Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Investigators meet with Trista

                                                      
                                                    
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Investigators meet with missing toddler Ayla Reynolds' mother on Thursday
'We gave her specifics that we felt a mother should know,' state police spokesman says

Investigators met with Trista Reynolds, the mother of Ayla Reynolds, on Thursday for a review of the investigation into the toddler's disappearance, said Department of Public Safety spokesman Steve McCausland."I'm not getting into specifics, but we shared the status of the case with Trista, as we had with the relatives from Waterville," he said Friday.

So did LE have a meeting with Trista back in October when he had his meeting with the Di Pietro family? If not why did it take until January for her meeting? Or did LE meet with Di Pietro in January as well?
By their own admission they shared the status of the case with Trista, and also with the Waterville relatives.
If someone wants to know the status of something, they want to know what condition it's in, where it is, or how much progress it's made.
So is it the same as before on May 31st 2012? No person of interest no suspects?Has it only made progress in evidence they have uncovered?

Reynolds did not respond to a reporter's requests for an interview this week, but she has said that investigators planned to show her evidence that has been gathered over the past year since the child disappeared, along with items that were recovered from the Kennebec River during searches near the Lockwood Dam by state police last spring.


Did Trista not respond to a request for an interview because LE asked her not to? She had been very responsive to reporters request before this. These articles found in the river, do they belong to Ayla?


In October, investigators met with members of Ayla's paternal family from Waterville -- father Justin DiPietro, aunt Elisha DiPietro and grandmother Phoebe DiPietro.


In October they met with the Waterville family and shared with them the same status. Does this mean they had found no new evidence since then? Did a reporter ask Justin for an interview in October? Did they tell Justin the specifics they felt a father should know?
Doesn't specific mean "detailed and exact"?


An attorney for Phoebe and Elisha DiPietro has said the October meeting included an update of the investigation and a review of the physical evidence that has been collected.


If the physical evidence was shown to Phoebe And Elisha in the October meeting. Then why wasn't it shown to Trista at her meeting? They stated that they shared the same things that they had with the Di Pietro family. Did they find something more between October and January? If they did then did they inform the Waterville family as well?


McCausland, during a press conference last month, described the October meeting as a frank conversation with the paternal family. McCausland on Friday wouldn't characterize the tone of this week's meeting with Reynolds.


frank = characterized by directness in manner or speech; without subtlety or evasion. Could this mean that LE pulled no punches with the paternal family and actually made some accusations? What reason could LE have for not describing the tone of his meeting with Trista?


"We gave her specifics that we felt a mother should know," he said.


Then to make this statement specifics a mother should know? Wouldn't the father want to know the same specifics? What do you think LE is trying to say? Doesn't specific mean "detailed and exact"?


Ayla was reported missing on Dec. 17, 2011, by her father. No one has been named as a suspect. Justin DiPietro contends that Ayla was abducted. Police say a kidnapping did not happen, and they believe the three adults who saw her last -- her father, aunt and Courtney Roberts -- are withholding information in the case.
Ben McCanna -- 861-9239

Investigators also believe Ayla is dead. State police are asking that anyone with information call them at 624-7076.

I for one will be satisfied when, and only when LE is frank and specific with the details of this case with all of us. It has been a long 20 months, Ayla deserves Justice. I pray it is soon.






202 comments:

  1. "I for one will be satisfied when, and only when LE is frank and specific with the details of this case with all of us. It has been a long 20 months, Ayla deserves Justice. I pray it is soon."

    I agree Dana, although I don't think that's going to happen any time soon.
    From following Ayla's case I've learned ing missing children cases for a long while.
    I don't know how they do it. Certainly not if the same situations happen in all these cases. From comments it sure sounds like it.



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    1. Sorry.
      From following Ayla's case, I've learned.. that MANY have been following several missing children cases for a long while.

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    2. Then they should have some idea of how LE works in these cases. Yet, they do not seem to! Amazing.

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  2. The parents are not similarly situated and so I wouldn't expect police to treat them equally. Justin had Ayla in his house with him; her blood is there; he reported her missing. What police would say to him should differ from what they say to Trista, starting with, "This baby wasn't kidnapped. We know it and you know it. Her blood in your basement bedroom and [insert other evidence] proves it. Let's talk about how the blood got there and where her body is."

    With Trista their approach would be to keep her from unreasonably holding out hope. The evidence they choose to accompany each message may differ somewhat.

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  3. Anyone here going to the press conference?

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  4. From U4A: "I am wondering why some posters feel they are entitled to the information that LE has in an active criminal investigation. Posters seem so concerned that Trista will jeopardize Ayla’s case by releasing the information that she was given. Why then, do they expect LE to release information to their satisfaction? Just curious."

    Personally I am not expecting them to release ANYTHING until they are good and ready. Since Trista is releasing "evidence" before they do I would HOPE for confirmation or a reaction. I feel ENTITLED to NOTHING.

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    1. Thank you Foil for expressing my sentiments.

      I'll add that I am not at all concerned that Trista will jeopardize MSP's investigation.
      I also believe that their investigation is ongoing and not *anywhere* near complete.


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    2. "Posters seem so concerned that Trista will jeopardize Ayla’s case by releasing the information that she was given".

      Speaking for myself only, I am referring to the statements made by Jeff. Jeff has said that LE has ask Trista not to speak of certain things they told her, it will jeopardize their case, yet then he retracts his statements and says something totally different.

      What's the truth? Why the need for this?

      signed:getrealpeople

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  5. John, Penny, et al would you please stop fueling flame wars? Please? It's not helping Ayla. We're all here because we want justice and the truth. Please stop trying to pick fights, twisting our words. Please? We are not guilty of harming Ayla or obstructing justice. We are all taking time away to help ayla in any way we can. Why not show us all some respect?????

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  6. Back to lurking. I'm too emotional about this case lately. I wish John P would stop being such a passive-aggressive sanctimonious bully. John P, you don't get to decide who is "for" Ayla. You are not God, just a cult-like leader on a kooky blog with a dim following.

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    1. anonymous from maineAugust 21, 2013 at 11:21 AM

      Couldn't agree with you more Foil!

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    2. He's the "blog police", don't you know! He is out to discourage anybody, who doesn't think "Justin killed Ayla", to quit commenting (by being rude to commenters, apologetic to the admins, and just outright annoying).

      It's all about Ayla, isn't it John P.?!!!

      signed:getrealpeople

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    3. John is a bloody lunatic.

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  7. mountain mama says:
    August 21, 2013 at 10:57 am

    A quote from The AG’s office:

    “We were told by the Maine State Police in January of 2012, that more than a cup of Ayla’s blood was found in Justin’s Dipietro’s basement,” Jeff Hanson, Trista Reynolds’ stepfather, said in an email to the Bangor Daily News. “On Jan. 3 of this year, Trista was shown selected specifics and probable causes regarding the blood found by the Maine State Police in their investigation … and on Sept. 24 … the public will know too.”

    Reynolds is asking that members of the public urge the Maine attorney general’s office to “press for prosecution” of DiPietro.

    “We base our decisions about filing charges on the evidence,” Deputy Attorney General William Stokes said Wednesday.

