's life of which hyou stgand in judgement?

      Why should I even consider Trista? She is not a suspect in Ayla's "disappearance". Although, of course all the DiP supporters and Reynolds' "researchers" claim she is the chief suspect. It's a ridiculous position.

      The DiPs had care of Ayla when she went up in some kind of puff of smoke... to hear Justin tell it. He has absolutely no idea of what happened to his child? Then what did he tell LE on Dec. 17th? "I have no idea what happened to Ayla." Yeah, right. He must have claimed a kidnapping and not a puff of smole took Ayla.

      What is the matter with Justin, Tomato soup? I mean is he mentally challenged? Just curious. He's still mommy's and sister's
      great horse's neck, isn't he?

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  24. Elisha thinks that she is a rational person? The Public has seen with their own eyes how rational you are. Get a Grip

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  25. It is TIME to do the right thing Elisha. Don't wait. Gabby will be fine and adapt well to ANY new enviroment!

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    1. It's TIME to do the right thing, Trista.

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    2. It really is time to do the right thing, and if Ayla is out there alive and well she needs to be brought back to her family. Let the courts decide who she belongs with. If she is deceased then for Gods sake let her be laid to rest properly so the healing can begin. Either way it can be done anonymously.

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    3. You forgot something important. Ayla needs justice, too. Somebody took Ayla away..perhaps alive, but more likely hurt, or dead. Who was it who took her? Who spilled her blood? Why was no accident reported, if it was an accident?

      Why have none of the DiPs or Tudelas expressed ANY concern for Ayla's health in captivity, if they truly believed her kidnapped?

      If they believe Trista has her hidden, why don't they go get her?

      The DiPietros and Camp Followers know Ayla is dead and either long since out to sea or "floating" down in some abandoned well. They kmow concern for Ayla's health and safety is wasted emotion.

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    4. It's time for somebody who knows what happened to come forward. Do the DiPietros associate with any people of conscience?

      I know some among their friends and relatives know that some kind of an accident happened to Ayla, probably unpremeditated. Someone panicked, and Ayla was thrown away. DP friends are saying, "After, all nothing could bring her back and no one should be held responsible for an accident." They probably believe that Justin or whomever found her beyond help. (although most people would have still called 911.).

      Is Trista so universally hated among the DP friends and relatives that they feel she doesn't deserve to know what happened to her baby girl? That's the impression I get. That Trista is so far below the exhalted class of the DiPietros that she has no right to know what happened to Ayla. She has no right to any closure.

      Was Trista supposed to abort and when she didn't, did she lose all right to compassion for her suffering at Ayla's loss?

      That is what I hear from Tomato Soup and associates. Trista should just accept the blood in the basement as "no big deal" as JD told her, and move on.

      Don't cause any unpleasantness for Justin, Trista. Don't expect any more of a story than what Justin and family have told you. Who are you, Trista, to expect answers? You are a lowlife out to get Justin in some kind of revenge fury because he rejected you!.

      I'm at a loss to explain the Trista hate, except in retaliation for slurs against Justin. But I sense a lot of fear for Justin, too. Trista could possibly bring him down. if we can make her not worthy of pity or compassioin, and harp on her mistakes, then by default, Justin looks better.

      In the face of a possible dead child probably tossed in a freezing river and carried away to the ocean, the Trista hate seems a little misplaced

      As far as LE goes, Trista is not being deemed as "withholding information". Her stories have not been denounced as not passing "the straight-face test", i.e. making sense. She has not been proved as being in Phoebe's house that night and carrying out an abduction.

      'Til LE poin ts to her as they have pointed to the DPs, I'll not waste my time on a hate-filled Trista "expose'".

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  26. Dana B. This is the only time that I agree 100% with what you just said. Ayla Bell needs Justice

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  27. Dana B., just curious. Have you ever followed another "missing child" case? I don't mean the ones like Elizabeth Smart where there was a witness to her actual kidnapping, Nor ones where the child was seen being pulled into a car like Jacy Dugard. I mean one where the child was supposedly taken from the home while the parents slept or were otherwise engaged. Any information on how many were found alive and brought back home?

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    1. None and before you slam me if Ayla was taken I think it was by a family member. JMO

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    2. That answers my question, thanks. No wonder you think Ayla is alive.

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    3. If she was taken by a family member, it must have been either Justin, Courtney, Elisha, or Phoebe then, because LE has ruled out abduction, and even that someone went into that house undetected, without leaving any evidence, and took Ayla.

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    4. I didn't say which side of the family, but yes Phoebe is one I believe could do it. Anon you are welcome and I am glad that is all it took to explain it to you.There is also the possibility Ayla is not alive, but I believe in eliminating the being alive possibility first.

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    5. Dana, that is possibly the only Ayla is alive theory that almost makes sense to me. If Ayla was severely injured and near death but alive and they found out about the PRR, they might have thought they'd have to produce Ayla soon and didn't dare risk it. But the evidence suggests a need for emergent medical care for Ayla to survive and we have to think the police are smart enough to check all the hospitals in reasonable distance... so that makes the Ayla is alive theory a lot less plausible. If they brought her to any hospital, there would have been an admittance, not just an ER passthrough, if she was spitting up blood and had both external and internal injuries. Police (wherever it may have been) would have been brought in. If she was brought in under a phony identity, that identity most likely would have been uncloaked through insurance records, interviews, etc. That all leads me back to thinking an alive Ayla is wishful thinking- no disrespect to your opinion, I just can't see it myself given the evidence the police have disclosed and their public statements

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