Saturday, May 19, 2012

LNM and LRC: Using all available resources?

MS 6 January 2012


Dipietro is now working with the Laura Recovery Center, a group in Texas that helps find missing children. They are helping him make posters, buttons and flyers - and keeping Ayla's story in the public eye. "I want her poster, her face on every corner in America," said Dipietro.



MS 4 April 2012


Cynthia Caron, the founder of LostNMissing -- a nonprofit group that works with families of missing persons -- has been working closely with Ayla's maternal family, and she helped organize the event.
She (Trista) also works closely with the Laura Recovery Center, another nonprofit that had been collaborating with Justin DiPietro.
She said communication with DiPietro ended in late January. "We don't know why conversations stopped," she said. (Cynthia) Caron said being in the media spotlight is difficult for families of the missing, and people generally react to the pressure in one of two ways.
(Cynthia Caron of LNM) says the answer is for one of two reasons. "They either withdraw from it, or they do the opposite -- they just dive right in," she said. “Staying in the spotlight serves a purpose,” she said. "Someone always knows something, so the more you get the information out there, the better the chance the person who knows something will come forward."




Why would the parent of a missing child that had been working with LRC cease collaborations? Would not any parent do anything in their power to find that child? Would not any parent want to put their face on every corner and light pole? What type of character does a person exhibit with this type of behavior? Justin, why did you stop working with Laura Recovery Center and become so undeniably quiet? Would not any parent take advantage of any oppertunity from the media to beg and plead on the 5 month anniversary of their going missing?


 
I have my answers, maybe you can provide a rational reason as to why ceasing collaboration with LRC For This Angelic Missing Child was the right choice for this father. It is my opinion, and way of thinking, that this behavior displays a lack of care, compassion, and concern for Ayla Reynolds, and a lack of character by her father.

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  1. Exactly John!! It's one thing to avoid the public and media because it might be overwhelming. But to stop communicating with LRC to help put the word out is absurd. John is there anyway I can send you a pm?

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    1. I don't have PM anymore. If you email Grace, Emerald, JMH or Tori they can forward it to me and I will respond. I do not believe I have an e-mail account set up with my banner! Sorry for the inconvenience.

      I like your post also Ruby, you picked out one of hte issues I have with JD right of the bat. Thank you for noticing.

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    2. Cynthia Caron of LNM) says the answer is for one of two reasons. "They either withdraw from it, or they do the opposite -- they just dive right in,"

      My question to Cynthia would be: do parents and family members dive right in and then withdraw a month later? Or do they either dive in or not dive in? To me, to dive in for a month, then withdraw shows that Justin was trying to make it LOOK like he was a concerned father when really he unfortunately knew and knows what happened to Ayla. You can only put up an act so long before you become "emotionally incapable" of continuing with the act. This is why, in my humble opinion, he withdrew. Just the sheer knowledge of what happened to her, he would have to be a professional actor to keep up the "comcerned father" gig.

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    3. CML, IMO it was more arrogance that got him to dive in thinking no-one would figure him out. It was media pressure that caused him to back out because McCausland, Jeff, Trista and others were pointing out the wholes in what was being said. MOO, he would still be doing interviews and asking for help if his own words and stories had not back-fired.

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    4. When I provided my commentary on what parents usually do when a child is first missing is based on the initial shock of losing a child.

      We've had parents that are so extremely distraught they physically cannot function. However, as time goes by...and unfortunately their missing loved is not located... one has to realize that becoming involved is of the utmost importance. Not only for the "assigned tasks" of doing "something" , but for the awareness that is crucial in any missing person case. To do nothing and have complete avoidance while being able to maintain a normal lifestyle (dating, working, shopping, eating-out, etc.) and not do anything to call out for your missing loved one is always going to raise eyebrows from the public...and it will not help to find their needed loved one.

      This includes missing adults. This is what we always strive to do for our parents at the onset of a registration of a missing loved one: We guide families on what needs to transpire...we keep them busy by providing tasks that will help bring awareness...we educate them on the importance of THEM going to the detectives and needing that communication. We then move forward with the other necessary needs that must transpire to finding their missing loved one from searches to media awareness.

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  2. He prefers to work with TLLOM.

    How long has TLLOM been working with families of missing children?

    I've heard that they've put up billboards, which is great. I haven't seen anything else. Are there things being done, that I'm missing? Not seeing? Is it secretive?

    The only interviews I read, are coming from Trista. It's always the same, "Justin DiPietro could not be reached for comment".

    Elisha was the last of them to speak publicly, because it seems to me, Justin pushed that responsibility on to her. Where was he?? Phoebe even arrived late.

    NONE of them have spoken out for or to Ayla. Not to the "kidnapper" either, besides Justin to speak out to "not her parent". They show absolutely no concern or emotion for Ayla, ever.

    Someone just took her.

    Who? Took her where?

    Where is Ayla?

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    1. I heard the billboards were on the other side of the country because Maine does not allow billboards.