    The attorney general’s office prosecutes all cases in which the medical examiner finds that an individual’s cause of death was homicide.

    http://bangordailynews.com/2013/08/21/news/portland/ayla-reynolds-mother-to-hold-press-conference-next-month-seeking-prosecution-of-girls-father/

    Well, gee, I guess all those emails and phone calls to the AG's office were for nothing...

    Do you think they could have done some research on who IS responsible for deciding to prosecute Justin DiPietro? (I think it has to be the grand jury.) Before they wasted our time and the AG's?

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    1. Since there is no body, does the AG even have jurisdiction? I wonder....

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    2. JohnP is sure worked up over this...Hey John! They have enough evidence to prove murder, but not enough to prove who murdered Ayla...DEAL WITH IT!

      All your faith in LE, but you just can't let the AG do his job? Jeesh!

      They need someone to tell the truth. Since none of the Waterville participants are stepping up, how about it, TRISTA? Ready to tell what REALLY happened to your long lost daughter?

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    3. mountain mama says:
      August 21, 2013 at 1:20 pm

      Anonymous at J4A said:
      “JohnP is sure worked up over this…Hey John! They have enough evidence to prove murder, but not enough to prove who murdered Ayla…DEAL WITH IT!”

      *** Just how do you know this to be true? Are you LE? I think not.

      You think not, but you don't know...

      Yet you all are going on the assumption that there is enough evidence to convict, or you wouldn't be asking us to contact the AG's office to pressure them to prosecute!

      Are you LE? I KNOW NOT.

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    4. Sorry, I forgot to answer your question. How do I know? Well I am just going off what your good buddy Jeff has been saying...there is unequivocal evidence that Ayla is deceased, and there are no arrests. You yourself quoted the AG as saying they go by the evidence. I just put two and two together. They don't have enough evidence to prove who killed Ayla Reynolds.

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    5. I think Trista is about to tell us all exactly what happened to Ayla. I don't think Dipietro supporter will like it very much either. The Dipietro's knew before Trista did and still have not done anything but hide the truth. The time is now for Ayla to have justice.

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    6. Maybe they should arrest several people for obstruction of justice then.
      Some one knows exactly where Ayla has been laid to rest.

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    7. but what if several of the people you arrest for obstruction are innocent? Couldn't that have damaging consequences to the case?

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    8. Anonymous 11:22

      "Do you think they could have done some research on who IS responsible for deciding to prosecute Justin DiPietro? (I think it has to be the grand jury.)"

      I did do a little research into this question.
      It was my understanding that a grand jury must indict before anyone can proceed to prosecute, in this type of case.
      Has that been done?

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    9. Can we trust what Trista says? Or will this be just like the trip to Portland that never happened?

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    10. There was supposedly a grand jury meeting about Ayla during the first 6 months of the investigation, but no arrests have been made, so who really knows? It could be another JonBenet Ramsey situation,where indictments were handed down but the AG sat on them, but I highly doubt it.

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    11. It doesn't really matter whether you trust what she says or not. She or anyone here is not going to convict Justin. If you ask the question what she says is not going to change what you think.

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    12. You are right Dana. I tend to do that when I've been lied to repeatedly, think everything that comes out of that person's mouth will be a lie.

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    13. Re: bringing criminal charges - from the Office of the Maine Attorney General's website.

      A Prosecutor OR a Grand Jury must approve those charges.

      http://www.maine.gov/ag/crime/criminal_justice_system.shtml

      ...it is the State that brings criminal charges against someone. A prosecutor or a Grand Jury must approve those charges. The name of a criminal case brought by the State of Maine will always be "State of Maine v. Defendant." The State brings criminal charges because it has an interest not only in seeing the particular victim made whole, but also rehabilitating the offender, maintaining order in society, protecting the public and deterring future misconduct.

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    14. Thank you Dee you got this legal stuff down pat.

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    15. John P says:
      August 21, 2013 at 1:41 pm

      Just how in hell do YOU get over the fact that a 20 month old, blonde haired, blue eyed, innocent ANGEL was murdered! I will not deal it, I will not accept it and if it gets me worked up, why doesn’t it get you worked up? Are you the one who did this to Ayla? Are you snubbing your nose at those who are worked up over the lose of Sweet Ayla Bell thinking you got away with it? Guess again! All three in the house can be charged equally under the law and those that obstructed can face equal penalties under the law. Deal with that!

      Mama edit out this whole last sentence if it is inappropriate but leave it up for about 2 minutes so they can C&P more crap. Anon at J4A you can kiss my ass if you think I am going to deal with it, and if you think Ayla’s Team will stand by and allow the AG not to find Justice For Ayla!
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      Whoa John! Watch the blood pressure there buddy! They could prosecute the three equally, but if they start pointing fingers at each other, who is the jury going to convict? No jury in the world would convict all three on the off chance one of them is innocent. What exactly would you charge them with? Murder 1? Conspiracy to commit murder? What if they claim it was an accident and they panicked? Now we are talking manslaughter, etc. You really think the AG is going to go for lesser charges like that if he suspects that Ayla was MURDERED? I don't think so. He is waiting for the evidence to prove murder. That is what I asked you to deal with, not the fact that Ayla has disappeared and was probably murdered by her father.

      Nietzsche said: Madness is rare in individuals - but in groups, parties, nations, and ages it is the rule.

      Your site is proof positive of this.

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    16. Dana B says you keep teasing a goat he will get you in the end hind that is.

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    17. I think we all need to step back and let things cool down a bit. There is a lot of anger coming out in the comments and we are not here to attack each other or people from other sites. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and your not going to change it by using caustic remarks .

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    18. "Thank you Dee you got this legal stuff down pat."

      Your welcome Dana. No, I don't have it down pat. I didn't know the answer either, so I went in search of it to satisfy my own need to know.

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    19. I'm not teasing anyone, I am merely speaking my mind. I come here to comment because I do not want to comment on Trista's site. I believe a lot of people feel that way. Yet our words are constantly lifted off this site, and attacked on hers. When we do the same, we are dark and evil. Whatever.

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    20. I thank you too Dee

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    21. The teasing comment was my attempt at being humorous, it wasn't meant to offend you sorry.

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    22. In Maine, whether a prosecutor alone or grand jury is required to bring charges depends on the Class of crime. Some Classes of crimes require a grand jury indictment. Other, lesser Classes, the prosecutor alone can charge. Generally if a GJ indictment is required under statute, the defendant can waive indictment if s/he chooses. Except in the case of murder. The defendant cannot waive grand jury indictment if the charge is murder.

      http://www.mainelegislature.org/legis/statutes/17-A/title17-Asec9.html

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    23. WOW, John P. makes quite the statement with his, "blonde haired, blue eyed". Somebody want to do statement analysis on that comment? LOL

      Why is he so obsessed with Ayla, and that she has to be dead (by Justin)?

