Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Stand By Your Man


I was a little surprised when I read recently about how Courtney Roberts, present during the time Ayla Reynolds was reported missing, thinks Justin DiPietro is a "stud" but that her opinion is" biased". I should think so; I just thought it would be biased in a completely different way bearing in mind the information provided to me by Ayla’s mother Trista Reynolds.

I really think Courtney Roberts is showing great courage and fortitude sticking with her man through all this, even while the evidence of his possible involvement continues to build. I don’t understand it myself, considering the six month long affair Justin was having with Trista between May 2011 and one week before Trista went into rehab in October 2011.

In all fairness, having sex with the father of your child three times in six months scarcely counts as a full blown affair. Perhaps it is more accurate to say Justin cheated on Courtney Roberts three times with the mother of his child. I commend Courtney Roberts on her loyalty to her man. While she was out of the way going to school to improve their lives or at work earning a paycheck, Justin was at home with Trista making love. I cheated on a girlfriend once and it was the worst mistake, I could not live with the guilt, so I told her. I pleaded with her not to leave me and she didn’t, not then, but our relationship soon fell apart. There can be no love where there is no trust.

Trista, for her part, always wanted to be with Justin; actually, she wanted to be a family. The thought of her and Justin together with Ayla had, until recently, been her fondest wish. So when they mutually agreed to make love that first time after Justin had been dating Courtney Roberts, Trista believed that her dream of a genuine family was coming true. She was concerned for Courtney Roberts feelings however but Justin assured her that it was none of Courtney’s business and "what we do is what we do". Bold words.

Since there was no real evidence of this secret relationship, I can understand why Courtney Roberts would believe whatever her man said over law enforcement, love is blind after all. But now investigators have verified to Trista that her blood was identified on Justin’s sheets that he travelled with from Portland. I can’t imagine the humiliation Courtney Roberts must have felt when investigators told her she had been sleeping in Justin and Trista’s queen size love nest. Whatever else you make think of Courtney Roberts, you have to give this girl credit for standing by her man.

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  1. Nice one CR!!! Your stud was sleeping around on you, yet you are willing to risk your freedom, life, and life of your own flesh and blood for the LOSER! Take the $30,000 and run sista- get out NOW before you LOSE EVERYTHING!!!

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    1. Sorry, but she is in up to her neck. Even if she gave states evidence, there is no way she won't be charged with the exact same crime.

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    2. Revenge and a possible reduced sentence! You know the saying about a "woman scorned".. Just saying.

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    3. Yes, I know Grace. Just trying to strike a cord, like I'm sure LE is doing with the blood/sheet bombshell ( bomb for none other than Courtney, however)I know exactly how the investigative techniques work. Hopefully this will be infuriating enough to bring the rat out of the hole!

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    4. Yeah, but she wouldn't get the 30,000.

      Just saying.

      :P (sticking out tongue)

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    5. Sorry suspicious573, I was just helping John with his smiley collection. No disrespect intended. We are all friends here.

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    6. Well, what I am saying is, the thought of 30G could go a LONG way for someone with stars like CR -but thank you Grace you are in charge here!

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    7. Thanks, thats what I thought- I've read here since the beginning and have ALWAYS been on the same side as the J4A regulars!

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    8. She wouldn't get the $30,000 if she was involved...and by now she is for not speaking up. Although I think she's the one who hurt Ayla to begin with and that he is covering it up. Nothing like a jealous girlfriend and woman scorned.

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  2. Wordman, this is a very strong post. I do need to ask, though it may be too discriptive, but if Tristas blood was on Justins sheets, was it deposited before or afer he moved back to WV??

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    1. John P!,

      It is a valid question. The blood was from Portland.

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    2. So JD was with Trista as late as Oct, then moves to WV away from CR. Grabs Ayla, does not give her back. Courtney had to feel she was next to be discarded! It does not absolve her involvement, but it does kind of explain why she will not speak in public or take the Poly!!

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    3. John P!,

      I think I misunderstood your question. The last time Trista made love with Justin was one week before she entered rehab. So before.

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    4. John, she apparently did take a poly. LE stated that all in the home that night did, and they know the results. I had to find that statement numerous times, for being called a liar. I don't mind finding it again for you, if you want me to.

      I found it anyway:


      McCausland confirmed that the people in the house on the night Ayla was last seen took lie-detector tests, "and they know the results."

      http://www.thebostonchannel.com/r/30334378/detail.html

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      The link may not work (from my cell)

      It is from thebostonchannel.com, titled "Hope Fades for Missing Maine Toddler".

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    5. How pregnant did they say Trista looked on that other blog at the birthday party? Was is five months?

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    6. Ugh Anon! I pray that is not true. I personally didn't think she looked pregnant...I really, really hope not.

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    7. Kit, For some reason I remembered there being someone on SWMNBN's blog saying Courtney refuded the poly due to her belief they were inaccurate. Now I am reading this and I have to believe McCausland rather than the other person.

