Saturday, May 12, 2012

The "Trista Did It" Scenario



Statistically, parental abductions are more common. The most common in fact. Out of the 800,000 children that go missing 69,000 are actually abducted. The remaining 731,000 are categorized as runaways or lost. Out of the 69,000 that are actually abducted, a whopping 82% are reportedly abducted by a family member. 53% of the time the child is abducted by the father whereas in only about 17,250 cases the mother was the abductor. In most cases (63% of the time) the child was with the parent who abducted them prior to being abducted, usually on a visit. Instances where the child is with someone else at the time of the abduction are more rare especially since it makes the abduction more risky for the abductor to get caught. In 91% of cases of an abduction by a family member the children are brought home safely, usually within a week. Almost all children are brought home within 6 weeks of being abducted. Only 6% are gone for more than 6 weeks and another 6% are located but not returned. Less than 1% are not returned and not located.


So, we know that parental abductions happen more frequently than stranger abductions and even though the majority of the time it is the father who is the abductor, it would be more statistically probable that if Ayla were abducted, she was abducted by a family member rather than a stranger. However, Ayla has been missing for approximately 5 months and has exceeded the time frame to when a child is most often found and returned to the custodial parent. In order for Trista to have taken Ayla and to have kept her this long undetected she would either have to be very smart or very lucky. If Trista would have taken Ayla and fled with her, I would be more inclined to buy into this theory. If that were the case, because in almost all parental abductions it is no mystery as to who has taken the child, we wouldn't be here discussing this case like we all are now.

Crying

Not Crying

There are a few people who have vocalized that we have it all wrong pointing the finger at the DiPietros. They are innocent. They think Trista did it because they don't like her or she went to rehab. She smiles too much, they can tell that Justin truly loves Ayla because he took her when Trista went to rehab. The DiPietros aren't guilty because buying a life insurance policy on a child shows they are responsible. The blood evidence doesn't mean anything if you tested my house with Luminol, you would find blood everywhere and so on and so forth. No one has ever presented a well thought out theory from start to finish that supports the "Trista Did It" theory. I have begged and implored those who disagree with the opinions of the contributors and commenters here to provide a theory of their own for discussion. If it was well thought out and based on statistics and facts, they may even sway some who are on the fence. They may even convert some who staunchly believe Justin is guilty. Why is it that not one person submitted a theory? Not only were no theories submitted here, I have not seen one complete theory submitted on any sites that believe Trista is guilty.

Reason like the ones above are superficial. The people who claim that they have life insurance on their child or know someone that does, did that person buy a policy only days after having that child come to live with them? Did that child go missing mysteriously in the middle of the night only weeks later? I don't think that Justin bought the life insurance policy with the intent to kill Ayla and cash in on it. I know many others feel differently. I can't comprehend someone being so evil that $25,000 was more important to them than their own flesh and blood. I believe Derek backdated the policy for Justin after Ayla's "demise" in order to help his friend out and in turn is knee deep in this whole mess now as is his family who knows what he did.

Crying


Not Crying

As far as Trista smiling too much, there are also plenty of pictures of Trista sobbing and crying real tears, how many pictures are there of the DiPietros crying? I have yet to see one and don't tell me the CNN video of Phoebe and her lies. She may have acted all choked up but not once did I see a tear expelled from her beady eyes. I also think Justin did truly love Ayla. I just cannot comprehend a parent not loving their child more than anything else in this world. I tend to believe that an accident happened and the family tried to do damage control, knowing there was nothing they could do to save Ayla, they instead covered for another loved one, this wouldn't be the first time this has happened. As for the blood, yes maybe some people's houses would have blood that was shed in it. Accidents that happen, bloody noses, rough housing between boys of similar ages, etc. but in those houses, how many incidents of bloodshed involved an 18 month old toddler? How many of those who lost blood then went on to mysteriously vanish without a trace? And most importantly, how many 18 month old toddlers who have a newly purchased life insurance policy out on them shed blood in their home and then disappeared shortly thereafter? Exactly.

No Tears...


Inappropriate Smile? 

Another reason people have voiced their disbelief that Justin, Elisha, Courtney and maybe even Phoebe are guilty is because they feel it is unlikely that 3 or 4 people could be in on this together without one of them cracking and telling the truth to LE either under pressure or in an attempt to save themselves. Well, if Trista is behind Ayla's disappearance it is very unlikely that she did this all on her own without any help from anyone and likely would have had help from an outside source, someone who is not related to her or an immediate family member in the least so why is it so unbelievable that 3 people who live in the same house, who are immediate family members and possibly the girlfriend of Justin who could be keeping the secret out of love or because she was the perpetrator or maybe she has no idea what really happened to Ayla, would cover for each other but not unbelievable when the same concept is applied to Trista abducting Ayla? A double standard or the result of no one fully thinking through the whole "Trista Did It" scenario?



I am going to apologize now because this is a long post and I know some of you hate it when the posts end up being novellas. This is actually the second time rewriting this post because I was trying to shorten it and ended up doing the opposite. I am going to lay forth a "scenario" placing blame on Trista using comments and theories I have read here and on other blogs. I do not think for one minute that Trista was born with the same super powers that apparently were bestowed upon her sister Jessica and that she was capable of pulling this off and tricking LE for as long as this case has gone on for. I actually hope that in reading this, some people who have continuously tried to lay blame at Trista's feet will rethink their position or maybe someone will come up with a whole different "Trista Did It" scenario, one that makes sense and we can work on getting Ayla back home to Justin. I believe that will happen probably around the same time that scientists genetically alter pigs so that they are born with wings, wings that can support their bodies and allow them to fly.


Trista decides while in rehab to allow Justin to take Ayla, she knows that for the time being that living with Justin would be placement for Ayla while she completes rehab. When she completes rehab she sees that Justin does not want to relinquish Ayla back to Trista, she is okay with this under the condition that she gets to see Ayla when she wants and have her for weekends etc. Justin agrees but then changes his mind for whatever reason. Trista then decides to snatch Ayla from Justin. To make things look good, she first files through the court for Parental Rights and Responsibilities. (Even if Trista was not awarded physical custody, there was no reason whatsoever that a judge would not mandate visits between Trista and Ayla. Trista had never been accused of abusing Ayla nor were there any protection from abuse orders out on her. It makes no sense that Trista would file for PR&R but fear she was not going to be allowed visitation so she took Ayla.)



The next day Trista decides this is going to be the day she takes Ayla. We do not know if Trista has a driver's license or not but we do know she does not own a car. In order for her to get to Waterville, which is 100 miles north of Portland, where she was and still living at the time, she needed to either borrow a car or have someone bring her to Waterville. Either of these options requires that another person is brought into this. It goes without saying that if someone drove her, they would know she was going to get Ayla, it would be pretty difficult to conceal that. There would also need to be a carseat in the car because driving on I-95 with a child not in one is likely to get you pulled over, especially at the tollbooth. If she borrowed a car, and even if she didn't tell the person where she was going, they would know based on the mileage when she returned the car and I am sure once the news hit the next day that Ayla had been taken from her home in Waterville the person would put two and two together. Whether or not they told authorities is one thing but it would be one more person that would know what Trista did and one more person that would be likely to tell someone else or even tell LE. If Trista were to take a bus into Waterville as some have speculated, once she got off in Waterville at J&S Oil, she would be caught on at least one if not more than one security cameras at the gas station, that location has at least 30 surveillance cameras, inside the store and outside. If she were to take a bus, she would still need to go somewhere once she had Ayla. If she went to the Fortier's home, she would be involving someone who is not her family and is no relation to Ayla. It is unknown how many people live in that home but since Robert and Trista drove to the prison to visit Ray Fortier the next morning and Ayla was not with them, someone else had to be watching her. Why is it so unbelievable that Justin, Elisha, Courtney, and Phoebe would be willing to keep this secret but expected that someone who has no familial ties to either Ayla or Trista would?

In order for Trista to even obtain Ayla, she would need to enter the DiPietro home without alerting anyone she was there and not leaving any evidence. Trista, who would be unfamiliar with the home since there is no evidence she has ever been inside of it, would have to enter the home not knowing where she was going or what Ayla's normal sleeping arrangements were. If she had been told previously that Gabby and Ayla shared a room, she would have reasonable expectations that they would be in a room together and have to know that if she woke Ayla and Ayla made a sound she was likely to alert Gabby as well who may cry and alert Elisha. Trista apparently got extremely lucky the night she decided to get a ride to Waterville and found that Ayla was not in the same room as Gabby. Since LE has said that it was impossible to open the window from the outside, one would have to assume that Trista entered the home through the door, searched rooms until she found Ayla, all the while maneuvering through the dark careful not to make any noises and even more cautious not to leave any hair or fibers from her clothing or debris from her shoes. She finds Ayla, picks her up without waking her and proceeds to climb over a table and out a window while not getting her clothes or hair caught on the frame or stuck on the glass or screen. She also had to make sure Ayla's hair and fibers from her clothing did not get caught as well because that would show that Ayla left through the window with someone and LE found no trace evidence from the window that would support an abduction. She then was able to find something stand on to shut the window, screen, and possibly a storm window if there was one. She did this while not drawing attention to herself from the neighbors and not waking Ayla. She then had to put whatever she stood on back or took it with her along with Ayla back to the waiting car.



After leaving the DiPietro's home, Trista would need to find a place for Ayla to go where she would not be found. Somewhere that LE would not be able to tie her to so there would be no fear of LE searching the home for Ayla. This person who took Ayla would have to be someone that was willing to go to jail for a long time for Trista. They would not be able to bring Ayla outside, they would not be able to have people in their home for any reason. If they had to leave the house for work or groceries, they would have to add another person into the mix that would be willing to babysit Ayla and risk going to jail for withholding the information regarding Ayla's whereabouts to LE. They would all have to be financially secure so that the reward money would not be a temptation for them to call LE and collect the $30,000 and give up Trista.