      Very strange John P., maybe you should consider counseling.

      signed:getrealpeople

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    24. Who do you think subpoenas witnesses and presents a case to the grand jury?

      a. no one; people just wander in and start talking
      b. a detective
      c. the prosecutor from the AG's office
      d. a judge

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  8. Please light a candle in one or all of these rooms to show support of helping light the way to bringing Ayla home and get the justice she deserves. Everyone has fought the fight but now Trista has taken back over and will not let down. Ayla deserves better, she deserves to come home to the ones that truly love her. Everyone may not agree but in the end all everyone wants is for Ayla to be found, period. This will not end until someone tells where she is and that hopefully will happen because this war will not end until Ayla is home. She deserves better and she deserves justice, no matter who did this, they should pay. They need to have the shoe on the other foot and see how it feels to be out there and not know why this is happening to you. Ayla is just a child and trust everyone around her to make the right choices for her. Please make the right choice and bring her home.

    http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=WIA

    http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=ARAA

    http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=ARAA

    Nene_please

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  9. http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=ayla
    http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=ARAA
    http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=WIA


    Nene_please

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  10. From the BDN article 8/21

    "On Jan. 3 of this year, Trista was shown selected specific and probable causes regarding the blood found by MSP in their investigation."

    Probable causes?

    Probable- supported by evidence, enough to establish presumption but not proof, a probable hypothesis.

    Not proof, but presumption.

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    1. Good point Anon 1,

      Oh, but Jeff said it was "unequivocal evidence"!

      Why was Justin (and his mother and sister) talked to in October, and they didn't talk to Trista (and her boyfriend and his mother!) until January?

      Why the need for all of this, by Jeff, none the less?

      signed:getrealpeople

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    2. I read this as unequivocal evidence Ayla is dead and probable causes as to how she died.

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    3. Trista was probably shown some graphic digital re-enactment of how Ayla was possibly injured to match the pics of the blood found is my guess.

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    4. IMO I doubt LE would do that to a Mother, to Trista.

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    5. I agree with you Chicky.

      Anonymous 2:03,
      If you read the sentence that I quoted,
      it says, Trista was shown specific and *probable causes of ....the ...blood... found*.
      Not causes as to how she died.
      So what they presume about the blood found.

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    6. Well how else are they going to "show" her if not with a digital recreation? They don't have pics of Ayla having the actual "accident".

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  11. For whatever reason I am too distracting from the discussions according to U4A even though I never post there. There is WAY TOO MUCH CRAZY at this point and now we're being told we're going to hell. I have too much going on in my life to deal with the PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE attacks from U4A. They never name names, no, or back up what they say. Mountain Mama wrote an entire post to passively attack many of us here. And I have NEVER EVER defended Justin. I see nothing positive coming from my contributing here. NOTHING. U4A wins! I'm not giving up on Ayla, though! I want to free up my energy to be more productive. Let's see if they can stay focused on Ayla once I'm gone.

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    1. Foil don't let anyone drive you away. You comment here and what anyone else thinks does not change your opinion. In fact I wish you could do a post for us.

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    2. Sadly Foil, it isn't you. If you leave it will just be someone else. Kitty, Dana, Me etc... I told Dana to stop reading there and I suggest the same to you. Dana has been a much happier contributor since he stopped worrying about his words being twisted and used against him and constantly having to defend his words.

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    3. Looking At The FactsAugust 21, 2013 at 3:11 PM

      Foil

      Don't let them get to you. I second what Tori said. I stopped reading over there mostly. Occasionally I will go look if it pertains to the discussion here just to be able to contribute, but I have decided that is on crazy train I do not want to take a ride on.

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    4. I have a lot of stressful/sad things going on right now so it's hard to not let them get to me. I will consider what you three have said. Thanks.

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    5. Foil,
      Please know that your input is very much appreciated here.
      On the contrary, your contributions bring much positive thought and commentary to this blog.
      Tori's right, it's not you specifically that upsets U4A. It would be anyone who points out their errors.

      I hope you'll comment when you can. I do understand very well how emotionally draining this all can be.

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    6. Foil, I'm much happier now that I refuse to read any of the tripe at U4A. Every time I'd go there just to read, it would upset me so much. I'm sick of it getting dragged over here, too. I understand why it is, but why don't they just comment here instead of post their replies over there where they know their like-minded buds will agree with them and not challenge anything they say? It's ridiculous.

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    7. Foil, PLEASE don't let them get to you! Their posts are full of animosity of anyone that disagrees with them.

      You have other issues going on in your immediate life right now. Been there, done that! Take care of yourself and those that need you right now. Don't let these people get to you!!!

      Please take care of yourself. You don't need this extra stress at this time!

      My thoughts are with you for whatever you are going through right now.

      signed:getrealpeople

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    8. Thank you, Michelle and getrealpeople! I do need time away from commenting to take care of myself. It's one thing if people simply were attacking POINTS made here, but instead it's been the PEOPLE. Vicious character assassinations for over a year and condemnations of us having no heart/soul. That's the essence of bullying. It's hard to not let it distract and I don't think it's "petty" to confront it head on. It's one thing to feed the trolls but another to let lies about who we are as people go unchallenged. As an aside it's nice to see John P standing up to Penny this morning and calling her on her vitriol.

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    9. Foil...do take care of yourself. That must be first and foremost.

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    10. Yes Foil take care and be well.

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    11. I definitely understand, and yes...it is bullying. Take care!

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    12. I don't call what John did "standing up". All he did was molly-coddle her as usual. It won't change. They will continue to attack anyone who doesn't believe as they do.

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    13. I have to laugh when I see getrealpeople talk about other people's posts being full of animosity. really? What do you think all your posts to Jeff are? Friend chit chat? OMG. Interesting that people can complain about others doing something and not see the same behavior in themselves.

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    14. Why don't you try speaking for Ayla? She can't speak for herself. Jeff is a big boy if he wants to call GRP on something let him do it.

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    15. All of these posts and thoughts are about finding Ayla. BUT FOR THAT TO HAPPEN PROPERLY, you have to have honesty on all parties concerned. I have been tough for a reason with Jeff? He doesn;t tell the truth, only what fits.
      I am speaking for little Ayla, and not a day goes by without searching for her to bring her home. L.E. can sort the details out later.
      I would like to know why Justin firsts words to L.E. WAS Ronnie,go to his house why is that Justin.
      One other question Justin, I didn't see any christmas presents in the pictoral exhibit, why?
      There will be plenty of time to answer those questions in the future.
      You look great on tape Justin, hope your supporters keep that in mind. They have already adjusted that in prior posts, the walls are beginning to crumble, everyone stay patient.
      P.S. Justin how did that polygraph go for you, not very good huh?

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    16. Thank you Dana :)

      signed:getrealpeople

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  12. I probably shouldn't do this, however I am compelled.

    "Guess those judgmental DiPIetro supporters who began clamoring about Trista not speaking for Ayla for too long a stretch of time better be careful what they wish for"

    Primary Teacher,
    judgmental DiPietro supporters? Who might those be?
    Are you sure you want to comment about judgmental people?
    I wonder if I should list all the judgmental comments that you have made... About Ayla, the DiPietro's, Courtney, TLLOM.
    I find your judgmental comments unbecoming of someone in your profession. Maybe I shouldn't put you to a higher standard than others, but I do, because of your said profession.
    I know I would not want you to guide my first grader.