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    8. On the pregnancy radar: i would say that Trista may have gained a little weight, but do you think she may have plotted her revenge on Justin by getting pregnant on purpose? Maybe the reason she went to rehab to clean up so fast too? hmmm..They do say that stress causes belly fat as well. Just my random thought's and questions....

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    9. John, yes I tend to believe LE over SWMNBN and her bloggers also. ;)

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    10. OH Dam, I just realized what anon was implying with Trista looking 5 months pregnant... I never claimed to be the sharpest tool on the shelf. I need to wake up or go to bed,one or the other..

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    11. John P! it's ok but I just had to look at the big picture for a second this is all a little shocking!

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    12. JMO but I don't think Trista plotted revenge on justin by getting pregnant Ashley.

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    13. I don't think that Trista plotted revenge on Justine by getting pregnant Ashley

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    14. I didn't mean in the terms your thinking chicky. I mean that this could have been a way for trista to hold onto justin if she wanted a family, or maybe to make his life more difficult with courtney. Maybe Trista was sick of being Justin go to when Courtney was to busy for him.

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    15. I have to politely agree with Chicky, no offense Ashley. I don't *think* she would purposely try to "trap" him, into a relationship. Geez, he was barely involved with Ayla. I mean anything is possible. I don't *think* that happened, I hope not. I don't even think she looked pregnant.

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  3. Now we know why the other blog released Trista's texts. They were trying to see what Justin was saying. Fits with the astrology, Courtney is suspicious of something!

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    1. Very nice connection Grace. It is known that SWMNBN had a familial tie with Courtneys family if I am not mistaken. Do you recall the tie off hand??

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    2. I believe the tie is New Jersey, a cousin of some sort.

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    3. SWMNBN ?? meaning please i'mm behind I guess...

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    4. She Who Must Not Be Named = SWMNBN

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    5. OHHH Hell Thanks Grace hehehe!

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    6. Thanks Grace, you answered before I could. Actually Ashley, Grace had to tell me too and I just liked it so now I use it.. :)

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  4. How does baby Ray'a dad fit into this love square? I thought trista was engaged?

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    1. Engaged, alone (Ray's daddy in jail) and a problem with alcohol, I could see how Justin could take advantage of the situation. Fits the astrology, always knowing his "opportunity". What a slimeball. You must be so proud Courtney.

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    2. I'm anon above. Not Courtney. Mom from Mass. But anyways I was just curious. I believe Courtney is as responsible for Ayla missing as Justin is. Whether she harmed Ayla or not she knows what happened. She is a fool.

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    3. Anon, I am sorry, I was not calling you CR. I was responding to your comment and calling her out. I will be more clear next time.

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    4. No problem Grace. I couldn't tell which you were saying.

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    5. Thanks anon. These people (Dips) make me bitchy and I forget sometimes how I come across to others. Thanks for posting here, I appreciate your comments.

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    6. Also remember that JD wanted Trista to abort when he found out she was pregnant and JD did not get involved with Trista again until Ayla was almost a year old.

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    7. See why they make me bitchy? Thanks John.

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    8. No Thanks needed Grace, there are several people involved in this case, including the DiPietros that get "grumpy" too. Can a guy get bitchy?? IDK

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    9. Then I guess they make me bitchy too, sometimes.. :)

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  5. Just like a man to not do laundry in between women. Not all men mind you, but plenty.

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    1. Ha! He'd never have any time for himself, Birdlady! He'd hafta spend every day at the laundrymat just to keep up with his busy bedroom schedule! hehehe

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    2. He never thought about her DNA on the sheets being confirmed by LE,Cant get out of that one Justin.You did it.

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  6. What better way to stand by your man than to turn tail when he is accused of wrongdoing......woman up Courtney. This guy doesn't care for you or he would never have been with Trista.

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  7. When i think of Courtney Roberts, I don't think of "standing by your man". I think of "perjury". She WILL be charged. I cannot for the life of me figure out why she does not RUN to the police to confess all she knows. She, in exchange, will lose her son. She is a coward.

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    1. It is time for LE to show how serious they are.

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  8. Wow! I'm a little shocked but not really...

    It was and is SO obvious that all Trista wanted was a family. Justin is a manipulator and that is plainly obvious.

    There are so many mothers who try over and over again, to make the relationship with the father of their child(ren) work, because they are simply being blind. Blinded by love. Blinded by the want/need for a family. Blinded because they think they are doing the right thing for their children and so many other reasons.

    I can only imagine, the only reason for courtney to "stand by her man", is due to guilt. What MOTHER would stand by their man, who is being suspected of the unthinkable, to his baby girl? That baby girls blood was found next to the bed that they share. He failed his polygraph (she apparently did too). He refuses to communicate with LE (she does too). He refuses to speak up/out for Ayla (she does too). He refuses to show true emotion for Ayla (she does too). Are they BOTH in hiding, because they are SO innocent? Is he just THAT manipulative? I have the feeling that she is just THAT guilty.