Trista Reynolds by day
Super Trista by night


Meanwhile, Trista would not have gained anything, she could never be seen with Ayla ever. She wouldn't be able to risk going to see her in case she was followed or spotted by a neighbor who became suspicious. Trista also has been able to outsmart LE who do not think she took Ayla. She has done numerous interviews and kept Ayla's name in the news even though it would be in her best interest to do what Justin is doing and hide out. She has managed to keep all focus off of her except for the geniuses at TTLOM and JSTL who are able to see through her manipulation. She has been able to brainwash LE, the media, and the public into thinking she is innocent and the DiPietro's are guilty. She tricked LE with her polygraph and made them comfortable with the results while not completing the test. She has even "planted" some of Ayla's things in the Kennebec River trying to implicate Justin in her disappearance. Her biggest accomplishment thus far is convincing the public that she is immature and naive when really she has an above normal IQ, in the super genius range actually, and masterminded this whole thing. She has succeeded in not being able to see Ayla anymore than she was able to while Ayla was with Justin. She has convinced many people to keep her secret even though they could go to jail for a long time for doing so. She has tricked the public into thinking she wants all donations sent to Lost N Missing but is really using reverse psychology and knows that people will donate to her directly. She is then going to use that $1000 that she has accumulated so far to pay off the people who have kept her secret and then use the money to flee the country with Ayla and Ray under assumed names and identities and start a new life in some random country.

Sound about right? Certainly sounds more plausible than Justin did it and those in the house that night are lying to protect him or that Elisha did and they are covering to protect her. The challenge is still on the table. Someone please give an alternate theory explaining why Trista did this, why she is continuing to lie to everyone, knowing that she will never be able to be seen with Ayla, let alone have her live with her. How she is managing to keep those involved quiet, how she has thwarted LE even the F.B.I. for this long when only 6% of children taken by parents are not found within the first 6 weeks? Please explain this to me and why you think this is the simplest explanation to Ayla's disappearance.




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189 comments:

  1. Out of the parental abduction statistics, I'd like to know further (whether father or mother), how many parents flee WITH the child, and how many send the child off to live with someone ELSE, in hiding. I'm assuming the number of parents who send the child to live with someone else is probably VERY slim to possibly none.

    Normally, a parent abducts their own child to be WITH the child. There are other reasons. I can think of at least a few, but none of them seem to apply to Trista kidnapping Ayla. Plus they usually end in a grave manner for the child, parent or both - which means they were WITH the child after abduction, for that scenario(s) as well. I also think, mostly, that the cases that end in a grave manner, it is well known that a parent abducted the child, the parent and child are together, their location was just not found quickly enough.

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    1. And, don't forget the fact that in order to DO SO,
      Trista would have to PAY for someone to KEEP Ayla in hiding!
      This is a single, young mother of two, battling a substance abuse disorder, and up until recently was living in a motel..

      So, Trista is/was just "pretending" to be nearly homeless and living on state aid?
      Meanwhile, she is ACTUALLY sitting on a vast Reynolds' family fortune??
      C'mon!
      :/

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    2. Kit if you click on the link embedded in "17,250" it will bring you to the full report of statistics of all abductions and breaks it down in a lot of different ways. I think you may be able to find more in depth statistics there. I only skimmed some of the charts that were related to what I was writing about and didn't have time to read through them all.

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    3. let me rephrase, all PARENTAL abductions.

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    4. Thanks J4A, for all the information provided. You always have great, informative posts!

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    5. Thanks Kit. I hope this post will make at least one person who thinks Trista is guilty or at least someone on the fence about what happened rethink their position. I was reading comments over at the "other" blog and it seems like the commenter who goes by "bystander" is finally coming around.

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    6. I so wish we had a "love" or at least a "like" button on here.

      Exactly! How is Trista supporting Ayla financially as well as keeping all of these people involved quiet when they could very easily call LE and collect $30,000?

      Justin, Elisha, Courtney, Phoebe, and Lance wouldn't be eligible because they are family except for Courtney who would be implicating herself if she tried to collect the reward money. I also find it ridiculously ABSURD that those on the other blog would insinuate that Jeff only let Trista live with him so he could cash in on the reward money. How would that even be possible? If Jeff found Ayla, he wouldn't be eligible for the reward either nor would Trista.

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    7. OMG!!
      They actually insinuated that Jeff Hanson is "only helping Trista", in order to cash-in on the potential reward money?
      Bwahahahaha!!
      :'D

      I haven't been frequenting "certain blogsites" recently, so, I completely missed this one.
      [Thanks for the laugh!]

      They certainly seem to be getting(even MORE) desperate with their baseless accusations..
      WTH?!?!

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    8. And don't forget about the texts. Trista would have had to fool the DiPs long enough into thinking that she did not have Ayla or the texts from Justin would have been demanding Aylas return. I do believe they would have released Justins side of the texts if he felt Trista had Ayla then!

      Q: Why do not of the texts to Justin deny having Ayla?
      A: Because they never accused her publically or privately until all other defense "scams" had been debunked as male bovine fecal matter!

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  2. I think you covered everything TG. Well said!

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  3. Awesome post J4A!!!
    I love the comic clip-art you dug up for "Super Trista", too!
    I'm sure you will get exactly zero alternate theory submissions, and about a zillion attempts to pick apart your synopsis detail by detail...yet again.
    But, I'm glad you're still willing to try, for Ayla's sake!
    :D

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    1. Thanks NannieB and VTLady. I was going to use the picture of "Super Trista" in the post on "Super Jessica" but liked the Wonder Woman one better. I am glad I saved it so I had it for this post. ;)

      I am sure I will be picked apart for this post but you are right, I doubt there will be any takers who submit a more plausible scenario.

      I also have already seen on facebook, people have looked at the title and not read the article and have started the rumor that I am now blaming Trista. I love how people selectively read things. :/

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    2. Wow! LOL regarding the facebook rumors!

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    3. Lol, J4A!
      You'd THINK people could at least grasp the difference between labeling a theory as "THE Trista Did It Scenario" vs. "MY Trista Did It Scenario".
      ...Hello??
      :/

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    4. And in the title is the word "scenario". Read before judging J4A? That is a new concept I don't think I can grasp.

      The funny thing, I went out to mow the yard hoping when I came back inside, I would see where an arrest had been made concerning the new items found in the Kennebec. I instead saw a new post "The Trista Did it Scenario". And my first thought was someone actually took you up on your offer to post thier story. Then I read just the first 2 paragraphs and new exactly where this story was heading. Unfortunately, "some people" will twist anything. nd that is exactly what it is is a twist because you showed how little common sense they use in fabricating these "excuses"!!!

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  4. I certainly don't have an explanation but I happen to agree with you. It makes no sense to me that Trista would even try the abduction. 100% agreement with you, most of your readers. Real good question about why SOMEONE won't write their theory about Trista/Ayla's "abduction", on your blog. Interesting! They find it so believable, yet won't speak it here, even if begged. The whole thing is a lie/scam, including the famous blog of theirs', they are not going to comment here, afraid! I know you must read there sometimes, and you have to agree-some bizarre comments, almost scarey. I think they are afraid of being exposed, in some way or another, on here. So they stay on there, continues to BS with nasty little personal comments about you(what did you ever do to her/him in the first place?), and their vile nonsense about Trista, this blog, etc. I like reading here, thanks to all authors. And I will continue to read here. SO WHY WON'T YOU COMMENT??

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    1. YEAH-COME ON-Now! BRING IT ON!! You are so sure it was Trista-or Becca-or Jeff-or Amanda-or Trista's friends or relatives...does the list go on? Santa Claus? The Grinch? An anonymous couple from Canada? Open up, explain yourselves...

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    2. I agree, I think that when they do come here, they resort to personal attacks on my or question me personally and never really refute what I write with plausible alternate scenarios.

      I try not to read at that blog, although many people send me screenshots of comments they find disturbing or questionable and sometimes I will go look. I was attacked personally by that blog before I ever retaliated and I personally have stopped responding to her since I posted my theory on who she was but the personal attacks on my continue. I think they are pathetic and petty and show the blog owners true character and the character of those who comment there and support the blog.

      I would love someone to present an alternate theory that is complete that implicates Trista, even if not on here, then somewhere but I think we will never see that because everyone knows it makes no sense.

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    3. Yes, the comments on you are petty, and personal, but disturbing to me because they are slanderous and violate HIPPA rights protecting your privacy. She/IT won't even publish a one-liner comment from me, I stopped a long time ago even trying to comment there. And that is fine with me. But, as I said, some of the comments-excluding the personal ones about you-are strange. Someone connected to the case.I hope LE is still viewing it.

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    4. One more name to add to the list So.Tx. is the originally accused Justin Linnel who could not tell the difference between Ayla and Gabby!

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    5. Oh yeah-who happens to be his own kid! I am sure we can think of more, but, if they are reading, wouldn't want to hurt their feelings, now, would we?? They should all be ashamed of themselves. But they are not.

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  5. I thought at the beginning that one of the parents placed Ayla elsewhere. Then I eliminated Trista as I found it impossible for her to have done so. I have tried and can'r come up with one. That was a long time ago.
    I did read / see that Trista had been in the house in Waterville after Justin had Ayla. It was when they showed the room that Gabby & Ayla shared and the 2 toddler beds.
    Even knowing what room doesn't make it possible for her to have taken Ayla or got someone else to take Ayla and then hide her.
    ..
    Now, I am with the accident theory in the house or elsewhere: Ayla was severly injured, no one took her to an ER room or made a 911 call.That makes everyone who didn't act on Ayla's behalf guilty to some degree.
    A lesser charge like criminal negligence would have serious implications to anyone's future. If you had children, those children of yours would be taken by DHHS. A conviction means a job loss or no hope of a job in the future.
    Who cried, who doesn't cry, who ate birthday cake,who planted a tree are distractions. Who lied, who is silent, who is putting up billboards in far away places is at the crux.
    ...
    to be continued ... a Canadian friend.

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    1. You brought up a very interesting point ACF! A criminal negligence charge could have serious implications and lead to job loss. Especially someone who has a job working with children, like Elisha who works at Educare. She also would most likely have Gabby taken out of her custody, many parents who have missing children have lost custody of the other children in the home even though they have not been found guilty of murdering them. I think this certainly warrants further discussion. I have my next topic for a blog post. :) Thank You!

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    2. Other professions too!(ie Courtney). You guys are right about alot of things, this included. Not only would they lose custody of their kids, it would ruin them professionally. both ED and CR supposedly trying to educate themselves to a profession. Hell, never you mind that! Just looks really bad for all of them, some with more to lose than others. A bad reputation for anyone. So they all agreed to keep it secret. And everytime anything new found out, they start back up with Trista. They, meaning the family owned and operated blog, and how they operate through them. Makes me sick. They don't give a rat's ass about Ayla.