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    1. Anonymous 1 August 21, 2013 at 3:46 PM

      I probably shouldn't do this, however I am compelled.

      You should have stopped after "I probably shouldn't do this."

      Refer to what Dana said..."I think we all need to step back and let things cool down a bit. There is a lot of anger coming out in the comments and we are not here to attack each other or people from other sites. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and your not going to change it by using caustic remarks."

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    2. Isn't Elisha hoping to go into education...isn't she majoring in that discipline? I'd surely hate to have her for my child's teacher. Obstructor of justice? I wouldn't trust her to exhibit a defender of justice in her classroom. One child hits another and causes a bloody nose: Elisha turns her back on the whole scene and continues with her instruction?

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    3. Now you done it more syings time. Two wongs don't make a wite.

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    4. Oops sayings by an old Chinese man by the name of confusion say

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    5. Anonymous @ 4:17,

      I didn't see the teach refer to Dana's comment.
      Which the teach made AFTER Dana's remarks.
      I didn't see a comment admonishing the teach either.

      That being said, Dana is absolutely right, 2 wrongs don't make a right.
      I can't apologize because I stated my honest feelings.

      anonymous @ 4:50,
      I don't know what Elisha's educational goals are.
      I'd say to you, you're welcome to your opinion.

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    6. I agree with you Anon 1!

      Anon 4:50 pm, You have some proof of that? Are you the same Anon as 4;17 pm?

      signed:getrealpeople

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  13. ok no more attempts at jokes sorry.

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    1. It was funny!

      signed:getrealpeople

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    2. Good to hear from you. Where have you been I missed ya?

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    3. I think I am catching on GRP you work during the day.

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    4. You got it right!

      signed:getralpeople

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  14. Come on Justin, speak up for Ayla. Your efforts to find her through the media is deafening (NOT).

    Hey DiPietro's, what are you going to tell Gabby when she is older about what happened to Ayla? Or maybe Gabby will remember herself.

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  15. I’m sorry in advance to blanket all users here, but this needs to be said to certain commenters;

    I hope you never have to know how hard it is to watch you squabble over these small indifferences between blogs.

    I wish with all my heart that I could show you evidence now to prove how petty your tolerance for one another has become.

    Work has been done to raise awareness in the media and for the next month the world will be watching what you say in content of each other. All I’m asking is that you keep a civil tone until knowelege of this evidence has been made public.

    After which, I expect everyone will be speechless ..well everyone except mckeekitty anyway..

    Seriously, On September 24th we will all get what we came here for.. I’m done playing.

    P.S. Dana B; Good post and your timing is relevant.

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    1. This is the nail the blog coffin for me. I've been respectfully (until earlier today with my comment to John P) discussing this case since day one. I have gracefully brushed off unwarranted personal attacks. Today I had enough, and your comment makes my decision final.

      As for MM's comment that all that matters is Ayla, I disagree. We all matter and it matters that you treat people respectfully whether you agree with them or not.

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    2. Watch out Foil, you are going to get deleted!

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    3. sorry about that Anon 7:02, I meant to delete myself and repost (missed a "and" in a sentence - oh well). feel free to repost your opinion..

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    4. Unfortunately for you, many people don't and won't believe much of, if anything, that Trista says.

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    5. Or what Jeff? You'll start sanitizing this blog like you do your others? Delete comments? (Obviously, you just did) Blocking commentors? Define "civil tone" please.

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    6. Why wait a month, lets get it out in the open, Jeff. Your through playing, lets get it out right now then if it's such a breaking news matter. If the goal is really finding Ayla, then lets get the news out now then.

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    7. I hope Jeff you posted this same message on the other blog as I was apparently the topic of some posts there and I haven't even had time to read lately much less comment. I think people are far too concerned with what is being said in other places instead of worrying about what is being written and said on the blog they most frequent. It is petty and childish and then to have whole posts done that the sole purpose is to attack people who don't have the same perspective as you. I also hate the responses to someone here being posted over there and vice versa. If you read at one place then post your comment where it belongs. The ONLY exception is for those who have been banned or moderated at one blog and can't respond there.

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    8. Speaking of mckeekitty I haven't heard from her in a while . Hope your alright mckee.

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    9. I'm fine, Dana. Thanks for asking.

      Took a bleacher seat today...

      Too much BS.

      If the "unequivocal evidence" proves Justin killed Ayla, he should have been arrested...a year ago.

      Simple, isn't it?

      Justin hasn't been arrested. Guess that makes the AG a "skirt."

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    10. Good to hear from you, did you enjoy your time away?

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    11. Jeff, maybe you, and those at U4A should keep a civil tongue. You're the one causing the squabbling by inciting those on your blog. How long should we expect before you start making retractions about what you release?

      Are we not entitled to our opinions, Jeff?

      Why are you waiting over a month to let us know it is fact Ayla is dead? Do you not have any compassion for those that think Ayla may still be alive. The people that have worked hard to make awareness for Ayla and bring her home. You seem to enjoy the cult you have following you! One last question Jeff, did you ever meet Ayla?

      Thank you Tori!

      signed:getrealpeople

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    12. Hi Dana...I only took a break today. And yes...I enjoyed it, root canal and all. It was a good day to be away from today's drama.

      Jeff...why hasn't LE arrested Justin? The evidence proves Justin killed Ayla, right?

      MSP...what a bunch of Justin skirts, right Jeff?

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    13. Now I have heard it all. Oh I would rather have a root canal any day than argue on a computer.lol My wife had one and she didn't enjoy it.

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    14. "If the "unequivocal evidence" proves Justin killed Ayla, he should have been arrested...a year ago.

      Simple, isn't it?

      Justin hasn't been arrested. Guess that makes the AG a 'skirt.'"

      Mckeekitty, unfortunately things aren't that clear-cut and simple. You are probably tired of hearing this, but it takes more than "unequivocal evidence" to find someone guilty of murder in a court of law. There were three people in the house when Ayla disappeared--remember? Ayla has not been found yet. Anyway, I can't change your mind about anything, nor do I intend to. However, if unequivocal evidence is enough to arrest a person-of-interest in a missing child's case, Kyron Horman, Hailey Dunn, and others would have received justice by now. I know personally that in Kyron's case, law enforcement is convinced that Terri Horman is responsible for his disappearance. They also believe that he is deceased, although they won't publicly admit that. I know someone who has been involved in the search for Kyron from day one. The only reason why Terri Horman has not been arrested is because LE is more than 99% convinced that she murdered him, and there is a less than 1% chance that she sold Kyron. It is that less than 1% that has kept Terri Horman free. It is really hard for them to have an airtight case when they can't find Kyron. Kaine Horman clings to that less than 1%. Desiree knows in her heart that Kyron is no longer with us. These cases are so sad.

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    15. Michelle, and that is your opinion. I happen to believe that many people will listen and do believe what Trista has to say. Why don't you go to the press conference and find out for yourself how many people actually do care. Trista is still doing more then Justin has done or is doing. All he seems to be able to do is beat on women and hide.