    With this new information, I do have to wonder how close Justin and Trista had become during that time? Did she notice an abusive nature? What about his views/attitude toward Ayla? I can see why she did not want to believe that HE did something to Ayla soon after Dec 17th now. A sexual relationship can be perceived completely different by the people in the relationship. Plus, sorry to be kind of "sexist" here, but sometimes a sexual relationship is viewed completely differently by the woman than it is by the man. For many women, a sexual relationship is viewed as a beautiful thing, love and trust, but for the man it is simply a pleasure act (that CAN go either way of course).

    Anyway, before people come out "swinging" at Trista, please remember that this was obviously mutual. If one of them is wrong for having such a relationship, then they BOTH are.

    BTW Wordman, that is a real "studly" picture of Justin. ;)

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    1. ITA Kit. The relationship was mutual at the time. The big difference now though is that only one of them is denying it ever existed. JD would not have Courtney "standing by her man" if he had not lied about everything to everyone. JMO

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    2. This is just more proof that Trista is a mom first, no matter the cost. She is laying all on the table for her daughter. No matter where speaking the truth leads or what some ignorant people might say about her as a result, it's obvious that all she wants her daughter back.

      Now,THAT'S a parent!

      I applaud you, Trista. Your courage is utterly amazing and you are growing stronger and stronger every day before our eyes, which is an inspiring thing to behold.

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    3. From this new info, it doesn't appear I was very far off in my interpretation of Justin's side of the infamous text messages. I think that is also why Justin would only go see Trista at her place if she was alone. Apparently Courtney didn't satisfy Justin, I wonder if the rumors about him cheating on her with an old girlfriend from Waterville recently are true?

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    4. Another old girlfriend?? I really need to get on FB more..

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    5. I thought he was hiding out at the Tudela Manse. Or is the new rumor that the mistress is the old girlfriend/cougar?

      That was wrong of me. I am putiing myself in timeout for that one.

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    6. Recently? How recent, according to these rumors? Before Ayla was "kidnapped", or after, or both?

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    7. Oh John! Good thing my timeout was up. ;)

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  9. Evil AND an idiot. But then we already knew that.

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    1. I do believe you are right about that..

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  10. Wordman, did those sheets happen to travel home with Justin when he went to Portland on the 15th? Courtney came up to visit on the 16th. Ayla was reported missing on the 17th. Had Courtney been giving Justin a hard time about talking with Trista so much? Is that why he was trying to discourage her calls after the 8th? Did Courtney find the sheets on the 16th and "snap?" Her car was parked behind Justin's in the driveway. How hard would it have been for her to leave with Ayla and come back without her without anyone else knowing she was even gone?

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    1. Good questions! Keep them coming! I am going to go look at her chart again, maybe I can find something in the transits for Dec 15/16th.

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    2. Abby,

      At the risk of sounding facetious, I do not have a linen timeline.

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    3. LOL Wordman!

      That's a great question Abby!! Courtney snapping, upon finding out about this is becoming a real possibility. Scary, but possible. :/

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    4. That was my suspicion from day one, Abby. She could have, at least phoned someone (in a white van for example) to swing through Violette ave and pick Ayla up after everyone was asleep.

      Is THIS the right time for the TRUTH Courtney?

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    5. Possibly she could tell he was "soft" on Trista. Women know/sense these things. People have mentioned she seems like a jealous type of person.

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    6. He does sounds like the type of man who may of not washed the sheets. That is just gross. This is more about the information that can be obtained of evidence even if it has been washed. This also confirms how much more the MSP know about the amount of blood that was Ayla's so close to the bed. This is great hope for all evidence that they thought was cleaned if this did occur.

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    7. Very observant Abby. You give us something to think and talk about!!

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    8. Linen Timeline,

      He may have washed the sheets several times but unless he used a detergent with enzymes, it may not break the cell wall and destroy the DNA.Next time use Tide.

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    9. Could he afford Tide over a habit i think not!

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    10. ITA Ashley.. I can barely afford Tide and I don't have a habit other than Oreos at times! (I deny that tho)

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    11. Hitting the like buttons for both Ashley and Chicky!!

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    12. I'm a little surprised he didn't get rid of the sheet, during the clean up, just to avoid this controversy. Unless he didn't realize the stain was on it (as it was noted the sheet could have been dark).

      Then again, I'm pretty sure he had no idea this "kidnapping" was going to blow up, so big, in his face.

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    13. This made me laugh and I so needed a laugh. Thank you for that!

      you should copyright the name Linen Timeline lol

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    14. Wordman,
      You are right he could of Whisk-ed it away! But of course he was in ERA.
      Glad I made you chuckle J4A .