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  6. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    This post is amazing. LOVE IT.

    I believe that IF Trista were to have kidnapped Ayla, then it would have happened later, after the court ruling about custody.

    Also, I believe that the court would have seen Ayla as abused in Justin's care, so custody would have gone to Trista. She would also get child support from Justin to support Ayla.

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    1. Thanks Megan, I was worried that some would be put off reading it because of the length of it. I tried to modify it but it just kept getting longer. :) I agree, if Trista were going to abduct Ayla, why not do it AFTER the court ruling if the courts ruled against her which I highly doubt they would have. Even if they allowed Justin to retain physical custody of Ayla they would have mandated that Trista be allowed visits, worst case scenario supervised visits. Christ, Josh Powell was allowed visits with his children!

      If she were going to abduct Ayla, it likely would have been out of desperation after the courts ruled against her.

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    2. It would even have made sense to wait on the ruling EVEN IF she was determined to take Ayla, regardless of the outcome, actually...

      How much EASIER would it have been, to just abscond with her daughter DURING one of the scheduled "visitations", had the court ruled in her favor??? Much easier than a risky B&E to a tiny house she wasn't very familiar with!

      She had absolutely NOTHING TO LOSE by waiting for the ruling, because she STILL could've snuck into the DiP house, and "snatched Ayla from her bed" had the ruling been against her, at some later date??

      I mean, if Trista is clever ENOUGH to (supposedly) have "fooled" THREE law-enforcement agencies, the media, AND the public at-large...

      SURELY it can be assumed she's also smart enough to figure out it would be better to WAIT for the ruling BEFORE making the grab, yes???
      :/

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    3. Good point about Josh Powell! Trista is awarded visits/full custody and then she runs away.

      This case reminds me so much of Caylee Anthony- all I keep hearing in my head is whose life was better with Caylee (or Ayla) gone?
      Who makes an accident look like a murder?

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    4. Only someone trying to cover their own guilty ass with another lie would come up with some of the elaborate schemes they have(about Trista). I only hope it doesn't work, they dig themselves in deeper with every additional lie. I hate the fact that none of them can be charged with some sort of neglect. All saying they are not responsible. Then who is? Isn't this the same as saying you can have a kid, nobody holds you accountable for what happens to the kid?

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    5. what's important?May 12, 2012 at 2:48 PM

      I don't claim to know what happened with Ayla. It's so hard to know what to believe. When you mentioned "clever enough" VTLady, I wondered if ANYBODY in either family is "clever enough" to keep this going for 5 months. Wouldn't guilt or conscience or a weak moment under the influence of something make someone in the spotlight speak?

      In looking at all sides I have considered several scenarios: if someone in the house is responsible - 1. it was an accident from which she passed instantly, possibly drugs involved, and the restricted thinking of those under the influence, and the fear of losing the other children led to a cover-up; or 2. Courtney left with Ayla and came back without her..... if someone in Trista's family is responsible - Trista stopped by Violette Ave. to check on her daughter early morning the 17th when she was on her way to the prison, she could have knocked and with no answer, tried the door which was unlocked, and went in, heard Ayla crying, saw no one was paying attention to her and in a spontaneous instinctual moment, took her..... if someone outside the family is responsible - I wonder who either parent knows that might want to hurt them AND I wonder about anyone that had spent time at the house, that might have had a fascination with Ayla, who they haven't heard from since.

      All that said, I feel that love is the strongest force in the world and there is none stronger than the love of a mother. Mothers will do just about anything for their child. Obviously, there are some exceptions to that. But a mother's love is infinitely more prevalent in society than murder is. Yes, there is murder, and evil... bad things do happen. I am a mother and grandmother myself, and know many others (as we obviously all do) so that is a big part of my perspective and it influences my thoughts about what could have happened to Ayla.

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  7. Here in sunny Canada today, you are placed on a child abuse registry if even a complaint was made against you.
    If you even apply to teach, coach anything with kids, apply for a position even as a volunteer, you are checked out with the regisrty. Get a hit, you are not allowed to be around children. Sometimes even for a job not around children the criminal record check is made and then you get to explain yourself. The ramifications into your entire future are tremendous. That is the reason I can see why the Dips and Roberts are covering this up.
    ..
    On another note,we don't know what LE is doing. Maybe they have had tips from persons close to the Dips.
    Patience is difficult.

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    1. I LOVE that! It seems like too often parents move from state to state and abused children slip through the cracks.

      What happens if someone is falsely accused of abusing a child? If someone says that a child was abused, but they made up the claim?

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    2. @Anon 2:09-same here-it is recorded with CPS or whatever. But apparently the DIPS don't have a record with CPS. So, I say-why is it that Ayla vanished in the night-they all heard nothing, nobody checked on her at night, or even locked the window. People apparently coming and going, at all hours, nobody knows if the door was even locked. In other words--why is nobody in that entire house responsible for Ayla? Has anyone heard any one of them say they are so sorry, feel terrible, etc., about what happened? No, they spend their time defending and covering their own asses. Shifting the blame to someone else.

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    3. I agree Megan. I think that would be a great idea. For people who are found to have actually abused/neglected children. Not so much, just for a complaint. Potentially, a complaint can be made against ANYONE.

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    4. Megan-it is still on file with CPS. It stays on file forever. Both Elisha and Courtney know this.

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    5. So. Tx., a false complaint is used against an innocent person, for employment reasons? Coaching, volunteer work, etc.? I wasn't aware of that. Is that federal, or per state or town?

      I'm not questioning you/being sarcastic, I just wasn't aware of that.

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    6. No, I didn't mean it is used against you in any way. It is documented with CPS. If it is not proven to be true, it is noted with them. Likewise, they have a record of what was done if it was proven-what steps were taken with them. Just trying to say they have a record every time they are called about someone, whether or not it proves out. As for employment-unless it asks that about CPS-no. But alot of employment apps. ask about crimes, felonies, convictions, accusations, lawsuits, etc. now. So unless you were charged-how would they know? I wasn't trying to piss anyone off.

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    7. Thanks for the explanation So. Tx. I was just curious, I hope you don't think I was pi$$ed. :)

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  8. The idea that Trista took Ayla is absolutely insane. It makes no sense WHATSOEVER. Someone knows what has happened to Ayla and I believe LE know what happened to her. Atleast they know what DID NOT happen to Ayla. The Dips and their blind supporters may be feeling nice and smug right now but just wait Dips!! Almighty God is not blind, He is not deaf, He does not sleep, He does not get intoxicated with lies and deceit... He wasn't taking a nap when the non-kidnapping took place. He doesn't need reward money. He isn't mentally stimulated by all the theories in the world. This is not entertaining to Him, not a hobby. He SEES you right now and He KNOWS what has happened to Ayla. Just a matter of time before it is all revealed. What if it is never revealed in this lifetime?? Well, Dips, you have eternity and the All Knowing God to face. And, if you don't believe that, then you have way more troubles then a probable life in prison on this Earth would bring. God is merciful, He will show mercy, but you, Dips, must REPENT and face the consequences.

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    1. Thank you Anonymous. You are right and I know it. My emotions get the best of me at times. I feel bad for kids who can't defend themselves, and have no voice in what is done to them. Plenty of people would love to have these kids. Instead they have parents who kill them.

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    2. If Ayla is no longer on this Earth, then she is with Almighty God and she is not missing her life here. She is face to face with Joy unspeakable. She wouldn't trade that for anything that this wicked world could give her. I hope and I pray that Ayla will be found safe and healthy and will come home to Trista immediately. If she doesn't come home safe and sound, she has a Defender already. God will not be mocked. He loves babies. He said that if anyone should offend a little child that it would have been better for that one to have a millstone to be hung around his neck and to be thrown into the sea. And, He also has promised to restore the things that the Devil destroys. Trista will have Ayla back one day. It will be excrutiating to have to wait, but she will have Ayla back one day. The Dips can REPENT and pay the price that society assigns to them and receive Life in Eternity. Or, they can squirm their way through this life and receive Death in Eternity. I hope they understand that. I hope and PRAY that they truly get that.

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    3. Anon 2:35 pm.

      If you believe all that you wrote about the Almighty God, then you know that He also knows what is in your heart. I'm wondering if He would approve of some of the things in your heart?
      Are you being judgemental in any way?

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    4. ANON@3:32-what Anon@ 3:25 wrote is straight from the Bible. So how is that being judgemental in any way? Either you believe it, or you don't.

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    5. @Anon 2:35 & 3:25

      Absolute agreement with the entirety of that statement.
      To all things there are a limit and this case is a good example.
      It's easy to see the many flawed beings who say "this is too much!" Conversely a small minority who claim to be perfected pretend that nothing has happened.

      The phrase "Judge not lest yea be judged." does not mean we are never to judge people or situations it means be ready to stand in the same fire as the one you are pointing the finger of blame and accusation at. In that fire the truth becomes known.

      I have a lot of hope for an outcome to Ayla's case based on dozens of factors including; MSP's relentless determination, the number of people and blogs rising to Ayla & Tristas support and defense and small miracles shown to me by The Creator.

      It takes patience and time but justice shall prevail.
      Anyone who is sure of the existence of divinity is politely afraid to fail Ayla or her quest for justice and then look God as the passionate creator of the universe and Almighty as the faithful administrator in the face & be asked obvious questions.

      "What did you do when the innocent Ayla was slaughtered?"

      Killing a child is the equivalent of trying to kill God.
      The Almighty is sure to respond in a highly disciplined well founded military response to an aggression against The Creation.

      The depth of attention from God, The Almighty & The Creator.
      It offends some people to say she has become special to God.
      This case scares me more than any case I was ever involved in.

      Once in Iraq the security forces tried to make the parents of a rebel speak his whereabouts. They tortured his six year old sister tied from the ceiling naked upside down with an electric prod. Saddam is gone & a new government has risen from the ash.

      On the day we invaded I stayed up for 48 hours watching the once in 50 years orange sandstorm rise up & cover the troops.
      As God, Almighty & The Creator are unified there is Divine Law.

      Thomas
      30. Jesus said, "Where there are three deities, they are divine.
      Where there are two or one, I am with that one."


      @J4A A cathartic article for you, Ha! :-) A.M.

