Monday, July 22, 2013

What can he be thinking?

What can Justin be thinking and feeling? All the scenario's that people have come up with paint him in a very bad light. It seems as if all that is said runs off his back like water off a duck. He will not say anything to the media to defend himself. He does not post on this blog that is trying to stay middle of the road. It doesn't seem to phase him that people feel he is a monster. Do you think he can really shrug this all off and not let what people think and say he could have done bother him? Could any of the people here stay silent if it was said about us? We seem to lash out at people when they can't see the point we are trying to make. It gets very frustrating when we write something and people read it completely opposite of what we mean. Our problems are very miniscule to what Justin is just simply not dealing with in public. Could it be he is so busy focusing on his daughters safe return that he just doesn't care what people think? If he knows that he had nothing to do with Ayla's disappearance then he doesn't have to worry what LE thinks. He just has to deal with the problem of getting them to focus on looking for a live Ayla. That must be very frustrating for him if he is in fact innocent and Ayla was taken from her home by someone in the middle of the night. Everyone is quick to make excuses for some of Trista's behavior because they believe she is an innocent, grieving mother but what if Justin is an innocent grieving father, could some of his behavior and what the public views as non-action be justifiable IF he is innocent?
                                    Please Speak up for Ayla !!


If it were me and I thank God it isn't I don't think I would be able to hold onto my sanity. That is putting it mildly.

                                                                   

40 comments:

  1. Good post, Dana.

    I have no idea what Justin thinks/feels. I'm sure he's in a very dark place.

    It must be painful to be deemed guilty in the court of public opinion. It must be painful to not be believed. I, too, would fall silent if my every word was met with disdain and ridicule by strangers on a blog.

    Shaming and taunting Ayla's father will not solve this case.

    Hopefully good police work will, but I'm not holding my breath.

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    1. I agree with you mckeekitty.

      Justin does not get the same treatment, by some, that Trista's family gets. " It must be painful to not be believed", exactly!

      MSP, in my opinion, doesn't have a clue as to what happened to Ayla,

      signed:getrealpeople

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    2. Also, why does U4A keep saying Justin didn't call Trista when he found out Ayla was missing? Trista's father had to call Raymond's father's phone to reach her. How could Justin know his cell phone number? (Of course, at first, we heard Ron repeatedly called Trista, but she was asleep and didn't hear her phone ringing. Raymond's father finally answered it! Trista was in a daze from having been awoken, in the front seat of a car, and didn't quite know what what going on! Sounds "hinky" to me.)

      MSP never checked on Trista, or the car she was in!!!

      signed:getrealpeople

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    3. Man...good to see you, getrealpeople!

      Really, really good!

      Yeah...the Machiasport story doesn't sit well with me either.

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    4. Good to see you too, mckeekitty :)

      signed:getrealpeople

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    5. Get Real People. It is nice to see one of Ayla's voices back speaking up for Ayla.

      You said a few things though that I was hoping you could clarify for us?

      Justin does not get the same treatment, by some, that Trista's family gets. " It must be painful to not be believed", exactly!

      I was just wondering how it is possible for the "same treatment" to be afforded to Justin as Trista when MSP has stated that Justin has not been truthful and not said the same for Trista. With this huge difference, I do not believe there a way to achieve this level of "equality"?

      "MSP never checked on Trista, or the car she was in!!!"

      I really do not believe that MSP would be so incompetant as to not have checked on Trista, or the car she was in. There is no indications that this comment is supported in any article, actually the contrary can be found when Ben described the interviews by detectives the day of. We have not been told of any other vehicle searches other than the two vehicle reported being seized. That does not mean no other vehicles were searched. Any help califying these points would be appreciated.

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    6. John our justice systems says we should all get the same treatment under the law...."Presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law"....not "assumed guilty in the court of public opinion"

      Oaklandrez

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    7. John...Trista filed for Parental Rights and Responsibilities less than 48 hours before Ayla was reported missing. As such, Robert's car should have been impounded on-the-spot and examined with a fine-tooth comb. I don't believe it was:

      "Fortier said the three weren't there for long -- in less than two hours they were sent home to southern Maine. Fortier was interviewed for a few minutes about their drive toward Machiasport, but that was it, he said."

      http://www.kjonline.com/news/closer-look-at-cases-earliest-moments_2012-12-17.html?pagenum=full

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    8. An interesting read for those that believe LE is infallible:

      http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/storyNew?id=131942&page=1&singlePage=true

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    9. @John P.-MSP has never stated that Justin has not been truthful, their spokesperson just said they do not "believe" the people in house are telling them everything they know (paraphrasing).