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  11. Did I read somewhere that Courtney has several family members with violent tendencies? Looks like Peach might be safer behind bars at this point. I wonder if Heidi's manse has a good security system?

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    1. Maybe they can borrow VTLadys dogs for defense of the manse.. :-)

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    2. I think there is already a "dog" staying there... ;)

      So sorry, I couldn't resist. I will go in time-out.

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    3. Ohhhh Kit, That was so wrong and yet so right! LMAO!!!

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  12. Once again the truth is coming out from Trista, and NOT from Justin. The TRUTH. No matter how the public may view it.

    Don't be surprised for Momma HT to come out with, "that has not been verified by LE"...

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    1. Kit, it doesn't matter what Momma HT says. Courtney knows the truth, don't you Courtney?

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    2. Justin,you nasty boy, Explain that Hedi.He is A liar once again.

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    3. But LE has the sheets to prove it Hedi.

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    4. You're right, Kit! Trista must've PLANTED the blood? I'm sure it'll be something along those lines.

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    5. ITA G4A! Just hoping everyone is prepared for denial, as well as attacks on Trista. I actually commend Trista for coming out with this truth. I hope she is prepared. I always pray for strength for her, I hope my prayers are being answered for her.

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    6. And recall, LE has denied incorrect evidence or statements on several occassions. LE has not verified one piece of evidence other then to say some of the blood was Aylas. If we here nothing from McCausland, it is a good bet that this information is true also.

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    7. That she does Grace and i would really love for you to do one of those astrological things for me if you get the Time! so clever of you to bring astrology to the table! I think Courtney is involved with the clean up and disposal of Ayla, as well as the drug dealing and use that's so widely rumored or she would have already spilled like a sack of white rice or should I say brown rice, no racial pun intended....

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    8. Ashley, I would be honored to do your chart. PM me on facebook.

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    9. Just, "Rice" will do.

      I had one of those charts done 20 years ago and it was quite on target, I was not all that keen on the future part so I tucked it away for when, "the time is right" !! :-)

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    10. Grace whats your facebook handle lol~

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    11. Grace Wilson, just like I post here! Look for the really old Grace!

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  13. I am not surprised at all. Men. Women. Happens.
    And in the context of Justin and Trista, the texts, the way she greeted him at the vigil. She trusted him.
    Now we know why the hatred towards Trista from the other camp.
    So, Courtney, he's done it to you and he'll do it again. Guy isn't ready. Thinks with the wrong head.
    Hey, I was married to a Tom Kat, I didn't know B4 we got married. Found out later and it just never stopped. Finally it was over,much pain for all concerned.
    I have never known of a cheater where it worked out.
    The lack of trust : Is he really working late, what is wrong with me that he would do this eats at you until you just decide to go to a lawyer and get it over with.
    Hey,when he says he's with Derek,Lance or whoever where is he really ? Or at his Mothers house. lol She lies for him.

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  14. Nice post, Wordman!

    I always found it odd how CR and JDiP (thru others) have been SURE to mention (REPEATEDLY), how "Ayla was the product of a ONE NIGHT stand" between he and Trista; they never had an actual, committed, "RELATIONSHIP"...

    Courtney even had to mention this in the 'Ayla's Story' post she gave Angela Harry to publish on TLLOM, way back in January.

    Poor, hapless Justin... Lured into a "one night stand" by a coniving slut, bent on "trapping him" into fatherhood, in order to extort child-support payments out of him!
    Yeah. Right.
    :/

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    1. Ahhh, so true VTLady! That denial of a "relationship" has NEVER sat well with me. I never thought it to be the truth at all.

      "The truth is the truth."

      Is NOW the time for it to come out??

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  15. Hey, I am glad to see the "Approval" function.

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  16. Blood on the sheets? Normally when two people to sleep together, there's no blood in the bed. Was the cause menstrual bleeding, incidental injury, violence? When he's go the mother's blood on his sheets and the baby's blood next to his bed, you start to wonder what he was up to that everywhere he went there was blood...

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    1. Anon 6:34,

      Valid question.It is a testament to Trista's desire to get Answers For Ayla that she answered this question for me and allowed it to be published. The blood was from her normal cycle.

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    2. Yeah, I was thinking the same thing!
      Trista's BLOOD on his sheets? Consensual sex usually doesn't cause a woman to bleed...

      I'd think he'd (**hopefully**) have washed his sheets, SEVERAL times between being with Trista in Portland, and the CSI team confiscating his bedding.

      So, for investigators to have found ENOUGH of Trista's blood on those sheets to extract her DNA profile is a bit..concerning!
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    3. Hmmm... I REALLY have to wonder how that sits with courtney. Is it time YET to turn him in, court?

      BTW, Momma HT, LE can test to confirm if it is menstrual, so don't even bother...

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    4. Just more proof that the clean-up was absolutely sloppy. Aylas blood beside the bed and you don't bother to wash the linen. Very Sloppy Justin.