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    6. lol, yes A.M., it was in more than one way. :)

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  9. Elisha does not have a paying job at Educare. She is doing a work experiance(practicum) through her classes in the learning field of working with Children. No Paycheck
    Just Free college,Free Childcare, Free Transportation money, Free Books and extra money for Laptops etc. Which is just Free Drug Money!!! She has followed in the footsteps of Phoebe. The Dips plus Courtney know how to milk the system to their advantage!!!! Smart-hahahahaha No-just sly like a fox!!!

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    1. Maybe I am being a simpleton when I say this, but I am going to anyways. If the state is both funding Elishas chooling for child developement, and the state is investigation her and her family for "foul play" against a child, why the hell is Maine still funding her school? Why not hold funding until "Ayla is home"? Same for Courtney??

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    2. Hi John P! No that's just part of our screwed up system! In fact, govt. pays for convicts in prison to get college degrees while they are there. Have you been in the military too long or what?? Not knocking you, I have plenty of my family in military. Sometimes they are shocked by civilian life things! And I thank you, profusely, for serving our country.

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    3. Elisha sure learned how to work the system, didn't she? She done Momma proud! (eye rolls)

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    4. So. Tx., Thank You for your kind comments concerning my service. It really does mean alot when people still today thank me for my service. I am a retired combat vet with 21 years of service and I do appreciate your words. And maybe you are right, in the military, a person earned what they achieved, nothing was given to them for free. I guess that is my thinking when I felt that Maine should stop paying for thier educations while they are being investigated.

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    5. The State is funding Elisha and Courtney! One is taking courses on Early Childhood Education and the other Criminal Justice!!! LOL I wouldn't let either one anywhere near my child!!! Just where do they think they would get hired? Oh yes, Maybe a job with the state! The state can hire them to take care of kids!!!!

      Since the state doesn't take care of the well-being of kids now, these losers will fit right in!

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    6. Sometimes I wish we all had to function in our lives like the military functions. I was so afraid for my son to join. thought he wouldn't make it, he was really young, immature. What a surprise I got! He matured, got a degree(a kid who hated school), earned alot of merit, advanced, and I won't go on, except to say, it is amazing. They could get some of these people(in USA), and after they have received state benefits for a certain amount of time, and still NOT working-and enlist them. Sound like a plan? Sorry, too socialistic? Welfare was intended to be temporary for people who needed help, not a lifestyle. Sorry, got on a rant. But I do always thank servicemen and women. It is a great honor to have them, what if nobody enlisted? Glad I didn't piss you off! I seem to be good at that these days!

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    7. Now I am pissed So.Tx.! No just kidding. I am so happy your son has gotten alot of what I did in my service. I joined young (17) and quickly matured, learned, progressed and even was woking on my degree when I got out. He sounds to have a very level head and a supportive family. Don't forget to Thank Him when you see him also. Tell him how proud you are to call him your son. He is doing a great service for his country, for his family and for himself.

      As for the socialist thoughts, I don't think it is all that bad. If you get tuition assistance from a commercial employer, you have to sign a retention letter or pay back the tuition. Why is that so bad for those who have made welfare a way of life instead of a helping hand to get back on your feet?

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    8. John P!- it isn't bad. You are right. Now I am gonna show my age by saying this: the young generation now is really spoiled. Ok! NOT ALL OF THEM! I meet plenty of young ambitious people who want to better themselves. Now I will take another risk and say this: the area that I live in is full of freeloaders. You know what a freeloader is. They take, and take, want more, never give back. Generations of people on welfare, a way of life for them, and they don't want to change it. This state gives alot. They don't ask for much of anything back. But I see senior citizens going across the border to buy their meds, or not have money for food. They don't qualify for medicaid or lonestar cards(food stamps). Pathetic.

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    9. So Tx, unfortunately you are right. It seems the DiPs are one of the freeloader families you mention that wil take and take but wont give back! Not even for thier own blood relatives! Such a shame. :(

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    10. Phoebe works. Lance works. Justin has worked; maybe still does. The Dips are no more freeloaders than the Reynolds family.

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    11. Nice try anon. You know as well as I doo, Phoebe raised her kids on welfare as is Elisha. This thread was about the state paying for tuiion of two peole being investigated for a childs disapearance. The three you mentioned are not those two people nor is the whole Reynolds Family. Have a nice day. PS, read the whole of the comments before making your sublime comments.

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    12. I have read, and this thread is NOT just about the state paying for tuition for criminal suspects. Read SoTx above stating "Generations of people on welfare, a way of life for them, and they don't want to change it."

      Phoebe maybe have been on welfare that paid for her education, etc., but she now has a job and is finally taking care of herself. I suspect that Elisha planned on getting a job after education as well. Same for Courtney. I'd rather see welfare dollars spent on education than on someone that sits on their butt all day and never plans on getting a job while continuing to have kids.

      Give credit where credit is due. You have to admit that when it comes to sucking money from the system, the Reynolds far exceed the Dips.

      Further, LE has never said they are investigating the Dips or Courtney and they haven't been named as suspects.

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    13. @Anon:

      First of all: How do YOU KNOW that "Elisha and Courtney plan on getting jobs"?

      That's the same as anyone ELSE stating that they think CR/ED are just free-loading the system, with NO intentions of acquiring gainful employment!

      Second of all: LE has DEFINITELY said they are investigating the DiPs!
      You cannot possibly believe that LE took hundreds of pieces of evidence away from 29 Violette Avenue---INCLUDING the basement that Ayla WAS NOT reportedly abducted from---and conclude otherwise.

      In recent years, many LE agencies fall short of declaring anyone an "official suspect", PRIOR to
      filing criminal charges against them.
      This in NO WAY indicates that LE "HAS no suspects".

      If the DiPs "aren't suspects" why does LE even CARE if they are "withholding information" from them??
      Can you answer me that??
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    14. Anon, you still mis read the statement. SoTx was talking about her area having alot of freeloaders. I made the connection to Courtney and Elisha being given a free ride unlike what I am accustomed to growing up in the military. When given a free ride, rather than assistance getting back on your feet, that is freeloading in my old man book of definitions. SoTx did not tie CR or Elisha into it, I did. Yes the Reynolds have used state assistance to get back on thier feet. Do you think they are still. Does Trista and Jessica get thier tuition assistance payments when they get food stamps to feed thier children. I was not and am not saying Trista is any better than Elisha or Courtney for using state assistance. What I am saying is Trista is better for being a loving mother that was taken while in Elisha and Courtney and Justins care. That make her 1000 time better in every regard. To say LE is not investigating those two women is a facre and you know it.

      Oh BTW, Don't try using LE to defend the DiPs when every single one of the DiPs has bashed, insulted, disrespected, and slandered the very heros you are trying to use to defend them!! It is another insult to LE to do so!

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    15. I'm not defending the Dips or anyone else. Public assistance came up, and I voiced my opinion. It's not about who is a nicer person or who is a loving parent when it comes down to freeloading from the system.

      Vt.Lady, of course I don't *know* anything for certain as to whether CR and ED plan on getting jobs. Maybe because I did not view school/college as a fun thing, but rather a necessity to become a productive person, I can't imagine why someone would go to college just to take advantage of it being free. I hope that makes sense.

      Yes John, I believe Trista and Jessica are still on public assistance and likely will be forever. Loving parent or not, a child growing up in a welfare family has a tough go of it.

      Of course I know LE suspects the Dips and CR, but I don't think John's proposal to stop state aid for every person LE 'suspects' as a criminal is a good idea either. Even in cases where a person confesses to a crime, they still go to trial and until found guilty I would think their state aid would continue.

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    16. I will take you for your word anon. I saw your first post "Phoebe works. Lance works. Justin has worked; maybe still does. The Dips are no more freeloaders than the Reynolds family." and thought your were bashing the Reynolds and defending the DiPs. As far as Jessica on state, I do not see why she would be. Trista is obviously in need of help until Ayla is found and Trista and her Family begin to heal. It will be a long healing process and Trista I know will need help throughout. As for the difference, Elisha and Courtney have bashed Trista for being on state aide! Why, they are using the same assistance for thier children and then the additional state aide for tuition and whatever else goes with it. Then They are present when Ayla "disappeared" and say nothing. In the military, you are responsible for your actions. My miltary thinking of cause and affect, you hinder a folony investigation, your state aide stops. NOT the aide intended for the children, the aide that they feel they are entitled to while Ayla is getting nothing that she DESERVES from both of them. I hope this helps explain why I say there is a difference which makes one person better than another when declaring entitlements.

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    17. I would bet that there were food stamps coming into Phoebes house with two unemployed adults and two children. One person has to be named head of household to apply and my guess is that would be phoebe.
      There is a good chance that elisha was receiving money each month and probably justin had applied as well.
      I would be curious to know if any of the dips were friends with anyone from child protective services, DHS etc.
      Did any of the dips including aunt selena frequent places where any of these state workers also frequented? Can they be placed at the same spot at any time?
      Could this be a cause for them to seem to know that Ayla is safe?

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  10. Wow, Tori.

    When I saw that you had finally done a blog on what I *thought* would be an open minded topic- I was sadly mistaken very quickly into reading it. In fact, I am pretty disgusted with you poking fun and making up whatever you feel like.

    There are actual reasons the DiPietro's (and their supporters) believe Trista was involed in taking Ayla. They are VALID reasons and have been shared with LE. Obviously, none of us would be at all willing to feed the hyena and give out information that may jeopardize the investigation. The Reynolds clan seems to have no issues with feeling the entire world with their theories/rumors/slander though. Interesting, yes?

    Obviously you were never actually intending for this to offer REAL reasons and scenarios.

    Remember what Jeff said over on A4A...he has THEORIES and LE has FACTS. Same goes for you.

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    1. I am sorry, was there ever a point that I stated something as fact and not my theory or speculation? Did you happen to miss the disclaimer at the bottom of the page?

      I feel the same way about people poking fun and making things up of Trista and her family.

      This blog post was for people who really feel that Trista is guilty to offer up their theories, based on statistics, evidence known so far in this case, etc... All those who profess Justin's innocence has yet to do that.

      I don't have a problem with the Reynolds offering up theories or speculating on rumors. What I do find interesting is that Justin claims Ayla was abducted but has not done much of anything to get her home, he even stopped working with the Laura Recovery Center who were instrumental in getting Elizabeth Smart's picture out there and resulted in getting her home.