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    16. That is correct anon 7:05 it is her opinion and she has that right. Just as you have a right to your opinion.

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    18. Oh jeff is getting delety again. And took down the recent comments widgets too! What are you hiding? I hope anon 8:19 takes ToriFails up on his offer!

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    19. Jeff never deleted anything today, he did delete ACCIDENTALLY one post yesterday and apologized. Dana accidentally deleted one today and just reported it. I PURPOSELY deleted this one and was going to delete some others I saw that were uncalled for and got sidetracked.

      Anyone responsible for comments personally attacking anyone should be ashamed of themselves. We are all passionate about Ayla's cause but no one is better or more right than the next person. Are we all in jr high school or adults here?

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    20. Some people can be pretty cruel without even trying.

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    21. "Some people can be pretty cruel without even trying."
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      Yes, they can Dana. I know I speak for others when I ask the comment above be deleted. It is a vicious comment that serves no purpose but to inflict pain.

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    22. I will ask Tori if she will do that.

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    23. I agree with McKeekitty. Anon 3:34's comment is inhumane and should be removed by the moderator.

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    24. Keep the comment, it doesn't reflect anything except how mean and spiteful the anon is trying to attack me by reminding me of the fact that my son is sick and could die. It isn't something I ever forget though, it is the forefront of my mind when we bring him to chemo every week, refill the countless medications he is on, set up appts for his surgeries.

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    25. I'm sorry you had to see the comment, Tori. I was hoping Katie would have deleted it before you saw it.

      I maintain it should be deleted. It is offensive to all of us.

      Imagine someone new exploring J4A and stumbling upon such a vicious personal attack.

      It was more than attack on you, Tori. It wounds many of us.

      As CG said...inhumane.

      I will not post again until it is removed. I want no part of a blog that permits such an insensitive and vile comment to remain posted.

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    26. Mckeekitty did I get the right one? I'm on my phone so it's complicated

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    27. Yes, Katie!

      Many thanks!

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    28. I apologize, I should have deleted it. I wasn't thinking about the feelings of all of you although you were all concerned with mine. Thanks everyone. :)

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    29. Thanks for understanding, Tori.

      It was a depraved comment that had no place here. It had NOTHNG to do with Ayla.

      I appreciate CG speaking out as well. I KNOW the comment did not originate from anyone at U4A. My guess...a mentally ill troll.

      I'm just so sorry you had to see it.

      I keep your son in my prayers.

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    30. Thank you McKeekitty. I would have seen it regardless, all comments come to my email as well so I can keep up even when I am preoccupied with other things in my life.

      Andrew is doing well, we have just made the choice with the doctors strong urgence that he will be on chemo for the rest of his life since as soon as he stops it, a tumor comes back. We finally found the right chemo medication that works for him and is not as invasive as having a port in his chest forever which raises the risk of infection etc. he gets 2 shots a day in his thigh and he takes them like a trooper. The chemo has worked to shrink the last tumor without the need for surgery so that is a first.

      Anyway, enough about my problems...

      @Jeff, the pages came out very nice. I hope everyone will participate in the awareness events and remember why they are here in the first place.

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    31. Tori said: "I PURPOSELY deleted this one and was going to delete some others I saw that were uncalled for and got sidetracked."

      Tori, it's your blog of course, but this is just a suggestion while you are deleting comments that are personal attacks. There are some still on here directed towards Jeff. Would you please delete those too? I don't believe in personal attacks against anyone, especially one who has tirelessly been trying to bring Ayla home. Thanks!

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    32. I agree Rose City, however Jeff asked that all comments directed at and towards him stay. The comment I deleted last night wasnt a comment directed at me, it was actually directed at Jeff and Trista.

      I didn't delete the comment directed at me today, Katie did.

      With that being said, if there are any comments on here that are a direct attack towards you, let me know and I will delete them within reason. There should be no personal attacks, PERIOD

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    33. Tori,

      My sincere best wishes are with your son.
      I hope that things continue and progress on the more positive side.
      My best wishes are with you as well. I know how stressful and draining it can be for a parent of a child with cancer, or any debilitating illness for that matter.

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    34. Thank you Anonymous 1,

      That means a lot to me. I have a good support system and it makes all the difference.

      Tori

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    35. Jeff, why do you never challenge Penny who continually makes the most vile attacks against us? Shouldn't THAT pain you, that she and others are trying to silence and condemn those of us who care about Ayla simply because we don't see things as she does? It has pained ME to invest so much time, and my heart, and the others here too, into this and to not only NOT receive appreciation from anyone in Ayla's family, but a scolding for being a detriment because we're tired of the attacks against us.

      "The few remaining of the old bunch and some new honest-sounding recruits are riding under a new flag, “All for Ayla!” . They believe that just thinking good thoughts ( except about Trista), Ayla will come toddling home."

      http://united4ayla.com/wheres-my-daughter/#comment-713552

      That is just one of her many attacks that receives praise and approval from MM, John P and I guess you?

      My time away is good in that things are becoming more clear to me.

      As for evidence to be released, to be clear, it's not the evidence per se, but Trista's understanding of it, correct?

      TIA

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    36. The way I see it is that anyone who attacks well-meaning, respectful people for simply discussing Ayla's disappearance is attacking justice for Ayla. Jeff please stop her and them. We need more people sharing their views.

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    37. It is plain to see Jeff is not going to say anything against anyone at U4A that is a regular.

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    38. Just because Foil has a problem with what Penny says doesn't mean Jeff does. When I read Foil's complaint, I'm not even sure what he's complaining about- not to hurt Foil's feelings, the claim Penny is attacking seems overstated to me. Which leads to this: if Foil doesn't like what Penny is saying, Foil should address his comments to Penny; if Foil still has a problem with the website posting Penny's comment after addressing it with Penny, he should contact the site owner, John P. Why should Jeff be expected to address Foil's complaints?

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    39. Just because Foil has a problem with what Penny says doesn't mean Jeff does. When I read Foil's complaint, I'm not even sure what he's complaining about- not to hurt Foil's feelings, the claim Penny is attacking seems overstated to me. Which leads to this: if Foil doesn't like what Penny is saying, Foil should address his comments to Penny; if Foil still has a problem with the website posting Penny's comment after addressing it with Penny, he should contact the site owner, John P. Why should Jeff be expected to address Foil's complaints?

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    40. I really don't think Jeff reads all the comments, he generally only does after he posts something. Most of the time, like the comment the other day about the fighting- he only responded because someone sent him an email about. He apologized to me for not looking into it more. I can't speak for Jeff but I can say he thinks all of us should spend less time on the blogs and more time enjoying ourselves. He appreciates all the care and concern for Ayla but there is only so much we can do.

      With that said, the most recent comments by serpent tongued penny of course will be received with pats on the back from everyone there and no one will say anything to her about her dragging on any blog wars. All I can say is we can be thankful we are not all filled with so much hate and intolerance and I am sure it shows in our personal lives. We have people who care about us and we care about and we try to see the good in others. People like penny are alone because no one wants to be around hateful people. I won't read over there because of how hateful they can be to others who try to be more open minded and not jump to conclusions. More and more people are coming to J4A on a daily basis, new people and people who have been commenting from the start, even on U4A but have come here with a new user name, people who just want respectful, intelligent discussion without all of the name calling and innuendo.