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  17. Justin says UMM,I couldnt help it the time was right.

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    1. LOL You got it! I remember Trista saying earlier that Justin never wanted to come visit Ayla unless she and Trista were alone. Now we know why.

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    2. G4A,

      Yes LOL, but please keep in mind that the visits Trista had in this context took place at Justin's apartment while they were alone. I do not want anyone to be accused of starting rumors.

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    3. Yes, but I'd guess that's when Justin sweet talked her into coming over to his place, during his visits with Ayla.

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  18. Trista thinks with her heart it's obvious by her words and actions. I feel so badly for her, he was playing her the whole time.
    As for Courtney, she is a desperate woman.
    What else has he done behind your back girl????
    It's time for all 3 to start talking
    The clock is ticking
    Your secrets are coming out
    A little at a time
    But the truth is coming to light

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    1. ITA Chipmunk!! I couldn't agree more!

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  19. I'm not surprised by this information. Did Trista say whether or not Ayla was with her during these, um....trying to be delicate here.... Okay. Where was Ayla while the affair was happening?

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    1. Anon 6:56,

      Trista was alone with Justin during these visits, it was their alone time.

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    2. I remember somewhere that it was stated, Justin would not visit Trista's apartment unless no one was there with her....

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    3. Ashley,

      That is correct. Keep in mind however that visits in this context happened while they were alone in Justin's apartment. I doubt Justin would have felt comfortable enough not being in his own environment for that kind of intimacy.

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    4. Thank you for your reply, Wordman. I don't like to pry, but I would like to understand the relationship better. You stated that this was their "alone time." Did they converse on a regular basis and make plans for these special times, or was it more of a random hook-up situation? Since you described it as an ongoing affair, I'm inclined to believe that they spoke/texted often? I guess what I'm really asking is whether this was a flirtatious/sexual relationship or was it deeper than that? Thank you again for taking the time to answer my previous question.

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    5. Anon 8:10,

      I can not speak for Justin or answer about specific calls/texts. I can can say that the relationship was important to Trista. It was her desire to be together as a family. Anything I say beyond that would be speculation.

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    6. Thank you again. One more question if you would allow :) The affair began shortly after little Ray was born, and ended a week before rehab, correct? Did the affair actually end or was that just the last time Trista and Justin were intimate? Again, I'm not trying to pry, but I am trying to grasp the nature of the relationship.

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    7. Anon 8:49,

      It depends on your definition of shortly. The affair , though I have quailfied that term in my post, lasted from May 2011 until October 2011. If you are asking if their relationship ended at that time or changed in some way, I can not say.

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    8. Fair enough :) By shortly, I was just figuring little Ray's birth date plus the standard 4-6 week period in which a woman is advised to avoid sexual activity after childbirth. By my calculations, this would fall in May, which lends credence to Trista's claim. Thanks again for taking time to answer.

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    9. Anon 9:28,

      I suspect that Trista will read through these comments at some point and she may decide to offer answers that I do not have.I do not want to project my own thoughts and feelings, especially on this subject matter. I thank you for asking such pointed and thoughtful questions.

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  20. I wanted to add that it is possible that the sheets had been laundered and just happened to be on the bed (maybe he only had one set of sheets?) when LE took evidence from the house, if Ayla's blood was found next to Justin's bed it makes sense they would have collected the bedding for DNA/Trace evidence. Maybe the blood showed up using luminol? It disgusts me to think anyone would sleep on blood stained sheets ESPECIALLY knowing it was not their blood. EWWW! Great post Wordman! :)

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    1. That's true J4A. Didn't courtney wonder where the blood stain(s) came from? I'm willing to bet he *lied* to her. Why didn't she buy her stud a new sheet?

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    2. J4A,

      Thank you. I am grateful you have allowed me to use this outlet while Jeff gives Answers For Ayla a break. I hope you had a wonderful day.

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    3. Addicts might not even notice what they're sleeping on though.

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    4. I would bet the sheets where a dark color so the blood only shined with luminol... The police did say many of samples so heres yet another sample counted in! not one we all expected though, what an interesting twist!

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    5. I would guess that the sheets were in the room but not on the bed. Sounds to me like LE tested everything there trying to find DNA of a kidnapper. And only found evidence of more of Justin's lies.

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    6. Wordman, Is this photo one from your files or J4A? I was asking because it appears to be the balloon vigil and when you look close-up, it appears it is Trista standing to the right (in the photo) of Justin. Is that Trista, at the balloon vigil??

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    7. I think it is Trista!!

      Courtney, how does it feel that Trista is "standing next to "YOUR" man"?

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    8. John P!,

      Jeff Hanson was kind enough to provide the photo from those he took at the balloon vigil for Ayla. I'm not certain if that is Trista next to him . I'm sure someone can confirm either way.