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    2. Sigh seems to be an appropriate name. There was not one debunking comment that was not supported with facts! LE may have heard the Trista Theory from the Dips but would that have been before or after Justin Linnel did it. When ws it that Jessica did it, before or after Trista? I am confused. If you are so familiar with and close to the DiPs, maybe you can ask them to explain the large blood stain found with luminol that Ayla never got medical treatment for? And don't say you are not familiar with them because that makes your comment one big lie. Only a friend in contact with the Dips would know what LE has been told. Only if the DiPs are putting out information on thier "Family" run blog could you know of these "actual" and "valid" theories that the DiPs have presented to LE. The intent of this post was not to present a theory, but to show people with open minds how rediculous the theories really are that are being put out by that blog. If the theories you say are so VALID, this is the place to post them. Convince us we are wrong. I for one want to be proven wrong and Ayla found safe and sound. Please, prove my thinking wrong!!!

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    3. "Sigh"-are you strange or what?

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    4. "Remember what Jeff said over on A4A...he has THEORIES and LE has FACTS. Same goes for you."

      Then what are you worried about Sigh? Because you were obviously concerned enough to respond. How about sharing your 'valid' reasons that you believe Trista or her family took Ayla? Cat got your tongue? or is Justin holding it?

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    5. Maybe "Sigh" can compile and write the "Trista did it" theory J4A was asking someone to write, so that we could all understand exactly why and how TRISTA DID IT, but maybe someone who knows the family or has close ties can get the info correct. ???

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    6. There are "actual" reasons the Dipietro's (and their supporters) believe Trista was involved in taking Ayla. They are just SECRET oh, and if we did tell you, we might jeopardize the investigation.
      Please, does anyone REALLY believe this crap?

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    7. kimc, not in the least, they claim to know what the DiPs have told LE when the DiPs say LE wont give them a call and are all incompitent idiots who are stuck on themselves. So when did they actually tell LE anything of signifcance to this case? Never!!

      Then anon completely contradicts thier own statement

      "The Reynolds clan seems to have no issues with feeling the entire world with their theories/rumors/slander though. Interesting, yes?"
      "Remember what Jeff said over on A4A...he has THEORIES and LE has FACTS."

      Jeffs response was to question about giving the paternal families theories to LE. It was not say that he did not have theories or even share them.

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    8. I know it's been said...but, WOW!
      The DiP minions remind me of squabbling kindergarteners.

      Essentially, they are saying:
      "We do too, have valid reasons for suspecting Trista...but, we're not telling you!!"

      That's BEYOND lame, guys...
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    9. justin said, " You are NOT her parent" Okay, so WHAT Trista are you talking about Sigh?????

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    10. @sign, if so dips and dip supporters believe that trista has infact taken her, than why did Justin say as I am quote this from his live tv interview " you are not her parent". Trista qualifys as that, her Mother aka parent, right? So this is me calling your b.s. They are protecting Elisha. I will bank on it. Jealously does wicked things and as it has been said Gabby her she adores her uncle....

      Hope you like Windom prison Elisha! It will be a hard to see your daughters first day of school behind bars, first dance, recital, boy friend and wedding.... What will you think at night been you know your sweet baby is crying wanting to sleep next to her Mommy? If your innocent, prove it. Cut a deal. Hard to believe a mother would willingly make that decision....

      Explain THAT to me?

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    11. Yes...let's talk about the "you are not her parent" quote. Is Jessica Ayla's parent? Are any of the Fortiers actual relatives? How about rehab friends? What about multiple other possibilities?

      There is not a doubt in my mind that Trista is involved. She orchestrated this parental abduction. She thought Justin would wake up Saturday morning and either call her VERY pissed off or show up at her door. But, that didn't happen- did it? No. He called the police. This blew up into something Trista NEVER planned on. I hope with every fiber of my being that whoever Trista has entrusted to care for Ayla during this time is actually caring for her.

      I know most of you only read this blog or the A4A blog. The most recent blog on the "other" site is worth the time of every single person here. If you truly care about Ayla and finding her- open your mind to more then rumors and lies.

      http://juststopthelies.blogspot.com/2012/05/i-corrected-this-for-you-thank-me-later.html

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  11. "I believe Derek backdated the policy for Justin after Ayla's "demise" in order to help his friend out and in turn is knee deep in this whole mess now as is his family who knows what he did."
    J4A, this statement fits perfectly in explaining Heidi's strangely obsessive defense of anything DiPietro.

    Too Bad her audience can't see how they're being played.

    With her constantly inserting herself into this case and
    misleading statements - I'll bet LE knows she knows what happened to Ayla.

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    1. what's important?May 12, 2012 at 4:19 PM

      I don't get the "backdating the policy" idea. Surely insurance doesn't pay out the full amount when 1 or 2 payments were made before the covered person disappeared? Wouldn't an insurance salesman know that? Why would someone risk their livelihood, their family, their entire future on the very off chance that their friend could get a few dollars from his child's death or disappearance?

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    2. I'm not sure how many payments need to be made before a policy will pay out. Thank God, I have no experience in collecting on LIP's.
      There has to be a motive in Heidi inserting herself into this case so deeply. I think J4A's idea fits perfectly with Heidi's actions.
      I'm not saying it was a well thought out or smart thing to do, just that it fits with Heidi's attempted hostile takeover of the case.

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    3. Whats Important, a few days ago I was corrected that Derek was not a salesman or agent, he is a salesman in training! That brings a few thoughts to mind, does he have the authority to sell policies or is he just doing the leg work and Darrell actually sells the policy? How much does a Salesman in Training really make, could he have seen a quick 50/50 on 25,000 dollar payday? And what about Kylie preferring the green and natural life. What if Derek was somehow getting involved/reinvolved with recreational drug use when he started hanging with Justin again? just some thoughts.

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    4. what's important?May 12, 2012 at 6:18 PM

      Thank you for the replies Kim and John. I don't know Heidi at all, have only seen some quotes from her. I could only speculate about any number of reasons, both "positive" and "negative", why she is speaking out in this case. I can also only speculate about what the differences in her behavior would be if she believes he is guilty vs. if she believes he is innocent.

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    5. Whether she knows what happened to Ayla or not, she seems to know something looks hinky- and probably was hinky- about that insurance policy.

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    6. what's important?May 12, 2012 at 6:31 PM

      Kim and John - I just remembered my car insurance is with State Farm (not Tudelas). If I get a chance this week I'll go talk to an agent about quotes to add different things and specifically about child life insurance availability, cost, and terms. Do you know if anyone checked this out already? If so, what did they learn?

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    7. What's Important, I did check with my agent (not State Farm) would is flat out not allowed to combine an auto policy with a LIP. They must be 2 different policies per state regulations (not Maine). He is allowed to add riders to my auto, but that is not what was said Justin purchased. Just my research.

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    8. Whats important - It would be interesting to know what your agent says about this. Thanks!

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    9. I did talk to someone about life insurance policies and how they pay out and if you buy insurance on someone and they die a week later, as long as your premium is paid for that month, they will pay out the whole amount.

      Since Ayla is not declared dead, Justin would have to continue paying the premiums each month in order to cash in on the policy in the event Ayla is found deceased or it has been so long that she can legally be declared dead. However if it is deemed a suspicious death and Justin is an official suspect the life insurance policy will not pay out. I did a post on this a few weeks back and went over all the info I could find online and then verified with an agent independently

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    10. what's important?May 12, 2012 at 9:27 PM

      Thanks J4A, it's been some time since my family member passed after only making the 6 payments and they refused benefits... perhaps laws have changed? Or, I don't know if they all handle things the same way, you might since you did all that research already. Did you check State Farm specifically? Do you know what the monthly payments were and if you could just add a child life policy to an auto policy? On the State Farm website, I couldn't find an option for child life only, but a child could be insured as a rider on an adult/family life policy.

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    11. There are different types of policies, so maybe your family member's only pay out upon certain conditions etc. I am not sure, also there was a change with some laws a few years back but I don't remember the particulars. I linked the articles I got the info from in the post I did. I think the post was called Life Insurance Policy-Motive or Red Herring? I don't remember exactly, sad I know since I wrote it. Anyway, I don't know if you can add a life insurance policy onto an auto policy but I would think you could. Insurance companies want you to have all of your insurance needs through them and one company only. It would also be more convenient for purchasers to pay only one bill. I am sure different states may have certain stipulations.

      I am sorry about the loss of your family member. I lost my dad 2 years ago and it still hurts especially when I go to call him and then remember I can't.

      Thank you for keeping the discussion going today in a respectful way and looking at both sides of the coin. It really adds to the discussion here and makes for intelligent debate.

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    12. what's important?May 12, 2012 at 10:23 PM

      Thank you for your time and kindness, J4A.

      If I can get to State Farm this week I will post what I find out. I currently have auto and home insurance combined through them. This is actually a good motivator for me to do so, because I should talk to them about life insurance anyway.

      I'm sorry about the loss of your father and the grief you still bear. My father passed about 4 years ago and my only sibling (half-sister through my father) a few years before that - both had been sick for some time. I'm in my 40s, have a big extended family, so there have been lots of losses. Such is the nature of life, the more you love more you stand to lose... that you are still grieving means you were blessed to have a deep loving bond with your father. For me, up until a year ago I cried everyday about everything, happy, sad, etc. Now Ativan helps me stay calm, I almost never cry. I cried twice for the Bain girls yesterday. The description of their ordeal hit me intensely. Their plight as well as Ayla's should remind us all to count our blessings, to not take them for granted. I hope (perhaps against hope) that Ayla will be found safe and returned to the family that loves her. If she has passed, I hope that she can continue to touch the lives of others in a positive way. Carry our love for Ayla, a beautiful angel, and share it with others... an extra hug to those we love, an act of kindness to a stranger, etc. If she is no longer with us in body, I hope her legacy can live on as love in the hearts of all she's touched.

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    13. What's important?

      "If she is no longer with us in body, I hope her legacy can live on as love in the hearts of all she's touched."

      Thanks, what a beautiful, beautiful thought. That would be most wonderful.

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  12. I'd prefer the DiPietro supporters stay on their own limited little blogs and away from here. No one on this blog is going to suddenly turn stupid and be swayed by their rude, cruel, nonsensical posts.

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    1. @Anon 4:26--Good call! Agree 100%. Maybe some of them are bored withtheirlies! Maybe they can start a new blog--boredwiththeirlies!