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    41. "All I can say is we can be thankful we are not all filled with so much hate and intolerance and I am sure it shows in our personal lives. We have people who care about us and we care about and we try to see the good in others."

      Now it's my turn to say...Amen!

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    42. :). Not sure why my comment keep adding square boxes....

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    43. The square boxes or did a smiley show up?

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    44. Or you could practice what you preach instead of engaging in name-calling and insulting everyone who reads U4A. For example,

      "People like penny are alone because no one wants to be around hateful people." Is Penny being alone something you know from a personal acquaintance with Penny? Or is it just a smear (i.e., an allegation created from whole cloth) because you didn't like her sarcasm?

      or

      "...the most recent comments by serpent tongued penny of course will be received with pats on the back from everyone there.." So now everyone who reads the competing blog is bad and shares a singular opinion?

      And Penny shouldn't engage in name-calling but you calling her hateful and serpent-tongued is somehow different?

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    45. CG that is very true. I for one don't know if Penny is alone or not. I do feel bad however that she feels the need to attack anyone who feels Ayla may be alive. She just paints with a broad brush and covers the ones that are here for justice for Ayla. Such as we are here under the guise of being here for justice when she thinks we are here for Justin.Nothing could be further from the truth I would not take up the fight for Justin it is for Ayla and children like her.

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    46. "Such as we are here under the guise of being here for justice when she thinks we are here for Justin."

      Dana, I am convinced that Penny doesn't believe what s/he is writing and s/he is very intelligent and would know better. S/he clearly has an agenda and will say anything to draw attention away from any sort of objective discussion by attacking people in a very cruel manner to deflect. She attributes things to us that was never said. Who has put him/her up to it, and why, is something we may never know, or perhaps s/he sees this as a game.

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    47. CG: "So now everyone who reads the competing blog is bad and shares a singular opinion?"

      CG, what is your opinion of the way Penny has continuously attacked people here, unprovoked, and viciously so? I have been one of her preferred targets. At one point she made a veiled threat that she later retracted when I called her out on it.

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    48. I never said Penny shouldn't call others names, she has been attacking individuals here, myself included for some time and isn't likely to stop. Her comments are hateful and she has proven time and time again that fact. I don't know her personally hence why I said people like her. I also said those who pat her on the back and encourage her when she says her hateful things not all who read at the blog. I also never thought of U4A as the competing blog. This isn't a competition of who is right and who is wrong. That competing blog started out as me and Jeff's blog when we merged.

      I have been attacked numerous times without any provocation as well as others here who are only guilty of refusing to attack Justin or call him a murderer and others who hold onto hope that Ayla was abducted but yet we are the instigators. A person can only take so much before they attack back, whether right or whether wrong, and as long as comments like Penny's are allowed to stay at U4A and not be edited or deleted and no warning given to her for her out of line comments, I will allow these comments here and may make them myself. I have had enough.

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    49. Foil, Is Penny commenting here under some other name? Because I remember pretty recently someone - not sure if it was you- making a comment about Penny saying something here that he had a problem with and I couldn't find a comment by Penny so had no idea what the problem was.

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    50. Penny: "The prevailing thought among the DiPietro supporters has been that the blood evidence is something exaggerated by LE and of non-importance. This belief will not change with anything Trista says. The DiPietro die-hards do not believe anything she, Jeff, or LE say. A few will never back down and lose face over something that Trista reveals, but many of their number seem already to have left the field of battle. For some reason. Did even talk of blood evidence on slides chase them off?"

      Who are these Justin supporters she is referring to? They don't exist. This is the broad brush example Dana refers to. She is likely referring to me as being chased off because I have health and family matters to attend to and got sick of being attacked.

      I don't know what kind of a person Penny is when not on her keyboard, but what she shows is someone not interested in the process of discovery of truth. Those who do not challenge her unfounded and unwarranted attacks are no better. The site management at U4A condones it. I am telling it like I see it. It's not an attack. It's fact.

      Until her attacks are stopped, people will be silenced. I wonder how many are afraid to comment because they know they will be her next target, and John P will be thanking Penny while MM winks.

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    51. CG yes, Penny often comments here "anonymously" but her writing style is obvious. I'm sure Tori can verify that the IP is the same person. I don't need to see the IP, though, to know it's her. But I have presented above two recent attacks by Penny. I don't have time to C&P them all but they go back well over one year.

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    52. CG usually when Penny comes on as anon she will start with something like people here are going to think I am being snarky. I have read many times at U4A where penny says oh I am just being snarky The thing is Anon says the same thing here about us as Penny does at U4A about Justin supporters. It really doesn't matter we are in this for Ayla . It usually occurs when we have been having a good discussion going with no one getting upset at anyone. It gets old being attacked after awhile.

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    53. She is painting with a broad brush. I don't know who she means but I would guess she was referring to the people who were involved with TTLOM, some of whom may be posting here or not. I don't think it's accurate to say Justin supporters don't exist. For example, Heidi pretty much described herself that way when she was interviewed by the local newspaper. And she was posting on FB and blogs. A lot of the TTLOM member posts have been removed so it's hard to address specifics, but if you look back at JSTL, for example, there were clearly posters who were defending the DiPietros/Justin to some extremes. Some comments here come across that way, too, which is not to say that's necessarily the intent of any specific poster. (And yes there are Trista supporters too in that sense but those are not addressed in this comment.)

      I guess a couple things stick out to me on this topic. One, politeness trumps rudeness. Two, disagreements needn't be personal. You can critiques the position without critiquing the person expressing it. Three, rather than assume attack, it's often more productive to take a deep breath, wait, and try to reread from an objective viewpoint.

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    54. CG, who is this lesson on civility, etiquette and objectivity meant for-- me, or Penny?

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    55. And CG it's true that there are Justin supporters, but Penny is always careful to refer to the "new pink blog." That would be here.

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    56. Most of it is an observation that applies to all of us. #3 I think might be a good way to respond when you perceive her comments as an attack directed at you and it is also a good way to respond when any of the rest of us perceive a comment as an attack. One think I have learned online is that comments often sound harsher than intended and many people who take offense aren't being targeted. When a real troll is about (and you are being targeted) the troll will often lob comments that are intended to inflame and otherwise irrelevant such as attacking your lifestyle or looks or honesty or something like that.

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    57. CG, I have no problems with you so know this is not an attack on you, but I have been online long enough to recognize a troll and am adept at being objective about myself and others. This isn't simply a matter of me, one person, reading too much into something and taking it too personally. For one, Penny does not know me, so she could call me Satan and I would chuckle. What is bothersome is that she deflects from the truth. It's DANGEROUS because we are not arguing about politics or discussing who should play Batman. This is about a missing baby, maybe a murder. We are here to help find the truth. It's a serious and emotionally charged topic. We need to be supporting each other in our pursuit of discussing the case. Penny is attempting to silence an entire group of people-- anyone who does not attack Justin. That is a barrier to justice.