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    9. Yes Wordman I am sure thats trista, I was at the balloon Vigil. Trista stood by Justin the whole time even though that blood evidence was released to her at the time, She stood by maturely and talked things out with Justin. They definetely acted like they where more friendly with each other then just having a one night stand, but maybe that's what he wanted Courtney to think. And Justin picking Trista up for Ayla's appointment in Lewiston hmmm I think thats signify's more then a one night stand IMO.

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  21. Luminol would not have told LE that the blood was Trista's though... so I think we're back to just being grossed out by the lack of hygiene =)

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    1. Sheets or other artilces can be washed over and over but without a detergent that has enzymes as mentioned above such as TIDE then the blood will remain for sometime.

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  22. I thank Trista for sharing this personal infomation and understand that SHE will do anything to bring Ayla home.

    When was courtney told by LE that DNA was found on the sheets?
    I do think that courtney suspected that justin and Trista were communicating, or maybe even suspected a closer relationship and that either was I believe she was very angry.
    The biggest reminder of the closeness between the two, that was in her face, Ayla.
    We have a wicked step mother in my family and WOW, it is amazing the things she pulls too the extent that my grandaughter and her Dad have minimal contact. Sad.

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    1. Chicky,

      I do not know if LE educated Courtney about the DNA. I was told by Trista that they informed her of the affair but that she did not believe them.

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    2. Denial... Sad. With actual DNA proof.

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    3. So, if I understand correctly, justin was moving items (supposedly) to finish moving from the Portland location. Maybe he stripped the bed there, threw the sheets in a bag and had not laundered them yet at his, "house " down there in Waterville. Hence, easy to extract DNA.

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    4. Oops, sorry! I just realized you said you were not sure if they told her about the DNA. Well, she'll know soon enough...

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    5. Thank you Wordman. Can I ask when the DNA results on the sheets was confirmed? Is this recent. I am wondering if lab results are still coming in or not.

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    6. Chicky,

      Trista was told about the DNA confirming her affair with Justin about a month ago. I do not know how long LE may have had the information before telling her.

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    7. Thank you and Trista for the answer. There may be other testing that takes longer, tho I certainly understand why LE cannot or should not show their whole hand.
      I appriciate all the questions that have been answered tonight.
      I also LOVE the calmer safer atmosphere here tonight!!!
      On that note, I'm going to hit the sack! Good night all!!

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  23. I REALLY have to commend Trista for making this public, the more I think about it.

    I raises a ton of questions for me. So many I can't post them all at once.

    One thing I would like to point out/question... Is this why Justin did NOT "point his finger" at Trista, at least right away? Remember his statement, "You are not her parent"? HAS HE, personally pointed his finger at Trista/Jessica? Can anyone recall? OR, has it just been his defenders/groupies, trying so desperately to keep the focus off him/his family and friends? Does/did their RELATIONSHIP mean more to him than he would like to let on? More than his defenders know?

    I have no idea what truly happened to Ayla, but the more truths that Trista comes out with, the more possibility there is of the truth coming out in regards to Ayla. This, in itself has got to cause some major friction for the DiP's/courtney.

    Which one is going to turn on the other first...?

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    1. Excellent observtion. I can't say I ever remember JD pointing the finger at Trista himself. Does anyone else know?

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    2. I predict Justin is going to throw Courney under the bus saying she did this in a fit of rage. Time for Courtney to shit or get off the pot!

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  24. Of course she wouldn't believe LE. If she has been covering for Justin all this time, how big a fool does this make her?

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    1. I have a feeling that she does actually believe it, but thinks that by denying it, it will either "go away", or maybe she hoped no one else would ever find out.

      Of course, when told by LE, she would put on a show. A show of how wonderful her stud is, how great their relationship is. And maybe even hopes of appearing innocent and naive...?

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    2. It makes Courtney look like an idiot, she already looked evil. Now she looks like an evil idiot that has gotten what she deserves.

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    3. Kit & KimC, If I am not mistaken, Courtney can just look at the posted picture and I think it is Trista Standing by "Courtneys" man at the balloon vigil. She has to know!!

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    4. John, perhaps she and Justin planned Ayla's demise together. If she's as guilty as Justin - they are stuck with each other. I hope they both sit around wondering who will go state's evidence first.

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    5. respectfully disagree kimc. she clearly loves n misses Ayla.

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  25. WOW, if I were her and if I had only been with this man for how long a year or so, I don't think I would be believing him I would probably cut my ties. Unless she had something to do with it?

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  26. I was wondering if Trista told Law Enforcement about this affair in October upfront or did they come to her with this information? Just wondering?

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    1. Anon 7:35,

      The affair was from May until October. Trista informed investigators long before the DNA evidence confirmed her story.

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    2. hmmm, there was a few pics of posted of trista that kinda looked like a baby bump. is there any truth to that? just thinking if she was pregnant would justin be the father?