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    2. So. Tx. you made me lol

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  13. Hey What! Of course they pay the full amount even if only one payment had been received. Please don't guess and talk of what you don't know. It shows your lack of intelligence and I think you maymhave 39 reasons why you don't want to look stupid. This case is too Important for you to make ASSumptions and lies.

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    1. what's important?May 12, 2012 at 5:19 PM

      Suz, Please don't make assumptions about what I do or do not know. My question/observation was respectful and relevant to the post I responded to. The blogger specifically asked for other opinions.

      When a family member of mine passed, he had only made 6 payments on his life insurance and they paid nothing. I went to the State Farm Life Insurance page and it says that benefits are paid *provided premiums are paid as required. I can't find mention of what that requirement is. You seem positive it will pay the full amount even if 1 payment is made. Do you have a link for that you could share?

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    2. It depends on who the policy was through. I asked my family member who works at State Farm what would happen if I came in, bought life insurance, paid for it, and died in a crash on the way home. My family member said that State Farm would pay, provided I did not commit suicide.

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  14. I've been following this case the entire time.. It's been 5 months now and SOMEONE out there knows what happened to this beautiful baby girl. Justin once said in a statement "you are not her parent".. Why would he say this if he thought that trista was responsible? He wouldn't. Even if is an accident, no one is speaking up for her. I can't imagine not showing any type of emotions. My own little one is just days younger than Ayla and I would have his name/picture everywhere, like trista has. But I don't know about the Depietro's either, Justin looks so obviously suspicious that I would think he'd just give in and say what he knows. I think that Ayla is alive, and I think that the Dipietro's know where she is, when is going to be the "right time"?? When Ayla doesn't even recognize her mommy anymore? Or her daddy? This case breaks my heart.

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    1. I think he was going to try to say I have no idea and not blame anyone in Aylas family.you are not her parent ,I think he meant a stranger.That didnt work so his friends and family went after Trista.They know its not true,but they had to get Justin to commit to blaming someone.That would make it so Ayla is safe and unharmed if he accused Jessica,and Trista.We are not looking for her because she is safe,Not buying that either Justin.

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    2. Dont have to do interviews either because we know who has her,BS.Is there an excuse that he hasnt used yet?

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    3. I agree Anon @ 6:27. I don't think Justin planned on blaming anyone in particular, nor has he (publicly anyway). His defenders are the ones pointing fingers and causing such cruelty to the Mother of a missing baby! Even if it was not his original intention though, he is allowing it to continue. He could tell his bud's and auntie to stop. He could state that he does not agree with belittling Trista, Ayla's Mother, just because they may not "get along". Why is he allowing that to continue? He must agree with that behavior. Belittle and blame an innocent Mother, who's baby is missing, who is already being tortured. I can't think of TOO many things much lower (besides the obvious, in this case). JMO

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    4. I agree with all of you, the first story was an unknown, yet benevolent intruder. That didn't fly, so one of the deranged group thought up blaming Trista, Jessica, Linnel(whatever the order was). Months had passed before Justin texted Trista to say he and his family knew she had Ayla. This psychopathic pack has zero conscience.

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    5. I have a feeling that text to Trista blaming her was an afterthought, which is why he waited so long. He knew LE wasn't buying his story and obviously found something in the house that implicated one of them, blood maybe or something not released to the public? And Justin sent the texts as a pathetic attempt to get LE off of his trail. Justin knew his calls were being traced, text messages included because he made a comment about it around the time that I was contacted by LE and asked what I knew, before this blog was even thought of.

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  15. I'mcurious to know if he is still paying on that policy. Ane if he's still paying child support. God only knows, he tried to get out of that fast enough!

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  16. Sigh, are you worried your son Derek will be going to jail soon

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  17. If he stops paying now, he cannot collect. I also wonder if the Judge allowed him his request to stop paying child support. I believe that was the plan all along, unfortunately. He only saw the baby 5 times, Phoebe saw her 1 time, Elisha 2 to 5 times, CR 1 to 5 times, Selena never met Ayla, so they had no attachment to her, just anger at being saddled with 18 years of payments to Trista, hence the custody grab and disappearance, and immediate court filing to stop child support. The is all the motive I need to see for Aylas disappearance. If she is alive, someone from Waterville gave her to a person to raise until she is 18, anyone would have wanted her. Or they were so angry, that they shed her blood in the basement. Time will tell.

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    1. So if justin is clued in to the fact that Trista filed papers he would realize right away that he will have to give Ayla back and will have to continue not only paying back what he owes on child support but also continue to pay child support for another 16 years. I think this is the reason he took her in the first place and that idea (to eliminate child support) came from phoebe.

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    2. Suz Chicky, you both bring out good points so I ahve to ask this question, if the word of custody papers got to Justin through a friend of Phoebe (maybe someone named K Smalls), is it possible that the 16th is the day harm was brought to Ayla? We now know that LE does not believe the date was the 8th. If Justin was partying that day after a long night of moving, could he have gone off into a drug induced rage when finding out on the 16th about the papers?

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    3. Possibility, when I look at his photos I see someone witha temper but that is just my own opinion. For him to drive lance to beat someone up adds to that.
      Or, depending on the blood amount, they could have had her taken somewhere, maybe on the advice of a social worker, then again jmo. I do have a suspicion that he did find out about the papers.

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    4. I agree Chicky. Even the picture of JD at the vigil looks more like he is antsy, maybe even biting his lower lip, rather than sorrowful for his missing daughter. I have the same suspicion that the filing of the paperwork did make its way back to him the day after they were filed. that would mean the harm was done on the 16th. After moving all night, he was probably taking a little something to keep him going. Weather Ayla startled him or he just saw Tristas face in Aylas, he wnt into a rage and hurt Ayla that day. JMO

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    5. Chicky- I wonder too if he found out that Trista filed for parental rights and was so furious that he did something to Ayla that night (the 15th)--disposed of her, and drove to Portland that night (and was seen at Cumberland Farms @2am). I don't believe I've ever heard his pitiful excuse for not taking her to her ortho appt. on the 16th either (among lots of other things).

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    6. It was said that he was moving the rest of his stuff out of his apartment in Portland that night but who is still moving at 2 AM and who was watching Ayla that night?
      If Justin was more forthcoming with answers then maybe the public and LE would be able to find Ayla, but, me thinks there is a really good reason for the questions not being answered.

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  18. Justin should still be paying child support if he believes Ayla is alive.

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    1. I would think LE has verified this little detail. If Peaches BFF didn't tell him to make the patments, there may have to be another beat down on the streets of WV.

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    2. I agree Where is Ayla Justin?

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  19. This is all very interesting, but you left out the blood evidence found in the basement! Even if Trista was somehow a secret ninja kidnapper, it makes no sense that she would injure Ayla and leave more than a cupful of her blood next to the bed where Justin, Courtney and her son were sleeping. It also makes no sense that the Dips would fake a kidnapping and pass off a live Ayla to somebody for safe keeping, but stage her blood spill in the basement. Who would fake a kidnapping to look like a murder? NO ONE!

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    1. I did mention the blood by saying that maybe it really happened as they said, that Ayla really did cut her foot and it was unrelated to the disappearance. I did not speculate on there being more than a cupful even though I believe Trista and Jeff were told that by LE. I tried to be fair and only talk about what was actually released by LE.

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    2. Woops, sorry you did. I think as I was reading through the comments I kept thinking, "What about the blood?" Because nobody had mentioned it. It's a stickler for me. My house would not light up like a Christmas tree if LE tested it with luminol. LE found it "troubling" and that leads me to believe that it was. If Ayla, no Phoebe, no no Ayla, had really cut her foot down there, it would have needed medical attention. That's just my honest opinion. I think the Dips thought they had cleaned up well enough, and were shocked when they found out they hadn't. It's the most troubling piece of evidence we have learned about. No kidnapper, Trista or otherwise, would have hurt Ayla down in the basement while JD, CR and AR slept.

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    3. To be honest Tori, this may be on the wrong post but, I find this to be another of those inconsistancies you mentioned in your previous post. the supporters of the DiPs want to say LE has not declared a POI or suspect or cleared anyone,, etc. etc. etc. But the Dips themselves have declared LE as inept, incompetant, liars, biased, predjudicial and stuck on themselves. So how can you have it both ways. Trying to fair in this regard Tori, it is a lose/lose for you!!

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    4. I think the blood and the inconsistencies really just add to how ridiculous the theory of Trista abducting Ayla really is. You are right, they can't have it both ways even though they are trying like hell. :)

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    5. You are so right about that Tori! They try like hell, and then keep trying, even though it still makes no sense.

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    6. I agree Anon @ 9:31. I'm sure plenty of innocent, loving parents, possibly have had some type of mishap/accident in there home. I can NOT believe though, these people claiming that their home, is FULL of blood. That being said, lets assume some peoples homes really ARE full of blood. Lets assume Phoebe's home is full of blood. Knowing full well what LE is going to be looking for, did they inform LE, ahead of time, that Ayla had an "accident" down in the basement? That there was quite a bit of blood? That she was fine, with the blood loss, and needed no medical attention for said accident? Did Justin tell LE this when confrinted with the pictures? No. He booked it out of the station...

      I also agree with you John and J4A. They can't have it both ways. Either LE is competent or not. They liked LE when someone broke their windows, and put up security cameras... They communicated well that day, apparently. Heard well too.

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    7. Tsk! tsk!, JohnP!!
      Don't be silly...
      Of COURSE the DiP apologists have "valid" reasons for accusing Trista of abducting Ayla!

      They "just can't tell US" what they are,
      and risk jeopardizing the investigation.

      But, DON'T WORRY!...
      Because, Justin's fan-club has alerted LE.
      Investigators are ALL OVER the shocking new evidence they've uncovered,
      like white on rice!
      ;D

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    8. What are you talking about VTLady. Did someone in Alaska see a billboard with Aylas picture that caused them to remember something and call in a tip??

      If it wasn't so pathetic, it would be funny! :(

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    9. I can't figure out, why, if the DiPietro's KNOW where Ayla is, they've told LE, WHY hasn't LE gone to get Ayla? Hmmmm... So strange. What is LE searching the river for?

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  20. I really appreciate this blog. Thank you.

    I'm having difficulty with the statement that Justin "truly did love Ayla." Unless you mean in a "twisted" way, i.e "she's mine."