      If they checked on Trista that morning, why did Ron, Sr., tell Fortier to not wake Trista until they knew more?

      So, I guess, when the police called Ron he never told them where Trista was? Why didn't he give them Fortier's cell phone number to reach Trista. Or, for that matter, the number of the cell phone Trista had with her? You remember, the one Ron kept calling and Trista was so sound asleep she never heard it!

      Which story are you talking about John P.?


      signed:getrealpeople

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    10. Very good questions, grp. Be careful, though... you may get your Voice for Ayla crown stripped right off your head ;)

      Oh, John... I'm only kidding. Sorta.

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    11. I agree Oakland Rez, about the Justice System. Getrealpeople's comment was about the publics treatment of Justin however. That is the basis for my comment.

      McKee, I agree with your opinion too, but in two hours LE could have examined the car, could they not? It is your belief they did not, it is my belief they did and if they had found any indication warranting further detailed inspection they would have impounded it. Just a simple difference of interpretation.

      Classy Michelle joking of being a Voice for Ayla! (That is pure sarcasm)Instead of Getting Real, Get A Heart!

      GRP, That is fine if you want to keep throwing that "believe" up there every time you defend Justin. I have no problem with it. I can tell you, McCausland made a very powerful comment on Ayla's last birthday if you care to read it! As for who called who and whne with Ron and Robert and Trista and the LE, well hells bells, if you were there maybe you should do a post on it. I commented on MSP talking with Trista and verifying details with her that morning after she got to the WPD station. You can google "where is she Elisha" + "Where is she Trista" and you will find that story. But I also don't mind if you twist my words to suit your scenario of a parental kidnapping even though MSP has also said dozens of times, there was no abduction. Once again, have a good one GRP!

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    12. John...you may have faith in LE. At this point, I don't.

      The FBI never made a statement on the case. They came and went, but never made a statement.

      You assume Fortier's car was searched at the WPD. I don't make that assumption.

      Some very serious concerns were raised about the handling of this case from Jump Street. You can refer to the January 1, 2012 article in the Morning Sentinel for details.

      LE has made some sweeping statements. There was no abduction, Ayla is likely dead, the three adults are not telling all they know, something happened to Ayla in that house, etc. I'm not buying all of it. Nineteen months, and LE hasn't even named a person/persons of interest.

      Perhaps MSP can get a volunteer to update their website that expired eight years ago and get Ayla's name posted on the missing persons link. That might go a long way in demonstrating MSP's commitment to solving Ayla's case.

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    13. Nice try, Johnny. I was poking fun at you and your declarations. I noticed you're now miffed at grp for saying something you deemed unworthy, so it's all good. We're only a voice for Ayla when you agree with us. I get it.

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  2. Very nice post Dana.

    "It seems as if all that is said runs off his back like water off a duck".

    It may seem that way, but I highly doubt it.
    He started out refuting some things that was said in media blogs... only to be ridiculed.
    It's easy to say if I was in his situation, I'd do this or do that.
    Never having been in his shoes, I don't know what I'd be doing.
    At this point in time I'm sure he is guided by an attorney.

    Katie describes him as broken. I believe that, and don't know how he could be otherwise.
    No matter what happened to Ayla I have no doubt that his spirit is broken.

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  3. Thanks for the kind words. Hope it helps keep Aylas name out there.

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  4. Very nice post, Dana. I think it's easier to view him as a monster for some. They have someplace to direct their anger...why not on someone they don't know?

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  5. Nice post Dana. Thank you so much for trying to keep Ayla in the spotlight.

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  6. You people don't get it. If Ayla was taken. Why wouldn't Justin be out putting flyers up all over non stop??? Doing media spots on her. Complete strangers do all that! Who cares what people think!!! Do it! find your daughter. Most of us would be!!! Obviously he is guilty of something! ! That family has not done anything. It's a shame :-( Justin explain the blood please .... If your innocent why don't you be a man and take time, print flyers!! Oh that's right, might be hard to do that behind bars! Better get to it before Friday! Speak for Ayla!!!!

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    1. Anon, do you have tabs on Justin? I'm assuming you don't, Because some of us know he has been involved, helping with flyers, helping get Ayla's face out there, printing flyers, helping put them up and send them out. Just because he didn't step back into the spotlight AFTER he was publicly presumed guilty by a large mass of people, doesn't mean he isn't broken into pieces and falling apart. It really isn't fair of anyone to "assUme" that he isn't any of these things without actually knowing him.