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  27. Betty from BangorMay 1, 2012 at 10:37 PM

    I just dropped in on this site tonite. I knew it! I knew it! I have thought since day one that Justin was playing Trista and making her think a home was what he wanted too. You could hear it in Trista voice and emotions. Of Coarse, he would deny everything to Courtney, even going as far to deny it to the world.
    I feel so bad for Trista, for Ayla and for little Ray. Trista's feeling were human. God, Haven't we all been played before! In one way or another!
    Courtney is in this way deeper than I thought at first.
    Courtney- call off all your crazy friends.
    He is not worth the bloody sheets you slept on!!!
    Where's Ayla?? Courtney Speak up for Ayla!

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    1. Italy also. Tristin is human. She was played. That's why she didn't want to believe he had anything to do with Buggy being gone... Courtney was hurt by baby A's dad when he cheated on (her MySpace comments confirmed This.)
      How do you feel about stud man now...

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  28. I know I read a reference that CR was rumored to be pregnant, it might explain her "loyalty" and refusal to speak in public.

    Man, oh man I hope that was just a vicious rumor!!!!!!

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  29. Wow, Courtney you have been manipulated by the master manipulator. How stupid do you feel now. You have stood by Justin and all he has done is lie to you. He cheated on you. Do you still trust him? You are keeping a secret for him that will affect your entire life, is he really worth it. Your son should be your world, not Justin. Speak the truth Courtney before he puts the entire blame on you because it looks like he wants someone else to take the fall instead of himself. Please do the right thing courtney before you end up in prison and your son will be put into the system and you will never see him again. Is all of this worth your sons life. Come on, let's get real here.

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    1. You make a valid point Max, if Justin has been lying to Courtney all this time, is it possible "when the time is right", "the truth" according to JD may place the entire blame on Courtney.

      A sick thought to provide reasoning as to why he would do it, he already got Ayla to "disappear", why would he want any other child, especially one that is not his own, "wreacking havoc" on his life?

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    2. I say to you Courtney that the time is right now to do the right thing, tell what you know. I'm sure Justin has created many stories and situations that involve everyone in the house and the tudela clan. All of the above are going to have a lot to answer to. Justin has created these manipulations and There will be much blame on everyone because each and every one of them has played a part in this very sad story. This investigation I believe has so many parts to it and all of their lives will be destroyed because they trust and believe in justin. Wake up all of you, can't you see that he is not the person you think he is, his family is even afraid of him, are you all so afraid that is why you say nothing, you know if your so afraid of him, call in a tip, tell someone, anything, we need to find this precious baby Ayla

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    3. Unless of course Courtney is the murderer. She may have hurt Ayla in a jealous rage. I can't understand a mother covering for a child abuser if she's innocent of wrong doing.

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    4. Possible, kimc...

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    5. From the very beginning I have thought the same thing. When push comes to shove the whole Dip clan will turn on CR in a very ugly way. She is the odd man out. I don't understand why she does not see that! Her time for cutting deals is likely almost up, if it's not already after finding the items in the river. Unless she is personally responsible for Ayla's demise, she should be sprinting to the police station. Denial is going to cost her everything.

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  30. This fact coming out explains a lot, about certain things/feelings between Justin and Trista. Especially Trista. (for me anyway).

    I have to really wonder what the heck happened to cause him to pounce when Trista went to rehab. Who pushed him into the custody grab? Phoebe? courtney? Both? Why? Money? Revenge? WHO wanted him to keep Ayla?

    I know we've all gave theories, I just can't help thinking these questions out loud.

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    1. I think Phoebe pushed him for the grab, and the why is so Phoebe could teach JD how to work the system for himself the way she did for them!! JMO

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    2. Kit, maybe he grabbed Ayla to keep control of Trista.

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    3. KimC,

      I don't think I am following. He would have had to know that his failure to comply with the 22Oct return of Ayla was going to ruin whatever control he had previously. Any mother, denied her daughter is going to fight back eventually.

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    4. John P!, I agree with your assessment of Phoebe. I think it was she who wanted Ayla for the state $$$ Ayla could produce and to stop the child support obligation. Phoebe has been working the system for years and now wants her kids via their offspring to work it too. Look at Elisha, look how they push away her baby daddy. Sickening that our system allows this crap! My tax $$$ at work.

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  31. I hope the airing the dirty laundry will speed the Tide of the investigation! I Cheer the Gain Trista has shared with the public! A Shout Out to the Dip family - hope you all get laundry duty in prison!

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    1. "hope you ALL get laudry duty" LOL

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    2. Wow, LOL! Hopefully Justin & Co. will be hung out to dry...

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    3. i agree someone should pay with there life give them time time feel ayla's pain and to hear her crys for mommy and grammy and her baby brother.

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  32. Betty from BangorMay 1, 2012 at 11:16 PM

    Aidens dad cheated on Court-Now Justin has cheated on her!!