    Broken arm, wrenched leg, bruises, patterns of abuse. She went from being a happy baby girl to a sad and frightened little child.

    Obviously, waiting for LE to bring charges, I hope soon. This is heart-breaking still.

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    1. ITA. JD rarely refers to Ayla as anything but "my daughter". Kind of like "hey, someone stole my car". All she was was a possession to him with no human value at all.

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    2. I have to think that to some degree he love/loved her, I can't comprehend a parent not loving their child. I think Justin was prone to fits of rage when things did not go his way and I think Ayla's injuries were a result of that. I think, well hope at least for Ayla's sake, that there were times that she was truly shown love while living with her father because the alternative is too unbearable to think about.

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    3. Don't get me wrong. In his own way I'm sure he loved her. I'm just not sure he understands how much sacrifice love takes. Especially when dealng with a toddler. But, not mentioning her by name, dehuanizes her.

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    4. Tori, if you check your e-mail, what you just explain, I called thinking with your mind, but feeling with your heart. It is called humanity!

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    5. I agree Maine-iac at heart, 100%. He did dehumanize her and I don't think that he realized the sacrifice. I think the only person he sees worth sacrificing for is himself and expects others, even his own child to sacrifice for him :(

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    6. Maine-iac- I think Justin would be more upset if his car was stolen, sadly.

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  21. I totally agree Dancing Molecules. He took Ayla to spite and hurt Trista and to get out of paying child support. He's all about taking Ayla as a tax deduction, not paying child support, putting money on Aylas life. He's all about money. Maybe he needed money to provide for his family, CR and Aiden.

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  22. Looks to me like we have some JSTL people here. imagine that! No one can post on their site unless you agree with them. Just go back to your site. The shit you are spewing,is just that, SHIT!!! We listen to your shit and then move on to the TRUTH! YUP, Elisha can get a job if she opens a day care, works at a daycare 0r teaches primary. Sorry JSTL gang but Elisha will not be getting a job in many many YEARS!

    Especially with any small children!

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    1. I wouldn't count Elisha out of those career fields so fast..
      Apparently there are parents STILL entrusting their kiddos to HEIDI TUDELA, @ the McMansion Daycare Center,
      despite the fact that she's had a child-killer living on-premises for going on FIVE MONTHS!!

      So, maybe aspiring to "work with small children" ISN'T out of the reach of Elisha, afterall.

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    2. Maybe Justin should open a daycare. All those in the home "that night" can work there. Scary! I can't understand why anyone would leave their children at HT's "daycare"! Especially knowing Justin is there!! Maybe it is just people she knows - friends, friends of friends, relatives, etc.

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  23. If Love Seeks the highest good of its object, how can we say Justin loved Ayla?

    Bruises on her face;
    injuries to her arm and legs;
    fractured arm,
    failure to seek timely medical intervention
    missed doctors appointments.
    Life insurance not for her, but against her,
    Text messages to Trista telegraphing his fear of abduction
    Surprise, surprise, she is abducted.

    No, he did not love her. Don't confuse sentimentality over a novelty who was a financial burden to him for love.

    He did not love her in life; and will not let her have a dignified burial in death.

    He hated her.

    He hates her.

    Peter Hyatt

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    1. I agree, Peter!

      I suspect that Justin DiPietro loves..HIMSELF and MONEY.
      Ayla Bell??
      Not so much.

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    2. May I add his refusal to return Ayla to her mother who does love her. I fear you're right Peter. That kind of evil does exist. The only thing important to Justin is Justin.

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    3. I agree as well. It is hard to understand and imagine a parent feeling hatred for their own child, but it happens every day. Watch the news, read the paper. Look how many kids are getting "kidnapped" from their beds!! Where ARE all these kids?? This is a very sad epidemic... :(

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    4. It isn't that hard to imagine if you have lived it Kit.

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  24. Is the noise that got the attention of the neighbor dog a fact or a rumor? If it true and if it was Trista or whoever, why didn't the people in the house go and see what the noise was? Did they even tell the police they heard a noise that night also? We're they too lazy to see what made the noise or was it them that made the noise? If it was Trista that went in the house and some how she was able to take Ayla and get out of the house without them knowing even with her making the noise that the neighbor dog heard why wouldn't the DiPietros go and see what the noise was? Even if they didn't want to get out of bed and didn't think it was anything to worry about why wouldn't they tell the police about it the next day and tell them It must have been when Ayla was taken out of the house. It's really clear to me that the DiPietros are the ones that are guilty. Is it a responsible and loving thing to take out a life insurence police for $25,000 what good is that to Ayla at all? It does nothing for her only Justin I really think he would do something to Ayla for money. I read on a different blog that someone who knew Justin made a comment about Justin sucking dic* for drugs (or maybe money but I think he wrote it was for drugs). The person who posted it was super serious about it too and made it clear that no one could say its not true. That really made me think about what kind of person Justin is and what kind of person Ayla was with for all that time. Hopefully it's just rumors

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    1. Hear..hear, WHAT??
      Didn't you KNOW that the DiPs have a "sound-proofed" basement,
      ~AND~
      An established family history of selective "deafness", selective "blindness", and near-comatose sleep states???
      Lol!
      Just ask Justin:
      His brother, Lance, randomly jumped out of the idling vehicle, Justin was driving at the time, mini-baseball bat in hand, and commenced a beat-down on their niece Gabby's father.
      A few feet away from the car.
      In broad daylight..

      But, JUSTIN didn't see anything, didn't hear anything, AND didn't ask Lance ANY questions!!
      ;)

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    2. SO TRUE VTLady!!

      Selective sight, hearing, and speech.

      They had great hearing when their windows were getting broken. They liked LE that day too. They weren't full of themselves, they weren't incompetent that day. Strange.

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  25. BabyKillersAnonymousMay 12, 2012 at 10:45 PM

    Is that Heidi Tudela, with her arm around Pheebs in that last picture?

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    1. I don't think it's ever been revealed, who that is. I don't think I've ever had the pleasure of seeing a picture of Heidi. ;)

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    2. No the woman's name is Connie, not the Connie who is a TTLOM member and who has posted here in the past. She was listed as a close friend of Phoebe's.

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  26. Well... I read through all the comments (I think), commented here and there. I didn't see any well thought out, fact based, non-insulting "Trista did it" theories. Did I miss a bunch of comments...?

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    1. Nope!
      The best they could come up with, as far as I could tell, was:
      "Of COURSE we have "valid" reasons for accusing Trista...but, we're not telling YOU what they are!"
      :/

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    2. You didn't miss the well thought out, fact based, respectful reply. Instead we simply found that there are resons the DiPietros have to not share thier valid reasons with the public. Bummer I was so hoping!!!

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    3. Ummm, that's surprising... :l

      Guess they don't want to hinder the investigation. Maybe instead of revealing where they "KNOW" Ayla is, they'd rather wait another 5 months, since "she's ok for now".

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    4. Kit, VTLady, Don't know if you saw the question I posted higher on the page for Suz and Chicky. I like the way you all think and you both also bring out good points that make me think. So I have to ask, if the word of custody papers got to Justin through a friend of Phoebe (maybe someone named K Smalls), is it possible that the 16th is the day harm was brought to Ayla? I have been working on revising my theory with all the new articles and posts that have come out the past few weeks. We now know that LE does not believe the date was the 8th. If Justin was partying that day after a long night of moving, could he have gone off into a drug induced rage when finding out on the 16th about the papers?

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    5. It coould have been who ever is under K small or maybe someone who works in the record dept.?

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    6. It could have been but I would think it would have to have been at the direction of the supervisor. Unless it was the same subordinate that was at the family meeting. Could have been inadvertant in that case. The DHHS worker calls the DiPs asking"why didn't you return Ayla as agreed? I will be there tomorrow to clarify this situation!" All of a sudden, Ayla disappears. Either way, I am sure LE has been in constant contact with DHHS throughout this investigation.

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    7. That's a possibilty. The other thing that was mentioned, quite a while ago, is that people can get email (maybe even text?) updates on their court cases. The only issue I had/have with that is, was there already an open court case, for Justin to get such updates? That could have, at least been the case, for the JL beating, as he had JUST come from court as well! Seems the DiPietro's don't like people filing papers against them...

      I absolutely believe someone tipped the DiPietro's off about Trista filing. The email update was brought up quite a while ago, but I have that issue with that theory. Maybe someone knows more specifics about the procedure. I would assume there would have to already be a case open, in order to sign up for those updates?

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    8. I didn't read about the text updates. I do know in my small town, the county LOs provide face to face notifications.

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    9. John, Trista filing *could* have been the deciding factor, for Justin (& Co.) to have Ayla "disappear". I know Ayla is not thought to have been missing since Dec. 8th, but there has got to be a reason why he refused Trista contact with Ayla since that date. Was it a coincidence? Did he all of a sudden just want MORE control? Was he just being hurtful? Was he leading up to the "kidnapping"? I don't think it was a coincidence, so why? I think it pertains to the case, just a matter of figuring it out. If he was planning the kidnapping, it seems strange to deny Trista contact, as that would raise her concern, but then again, he was sending texts stating he was afraid someone was going to take her. Was Ayla injured, but not deceased? Idk, so many questions.

      Speaking of those texts. I wish I knew his wording. Did he say "take" or "kidnap"? Has any of them (DiPietro's) even stated publicly that she was "kidnapped"? Or do they just keep saying "took"? Someone "took" her? They don't want to lie maybe? Of course someone took her, one of them took her out of the house...

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    10. The control issue was exactly my thought Kit. I thought his forbidding Trista from seeing Ayla was exercising his control over her. When she voided his control by filing the paperwork, he realized he no longer had control.

      I am also not sure if I ever heard the word "kidnap" from a DiP. I think it was always disappeared, taken, or took. Just what I remember off the top of my head.

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    11. If the papers were filed with the court would there have been enough time for someone in child protective services to receive this info through proper channels without someone making an informative call on the side?

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    12. I wonder if the person under K small in child protective services in waterville was friends with justin or anyone else in the dip family.

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    13. I would think this would be based on the content of the claim for PR&R. If there were documents suspecting abuse by a doctor for example, I think it would have been expedited.

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    14. Well it is 1:00 Am. I have to get some sleep but thank you for helping me talk my way through this nagging issue. Please keep the conversation going and I will get caught up in the AM. Have a good night to all!