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    2. Where are all these flyers? ? Why doesn't he speak out? Stop defending him!

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    3. Does he put flyers up in Waterville regularly? How bout Portland??? Doubt it! Ok I'm out! This is BS

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    4. Katie no one here believes a word you say. If this is truth where are these posters, why wont he speak for his child that ended up missing on his watch?

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    5. Speak for yourself anon 11:31. I never said I don't believe Katie.

      Oaklandrez

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    6. Anon 11:31

      Katie has nothing to gain by lying, and I believe her. You would do better to ask how she knows this rather than speak for everyone else here.jmo

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    7. Anon 10:41, do you remember when Justin told the media that he was putting up flyers about his missing daughter? After that is when Trista decided she was going to do that also! If you go back and read what happened then, it was all a bash campaign against Justin (custody battle), to her.

      signed:getrealpeople

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    8. No Offense Dana or Katie, I have no qualms with what you are saying. But getrealpeople, use a little of your own advice, please! Get Real! There is no way you can honestly believe what you are saying is factual in any way! No one knows when Trista or Justin "started hanging flyers! I can tell you when Trista started working with LNM, I can tell you when Justin stopped working with LRC, and I can tell you that these organizations both were hanging posters almost immediately For Ayla! Unless you are both Justin and Trista commenting jointly, your comment is just as baseless as the comments you claim to be baseless. Have a good one though.

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  7. I feel no sympathy for Justin. He's not a good guy and I am not sticking up for trista.
    Justin is being talked about negatively because of his actions and inability to tell investigators the whole story. His own kid went "missing" on his watch and he has been a dick to anyone who doesn't kiss his ass...he pushes women around and the kicker is...they defend him!
    F*ck that douchbag and his feelings.

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  8. "His own kid went "missing" on his watch and he has been a dick to anyone who doesn't kiss his ass..."
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    Veruca, every child abduction is done on someone's "watch." Sadly, kidnappings cannot be 100% prevented. That is why child safety fairs are all the rage...fingerprints, DNA, dental imprints, updated photos...in the event the unthinkable should happen.

    As for Justin being "a dick to anyone who doesn't kiss his ass", well, that is news to me.

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  9. Where in Waterville has Justin hung posters? I need to get out and post more and I wont need to go where he has already already hung them

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    1. Way to be, Laurie. Everyone knows how you feel. No need to stir the shit pot.

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    2. Nobody knows how I feel including myself since we have few actual facts and are left to wonder why there is silence rather than speaking, searching and helping LE to find Ayla. I change my mind every other day so don't assume you know what I feel without knowing me or even talking to me

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    3. I don't claim to know what anyone feels, especially Justin and Trista. Im as lost as everyone else and only want answers for Ayla

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    4. Laurie, it's great that you are going to go out and post some new flyers of Ayla.
      Living in Waterville I'm sure you know many locations that would be a good spot for posting them.
      Even if Justin, or anyone else, has placed one there previously, it would be a good idea to check. It could have been taken down, or torn, or dirty, or faded.

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    5. I have been posting them and mailing them out all thru the state all along. I just printed out a bunch more to post. Its upsetting that so many businesses have said no and wouldn't let me post them. I understand if they let one they have to let everyone post for different things but Ayla is special and important!

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    6. Laurie...thank you for all your efforts.

      I think it is terrible that local businesses refuse to post the flyer. I really don't understand their rationale. Ayla's flyer is hardly an advertisement or solicitation.

      It is simply a reminder that a little girl is missing from the community.

      A reminder that LE is still looking for that one tip.

      You might want to consider taking this issue up with the local media. Even a Letter to the Editor expressing your frustration on the matter might help.

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    7. Justin would most likely be the one to take down the posters, not put them up. He doesn't want her found because then we will all know what he already knows.

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  10. Coming very soon a new post concerning parents who were wrongly convicted. It is getting exciting with more people commenting and posting awareness for Ayla.

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  11. I highly doubt that Justin reads the blogs, facebook or any other place where they talk about Ayla. Why would he? He doesn't talk about Ayla because he knows. If he were truly innocent, there would be no reason for him to be silent and hide away from the media.

    Ayla is the only innocent person and they only victim here. Justin does her no justice by not speaking out for her. But he doesn't care about her, that's plain to see from the beginning. He never wanted her.

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