    But hey Court-thats ok-cuz where your going, the girls will all love you!

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    1. snuggle time Courtney. Laundry almost done

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  33. I am going to open a new thread since the comment mark is getting close to 200 and I know some of you cannot see them when it displays the "load more" link and therefore cannot continue in the discussion. It has been a wonderful, healthy discussion tonight so I will link this blog posting to the new thread in order to accommodate all of you and to keep the discussion going.

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  34. I think you should have thought this out before you wrote it.
    If Trista was having an affair with Justin up until 1 week before she went into rehab, what does that say about her, and some of the things she has said.

    Didn't she accuse Justin of causing injuries to Ayla in Sept.? She was willing to have sex with someone she thought abused her baby girl?

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    1. It says Trista is the type of mother to put all on the table in an effort to bring her daughter home. Regardless of how people think of her for her decisions, it does not matter if it brings Ayla home. That is a true PARENT!! That is what it tells me.. But that is just me..

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    2. I don't think Trista fully opened her eyes, as to Justin's true nature, until AFTER Ayla was reported "kidnapped". I think she had a suspicion, but who really wants to believe the father of their child is abusing them? I really think she believed his poor excuses, right up until it was too late.

      Manipulation.

      JMO

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    3. It tells me Trista was confused and easily manipulated because of her loneliness and her drinking problem. Justin always seizes his opportunity, remember?

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    4. Btw, why is Trista's alcoholism such a major concern NOW? Justin didn't seem to mind up until he reported Ayla "kidnapped"...

      I can't even take these Justin Defenders seriously anymore. I haven't seen Justin, himself, point HIS finger at Trista, for anything. I asked up-thread if anyone else could recall such a statement from Justin? Maine-iac, could not recall. Anyone else? I don't understand the issues with Trista from everyone on "Justin's side", EXCEPT Justin...

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    5. Anon 8:50,

      You are correct; I did not have to "think this out" as you say. Trista insisted that this truth be told and I think it shows great resolve on her part to expose herself yet again to the judgment and ridicule of strangers. You are welcome to form your own opinions of her, she is well aware of the toll. It does not change the fact that Justin lied about having a relationship with her.

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    6. I only have respect and compassion for Trista. Though suffering the worst nightmare a parent can imagine, she has remained vocal and honest. I can't imagine the strength it takes to be so open amidst the tawdry and cruel remarks of the dip supporters.

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    7. A bruise he explained,and a pulled leg muscle,that he explained.At the time she believed him,trusted him.The broken arm was later.

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  35. I'm afriad that is all I have in me tonight. I want to thank everyone that participated in this discussion. I feel we are one step closer to Answers and Justice For Ayla.

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  36. Wordman, I have a question that may be rude, but it is going to get asked eventually. I understand if Trista does not want it talked about, but I'm going to ask. Did/does Ray Sr. know about this?

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    1. Kit,

      Your question was actually asked earlier, but there are a lot comments here so this is perhaps a good one to revisit. J4A has opened a new thread to continue this discussion. Trista says that he is aware, but will not elaborate further.Trista has been very open on subjects pertaining to Ayla and her own life, so if she wants to keep this small part of herself private, I for for one will respect that. Thank you for all your comments and questions Kit you are a valued member of Aylas team.

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    2. Thank you so much for your reply Wordman. I'm sorry I made you answer the question twice. I felt rude to even ask, I only wanted to ask, before truly rude speculations/questions started to arise about that. Thank you, once again, to you and Trista for speaking the truth. I completely understand Trista's feelings on this subject. That is her right and totally understandable, plus it has nothing to do with Ayla.

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  37. I also have a friend that has had relations with Justin while he has been dating Courtney. Way to go Courtney dumbass

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    1. Justin is a real studmuffin, huh? Is your friend a member of TLLOM? ;-)

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    2. This post actually scares me....what if Courtney found out and Ayla's disapearance is her revenge toward Justin and Trista?

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    3. I agree ,scary .Good question

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  38. Justin did not even have the decency to change his sheets with Trista's DNA on it for his overnights with Courtney? Maybe Justin wanted the scent of a REAL woman to linger there. Courtney got played and is STILL being played! Justin continues to cheat and soon enough, he will and his family along with his "NEW MOMMY" will start pointing ALL the fingers at her, her jealousy of Trista, her abuse and hatred of Ayla, and eventually, her murdering Ayla. Courtney, you are about to get F7ck*ed...AGAIN!

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  39. Im not sure about Courtney,Justin and Trista had to keep seeing each other after because of Ayla, What if Courtney knew they slept together? Ayla missing ends Justin and Tristas relationship.

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  40. i was always taught that it takes a really man to be a father.the more i hear about a missing child it kills me in side i just found out some good news about my really mom,but know im having a hard time finding out if she is still alive or passed on.any father who could break there little girls or there son is not atrue man they should be punsered for what they did to that beauiful little girl.

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