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    58. "CG, who is this lesson on civility, etiquette and objectivity meant for-- me, or Penny?"
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      Bingo, Foil!

      Glad to see the elephant in the room finally being addressed.

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    59. Thanks, kitty. The bullying needs to stop for Ayla's sake. I want more people to start commenting. I don't want people to be afraid. You KNOW when Dana has had enough that it's gone on long enough. He's a very patient man.

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    60. I guess I don't see her as trying to silence anyone Foil. She expresses a strong opinion and is critical of people she sees as wearing blinders (my words, not hers) or having an agenda to defend Justin rather than objectively consider the facts as we learn of them.

      The idea that we are going to find the truth probably overstates our likely contribution to the case and is more of a wish than reality.

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    61. I'm glad you acknowledge that she is critical of people and not their points made. However, I have yet to see anyone here not want to discuss facts.

      "The idea that we are going to find the truth probably overstates our likely contribution to the case and is more of a wish than reality."

      With people being bullied and silenced it will guarantee a lower likelihood, however remote, that all of us can help figure out what happened to Ayla.

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    62. I'm going back to lurking for a while. I NEEDED to get this all out!

      Thanks.

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    63. You know what the saddest part of this would be Foil? If we let her/he silence our plea for justice for Ayla.

      Ayla gave we the people of J4A a pulse and a purpose. That is to continually speak for her and justice.

      I saw where she referred to herself as a wart hog. I don't think she is anything but a person misdirecting her anger on the wrong people.

      I for one am no longer going to allow her/he to upset me with the Justin protector name because she is not referring to me.

      I am just a person clinging to the hope that Ayla is alive. Until LE says we know for a fact she is deceased I am going to cling to that hope, and keep speaking for Ayla.

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  16. This is supposed to be a place where those of both sides could converse freely. What happened to that? Why are comments being deleted? Tori? Katie? My comment was not a personal attack on anyone.

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  17. I would like to say one thing to everyone if I may. Anything I say on here about stepping back or cooling down. I only say it so everyone keeps commenting, and that no one gets hurt or upset. I want all to keep commenting that's what we are here for. None of what I say is to hurt anyone, or make them feel they are not wanted. I think you all are a great group and I am pleased to be a part of the group.

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  18. Good point Tori, and well said Dana B... I'm far too busy behind the scenes to know all that is going on in the blogs and it was not fair of me to single out this one... just tired of it.

    But if you tone it down a little, you can hear the thousands of other people who have something to say here.. Tori, Dana B, you will have the stats to know what I mean.

    There is nothing wrong with a difference of opinion, It's indifference that we should not abide by.

    anyway, sorry to disturb. as you were :)

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    1. I call BS, you are only here to disturb!

      signed:getrealpeople

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    2. So far, getrealpeople, they only thing disturbing here is your continued bashing of Jeff. It's getting a big old. Do you have anything valuable to say in the efforts to find out what happened to Ayla, or are you here just to insult Jeff and act like a child yourself?

      I'd much rather here some of your intelligent theories. You seem to think Jeff is all wrong, so what do you think happened? Or are you just here to stalk Jeff?

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    3. I am glad you would like to hear some of GRP intelligent theories. When your ready to listen I am sure you will hear some.

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    4. I'm always willing to listen, but so far I see mostly attacking individuals. Someone who has a good theory of their own, doesn't need to attack anyone else. In fact, the more they attack others the less likely people are to take their post seriously.

      Granted, we all have our theories and opinions, that doesn't make anyone bad. So why do people attack anyone? If you are standing face to face and you wouldn't say it, one shouldn't say it here. Just saying.

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    5. Jeff, more people will comment here and there if the attacks on U4A against anyone with whom they disagree are toned down.

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  19. When you use the term seriously Jeff, you sound quite deperate. Seriously, I am going to tell, really Jeff. What I find funny, is what a sissy Trista's real father has become. Where is he? Are we all going to be schocked by what we already know about. You are becomming quite desperate to stay relevant in this matter.

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    1. Yeah, seriously Jeff. We are talking about a missing child. How can you be acting so childish?

      signed:getrealpeople

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    2. Where is Becca, Jessica, Whitney, Ronnie, heck any of the other relatives? Where are their voices for Ayla? Why aren't they backing Trista? Why are they so quiet?

      Inquiring minds want to know!

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    3. Anonymous 11:04 PM, where was Becca, Jessica, Whitney, Ronnie or any of the Reynolds family when Ayla disappeared? They certainly weren't WITH Ayla, like Justin, Courtney and Elisha were.

      I want to see Justin, Courtney and Elisha, heck Phoebe, Lance and the their family stand up and speak up for Ayla. but I won't hold my breath waiting.

      If I recall correctly, the Reynolds family kept Ayla safe and sound for 18 months, the DiPietro family could even keep her safe for 8 weeks. If Ayla had been left where she was, she'd probably be a happy, thriving little girl.

      Instead, she was place with the DiPietros and they couldn't seem to keep her blood from going all over their home and they want us to believe they were deaf and blind when she disappeared. Sick people.

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    4. "could NOT even keep her safe for 8 weeks" They really need to give us edit capabilities. LOL

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    5. Anonymous 9:08 PM, Pretty bold in your anonymity. Maybe you will be fortunate enough to go through all the Reynolds family has been through, then maybe you'll have a little more empathy. It's easy to bash people when they don't know who you are, isn't it?

      Walk a mile in their shoes.

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    6. getrealpeople, seriously? you call Jeff childish? Check out the mirror.

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    7. Who is Christopher Bishetto?

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    8. Wasn't he the dealer to Brianna?

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    9. I'm anxious to hear the answers to these questions myself. Oh, and I took screenshots in case Jeff decides to get delety again.

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    10. I have another question for Jeff/Trista. You said Trista signed a non-disclosure agreement for the "work" she did with LE, yet you still told us she did this "work", and we were told about her wearing a wire at the balloon vigil, and how LE "helped" with the text messages. So are you saying that Trista has done even more "undercover" work for LE in this case? And she never passed the polygraph, but they trusted her enough to have her do this work, even though she has blabbed everything else?

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    11. Stay patient, this isn't a one way street Mr. Dipietro has some questions to answer to, like the polygraph, and that goes for the rest of them. Stay patient, I know, this is about Ayla, don't ever forget that, Please.
      I think this charade has gone on long enough, we all can agree on that.
      This was clearly a preventable tragedy, we can agree on that I think.
      Thank You for that. This can be a very fun night, and perhaps some answers to those pesky questions. I am going to say a prayer for Ayla, I will be back soon. God Bless You all.

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    12. I wouldn't miss this for the world! My prayers to you and Ayla.

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    13. Well, since Jeff deleted the original comment we were waiting for answers on, I posted it on my site www.toriliesagain.com.

      Sorry Tori, I may have to change the name to Jeff lies and deletes.

      Come on by, Anonymous 8:19 and tell us what we are dying to know!