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    15. Good Night John and I am going to follow suit!

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  27. It was planned for her to disappear. All of the other kids were with their moms, Ayla was left by herself in the bedroom.

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  28. The night of the 16th, evening after he found out that earlier in the day Trista filed. Was partying on the 15th at 2 am in Portland. Would do anything to get out of paying child support, flew in to a rage IMO

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    1. I honestly do not think it was to get out of child support because he wasn't paying it before. Phoebe was the one worried abot that because I think she was paying it to keep JD from being picked up as a dead-beat dad. I think it was anger that he had lost control over Trista. She was standing up for her baby and for herself. I think it was a control issue that caused the rage.

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    2. I have a few thoughts on the child support issue:
      If Justin owed Trista back support and was capable of paying it, he should have been paying it regardless of where Ayla was, he owed that money to Trista and if she provided out of her own pocket to support Ayla for the 18 months she had her (Regardless of whatever pittance she received from welfare, it certainly does not cover all expenses involved in caring for a child) she deserves to be reimbursed for that.

      If Justin did not owe any back support and had paid it all off, then there was no reason for him to continue to pay Trista when he was the one who was now caring for Ayla and he obviously had no intentions of returning her.

      If Justin did owe Trista back support and filed to stop payments temporarily because he currently is not in a position to pay it (ie: no job, no viable means to support himself or his responsibility to provide for Ayla) then I can understand getting a stay of sort but that money owed to Trista should be paid as soon as he gets a job.

      He should not be able to get out of paying a past due debt because his child is currently "missing".

      I am sure that paying child support is a thorn in his side and he was probably desperate to get out from under it. Was is motive enough to kill Ayla? I don't know. If the rumors are true and he has another child that was born around the same time as Ayla and his paycheck was being divied up between the 2 mothers, then that possible would be more of a motive to get rid of the one he was capable of getting access to.

      If he does have a son out there like some purport, I hope that mother is smart and continues to keep Justin far away from her son.

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    3. Wow J4A! You surprise each step of the way. I am very interested now in knowing where the rumor of a son is coming from? I had not read this before. I guess I don't get out enough (read at other blogs too much!)

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  29. This story captured my heart. I am a mom of a 2 year old. I see all the pain and hope on Trista's face, sadly not on Ayla's dad face. Here in Bethesda,MD 99.5 /the Kane show/ is a very popular radio station. I am thinking of calling them to suggest to open a link on their web site for missing children. Just a taught, could LE look at satellite photos of the Dipietro's home and area around the dates Ayla disappeared? Hope this helps. To Trista: continue to be strong mommy!! With love and hope!!

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    1. A very nice thought ianita. Any awareness of missing children is a good thing!

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  30. Why don't you simply ask Trista where she was when Ayla went missing and end the speculation if it disturbs you so much.
    Why create longwinded, ridiculous scenarios and invent complicated fantastical motives, when Trista could easily clear up her itinerary and whereabouts?
    If Trista isn't involved, it should be very simple for her to fill in the gaping holes of her timeline.
    It is extremely bizarre that you would hypothesize her whereabouts, modes of transportation and companions rather than just ask her directly for answers.
    What a waste of time when all you have to do is ask Trista herself!
    Why the mystery if it's all so straightforward?
    Why did Trista lie to Nancy Grace and tell her she was in Portland when Ayla went missing?
    Since the speculation is soo bothersome, why not quit whining and just provide Trista's whereabouts from April 16th to 17th!
    LMAO!

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    1. *yawn* not worth engaging you really BUT you are an obvious Justin supporter, you all divert questions so well and then try to turn it back around on Trista instead of providing a plausible scenario. It must be so frustrating not to be able come up with even one concise thought out theory other than "Trista lied so she must have done it" LMAO

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    2. So are the DiPs themselves hiding Ayla? And she IS okay? What are some other explanations for their lackadasical reactions to a precious child abducted under their watch? Let's see: bide your time, and wait for LE to collect Ayla from the place where you guys all know she is safe and snuggy.

      But it is confusing. Justin has already told us that he has no idea where his daughter is. Really, Justin, not the least idea? Nothin' buzzin' around that megalith housing your brain like "Trista done it coppers! Look in New Hampshire. Trista has an address there!" (Latest rumor.)

      Try this on for size: The DiPs and Tudelas are involved in some kind of a "balloon boy" reality-show child-kidnap hoax that wasn't planned too well...er... because there was "no sign of abduction" as stated by LE. Whoops!

      And then, of course, there's Ayla's blood in some amount "over what a cut would produce" in JD's basement boudoir. Not going to play too well
      on a family-based show, Justin, unless you assert it's Trista's menstral blood! Hmm. Could work at that!

      Better still, perhaps the DiPs and Tudelas have stashed Ayla with a comfy relative (someone like that all-heart gal, Auntie Selena) until everyone in the DiP and Tudela households are charged with murder and/or accesories after the fact.

      Then Voila! Ayla is found wandering around a Wall Mart (sans adult caretaker) and the DiPs and Tudelas sue the pants off everybody for everything!

      Heck, I think my two script synopses make as much sense as the "Trista and/or Jessica done it" scenarios. __Pennyante

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    3. I agree Pennyante,

      Another hit and run anon posting another double standard because they can't come up with a viable solution. What I mean by that, the blood in the basement can't be explained. So drop this "Ask Trista where is Ayla" defense and run when all we are asking is for them to ask Justin "To explain the blood spilled in the basement". Not the 4 drops that may have come from a scrap on the "hearth". Explain the "over a cupful" from one detective or the "significant amount" and "more than a small cut would produce" by McCausland. I know my words are wastd on the anon 1:21, but hopefully it makes sense to you Pennyante?

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    4. Ah, indeed it does, John P., you always make sense to me!
      __Pennyante

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    5. Why should we? We like to listen to LE. And they say no abduction and they say yes to foul play (or whatever words you choose to use verbatim).

      The question that has been asked several thousand times by LE, blogs, media, Trista and the maternal family is still the same:

      WHERE IS AYLA JUSTIN????

      PS -- Did you really make yourself LOL? Cus your post really wasn't funny, ironic or even very well thought out.

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  31. http://news.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474981326199

    (new.gather.com "Ayla Reynolds Update: New Items Found, New Questions Asked")

    What else is going on in this case? It's rumored that Trista Reynolds, the mother of the missing girl, is filing a suit against the child's father Justin DiPietro.

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    I haven't heard this rumor before. I hope it's true...

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    1. She will be successful in a civil suit. Not that tons of money will ever bring Ayla home, but it will cripple the enemy. Every small piece taken from the Dips during battle will weaken their defenses.

      And yes... it is a battle now. This is war. You take a mother's child and lie about it, then you better be ready to bring it.

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  32. So why should Trista have to talk and "prove" to everyone her whereabouts when Justin is in hiding with his mommy? He should be the one talking. He doesn't talk at all so why should Trista have to explain every little question and detail about herself when Justin doesn't say shit? Why don't you ask Justin why he would need a $25,000 dollar life insurence policy on Ayla's life? Ask that ass hole how would a $25,000 life insurance policy help Ayla at all? That does absolutely nothing for Ayla at all only Justin. Ask Pheobe why she lied and told everyone she was in the house that night and why 2 days latter she told the reporter she lied? Ask her who made her tell everyone she lied? Why don't you ask Justin's girlfriend to talk to the public she hasn't told anyone anything. Ask the fat ass sister how she knows the windo was unlocked months and months latter but they didn't know shit the first day she went missing? Why don't you do that then worry about Trista.

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    1. Oh don't you worry Mrs. Smith. Justin will be answering those questions and soooooo many more once he is arrested and tried for Ayla's "abduction".

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    2. Mrs. Smith, If they are unable to explain any aspect of any question, the supporters will always blame Trista and try to deflect the question. They can not or will not explain;
      the blood spilled,
      the lack of medical attention,
      the 25,000 LIP,
      who was watching Ayla all day the 15th,
      why JD has not created a timeline if Tristas is so wrong,
      and I could go on!
      The bottom line is they will "hit with Trista did it" and then run. I get the feeling they may have actually been told how to accomplish this "starting of fires" maneuver.

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  33. The Justin supporters are very quiet now. No new blog posts since before the latest law enforcement revelation. Right before that there were numerous blog writeups each day. No new comments. Last blog was making fun of a picture of Trista LOL. 60 childish comments, then nothing, since the last river dam search a couple days ago. I asked numerous times who was watching Ayla on 12/15 at 2 am. I finally got a guess from Selena. "I would guess either Li or Phoebe" trista deserves more than a guess. Trista published her Law Enforcement approved Timeline. We know where Trista was and so does Law Enforcemet. Per the one sided texts, Justin allowed to be leaked, he was asked by Trista to participate in the Timeline. What happened to Justins timeline. We know where Trista wasp
    Proved

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  34. We know where Trista was, I don't think Anon really reads up in this case much, if she still winders where Trista was. At least the Trista bullying blog is quiet for Mothers Day. Evil, creepy and Nasty people, making fun of Tristas picture taken of her at hEr daughters birthday party. The birthday party that the DiPietros couldn't be bothered to go to. But they can go to Portland for everything else for the past few years, in their trucks and cars.

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    1. It just goes to show the type of animals the Dips and the Dip Supporters really are... No big surprise that they would make fun of Ayla's mother and not focus on finding Ayla.

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  35. First, there was no abduction. That is the alibi the Dips choose to use at this time. As the investigation progresses, it will be interesting to see how their story evolves.

    Secondly, as humans, no matter how depressed, no matter how horrible the circumstance, there are times we will smile. There is a time to love, to laugh, to weep and to dance. There is however, no guideline as to "when" any of our feelings should take place. Otherwise, we would have to question why Justin, Pheebs, Heidi, AngieHaggella, Elisha and the rest of the Dips don't cry. We have never seen a REAL teardrop from a single one of them.

    This boils down to the good guys vs. the bad guys. Bottom line. The bad guys are the Dips and Co. Hopefully time and LE will provide Ayla and her maternal family with the justice they solidly deserve.

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  36. Why was Justin at a Cumby's by large quantities of booze after midnight? What father is out drinking after midnight? What father is out drinking PERIOD?

    Where is Ayla?????? Tell us Justin. Just tell us. Just open your mouth and say it. That's all. Say it... tell us where is Ayla?

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