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    14. oops, its toriliesagain.blogspot.com

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    15. Something occurred to me after saying a prayer for that precious, and innocent I might add little girl. This question is for Phoebe:
      Why would you allow evil into God's Kingdom; when it wasn't warranted. This doesn't happen in any way, shape or form, without your blessing, from that fateful meeting prior to rehab to you lying to God by being present when we you were not on that terrible day in your life 17 Dec, 2011 at 0800am. God is angry about that Ms. Dipietro.
      Greed is a no no in the Kingdom, but you already new that didn't you.
      He also knows about the charade in Waterville, at the memorial service,this act brought great pain to him, now you can see, why he wants know why you brought these acts of deviance into the Kingdom.
      God is waiting.

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    16. Was that the meeting on Oct 12?

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    17. Or should I say Ayla is waiting for you?

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    18. got it back again sorry


      Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Investigators meet with Trista":

      Really they kept her safe. Then why was D.H.H.S. ready to take the children that were currently under the care of Trista. Why then didn't she give temporary custody to Ron, or Jeff, or Becca, or anyone else. The history of the family indacates that D.H.H.S. wouldn't allow it would they Jeff.
      It's time for this to happen now, and not in a month.
      Jeff, do you or more importantly Trista, know Mr. Christopher Bishetto, and if so how do you or Trista know him.
      Can you explain how, and why Justin, and Trista's D.N.A. surfaced on the sheet, if they haven't communicated in a long time?
      Can anyone in the family explain where they were on De cember 14, and into the 15, of 2011.
      Why didn't you go to court with the family, on that fateful morning, to file custody papers.
      It will be interesting to see what Karen Small has to say when the time comes?
      Has the medical condition been dealt with yet, so the polygraph may continue, with Trista, and related family members if no-one has anything to hide?
      If she hasn't yet, perhaps Trista wuld be open to E.M.D.R. Treatment, so we can explore all the pesky childhood issues. This would explain why Trista stays with abusive people. You know what I mean Jeff, if you don't your a liar.
      See we don't have to wait a month, Jeff. We can do this right now, lets go Jeff, and bring that sissy Ronnie, I have some questions for him as well.
      Like for example did you do to Waterville at anytime between Dec 08, 2011 and Dec17, at 0800 am.
      Why would L.E. go to Ronnies home and not yours.
      Trista'S Mission for that fatefull encounter in WATERVILLE was to gather intell through alternative means, that code for something like eavesdropping you get my point.
      I know what she said, would you like to know, what was said after the encounter, you know beside the road with the M.S.P. LT...
      Let's have the discussion now Jeff, RIGHT NOW


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    19. Yes it is. It would seem to anyone of common and impartiality sense. Ayla's fate seemed to be decided on that date? This was a very preventable tragedy, and that's what is truly sad. I find it incomprehensible that there were no alternatives for a stable environemnt for Ayla, other than Waterville. It's common knowledge that she was clearly a child abuse victim, but yet no real action taken on her behalf. Like I said in a prior post. It will be interesting what Karen Small has to say,when the time comes, and it will. God Bless to all.

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    20. I hope the time is tonight, as you said. God Bless you for bringing us the truth.

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    21. Why do you use the term fails again. I don't think you are a failure in any way. The truth is coming very soon.I don't like that when people think they fail and neither should you my dear.

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    22. I'm not Tori. This is my mean-spirited way of teasing Tori. I think that is a very fitting name for her too, Tori.

      Quite the contrary, you are confirming much for me! Thanks again!

      If you'd like, you can comment at my blog as well. No deletions there.

      www.toriliesagain.blogspot.com

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    23. I guess neither Jeff nor Phoebe are going to show up to answer your questions, Anon. 8:19. What a shame.

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    24. Didn't Phoebe work for DHHS? Nuff said! And I stick to my other post.

      The Reynolds kept Ayla safe and alive for 18 months, the DiPietros kept Ayla neither safe or alive in 8 weeks.

      And exactly who is the invisible Karen Small? Someone who worked with and knew the DiPietro family?

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    25. Trista was such a drunk that DHHS threatened to take away her kids if she didn't go to detox, how is that keeping Ayla safe? Jessica was such a bad mother they took her kids completely away from her, gave Ayla to the DiPietro's and Baby Ray to Trista's mom. Trista actions directly put Ayla in the line of fire.

      Phoebe works for the state of Maine. Karen Smalls is reported to be a family friend.

      Get your facts straight.

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    26. Why is Derek so antagonistic to Trista? I thought he didn't even know her.

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    27. "Trista actions directly put Ayla in the line of fire."

      So you admit that living with the DiPietro's put Ayla in the line of fire. Interesting.

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    28. I'm not sure why you find it so interesting. Obviously something bad happened to Ayla in that house, in my opinion.

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    29. Hey Jeff, how about answering Anon 8:19's questions?

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  20. For anyone who wishes to learn of our “Lighting The Way Home For Ayla” awareness event please go the events page. Everyone at J4A please join us in this effort for Ayla.

    http://united4ayla.com/events/

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  21. I think there are times when it is relevant to respond to a post or comment made at U4A, here.
    Many people are not comfortable posting comments at one blog or the other.
    It can be done respectfully.
    However, there are times when emotions and frustrations play a role. That's human nature. Most especially when you have people with such a vast difference of opinions.
    Just try to remember that.

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  22. getrealpeople and Anon 7:19:

    "the time for honoring yourself will soon be at an end"..

    Grace, the purple pills are not birth control..

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    1. Jeff, You are one self-absorbed person! It is all a grandiose facade!

      If you were truly concerned, you would not be putting down everyone that thinks Ayla may still be alive!

      What is your agenda Jeff!!!

      signed:getrealpeople

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    2. getrealpeople, stalking much? Can Jeff say anything that you can't find something to rip him apart over? Did your Mom ever tell you that if you have nothing good to say, how about saying nothing at all? If you haven't walked in Jeff's shoes, who are YOU to judge what he says or does? Pretty sad that the nice /kind folks (that claim to frequent this forum) don't stop and put you in your place. Apparently, if they ignore the fact that you are nasty to people, it didn't happen. yet they are quick to rip others from other blogs apart.

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  23. When J4A started back up it was so that people could comment and give their opinion.It was a place to go without fear of being belittled, accused of being pro Justin or pro Trista. It was a place where you could speak your mind as long as you were half way respectful.
    The last few days all hell has broke loose, people being called lunatics, to insulting people with sick children. This is suppose to be about Ayla, and not a garbage dump where you unload your trash.
    If you want to do that there are other blogs where no one is talking and they would welcome you there. This is just my opinion.
    Try to be a help and not a hindrance to creating awareness for Ayla.Respectfully Dana B

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    1. Amen Dana! Amen.

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    2. Dana, I think some people are running scared and that's why the attacks started again. There's one month until the world knows what the blood evidence is and I think someone(s) who already knows what it is are dreading the day and coming here anonymously to attack. JMO.

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  24. My facts are straight. Ayla did not suffer a broken arm during Trista's watch. She didn't suffer leg pains during Trista's watch. She didn't go missing during Trista's watch. Seems a drunk Trista knows more about watching babies than a Justin, Courtney and Elisha. I stand by my belief that Ayla was better off in Trista and the Reynolds care. You need not agree, the facts speak for themselves.

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