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    2. I know... I just didn't want to "put down" the one "effort" that I'm aware of. I'm not in ME, but I'm not too far away. I haven't seen any efforts, such as Ayla's poster/face on every streer corner in America. If billboards are not allowed in ME, are there not other things they could publicly be doing?

      Maybe I'm totaly wrong. If I am then I'm very sorry. If anyone knows how long TLLOM has been working with families of missing children, along with what they are currently doing for Ayla, I'd love to hear about it.

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    3. TLLOM is not a 501c3 non-profit organization. It is a group of people that support Justin, the kidnapping philosophy of what happened to Ayla, and what they are trying to do to find Ayla! At least this is the best I know because they do not work with either LRC or LNM to create one giant force trying to find Ayla

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    4. Why isnt anyone working with the National Center for missing and exploited children? They have far more resources and legitimacy than LRC or LMC. Perhaps because they arent as pliant and easily manipulated.

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    5. From what Justins friends have said he doesnt talk because it may not be safe for Ayla,LE wants him to talk,Justin and TLLOM know better than LE what is best for Ayla.One friend even said he doesnt want to spook the kidnapper(Connie).The same person that lied and said Justin was doing a 1700 word interview,we know how that turned out dont we.LIE

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    6. So Phoebe says MCcausland is full of himself,I think TLLOM is full of themselfs,they think they know better than LE how to protect Ayla,and how to find her.You know nothing TLLOM,you have no proof or evidence,LE does,yet Hedi you still bash Trista and say that people shouldnt judge ,what in the hell do you think you are doing when you do it to Trista? Judgeing with no proof, Hypocrite!

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    7. Correct me if I am wrong, but isn't TLLOM a closed/private group? If that's the case, explain how it is helping to get, and keep, Ayla's face and name out in the public.

      I want to add, it is my personal belief that if you ask for the public's help, we (the public) have every right to ask questions of you.

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    8. Absolutely right Jo. And I believe that is exactly why TLLOM is a close group. They are not going to allow any questions to be asked unless they are approved. As for what they know about finding missing children, it is learned from books and stories of passed cases. They know nothing more about current tecnologies, techniques, or investigative methods than any of us. The difference is they are throwing all thier resources into personnal projects such as the billboards instead of working with other organizations and LE towards a single common goal, Justice For Ayla!

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    9. Ayla is represented by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. That is the first place we have any minor child missing to be registered. Her mom was sure to have her every possible help to be provided which includes LRC and LNM, as well as thankful for the help of the community who have put together events all on their own to find her beautiful baby. She is very appreciative of all.

      http://www.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/PubCaseSearchServlet?act=viewChildDetail&caseNum=1185956&orgPrefix=NCMC&seqNum=1&caseLang=en_US&searchLang=en_US

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  3. The reason he does not work with the Laura Recovery Center is 1. He does not want Ayla recovered 2. In working with them, he would actually have to speak to them. And as we all now know, JD is not speaking as he may slip in his words. IMO

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    1. ITA loulou! 100%

      Same reason he does not communicate with LE!

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    2. LouLou, those are two of the reasons I had been thinking of myself. I like your thoughts on this.

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  4. Can anyone imagine anxious, distraught parents and relatives saying of a missing child, "Someone just took her". Final stop. End of story? It is ludicrous!It's unimaginable!

    Do the DiPietros think we are all fools? Do they think we have never witnessed parents who are actually in torment over their missing child and using all avenues to keep the child's name and face out there? I am so incensed that these Di Pietro people are never questioned by the media in any form. Anything they say is just reported with no follow up questions. Absolutely no investigative reporting done at all to help bring Ayla home or to find justice for her.

    I am not believing the billboard stories. Where are they ...in what cities? I heard there was one in my state of Washington. Where? I want to see this billboard. I drive the I5 corridor from Portland, OR to Tacoma, WA quite often.

    These people are not pleading for Ayla, they express no concern about Ayla, and Justin keeps saying that "when the time is right" all will be revealed because "the truth is the truth". If he doesn't know where Ayla is, as his gaga female groupies assert, why in the name of all that is holy does he act like he knows EVERYTHING?

    Don't anyone tell me that Justin is protecting Trista, Jessica, Ray and family, Jeff, Becca or anyone else in the Reynolds' affiliate. We're not stupid out here. Justin remains close-mouthed because he has been told that his foot in said pie-hole will put him away for a good long time.

    I am so sick of these miserable DiPietro perps and their gaggle of defenders who can't even state logical defenses for theDiPietro non-actions and their "Someone just took her, now get on with your lives and let me get on with mine" heartless stance.
    __Pennyante

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    1. Thank you Pennyante, ITA with what you have to say. The worst part is how Justin is so silent but yet he can harrass a 14 y/o boy who is doing more on his one blog to find Ayla than Justin has done in 5 months!

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    2. Oh my gosh. I totally missed that. What did Justin do to him? I don't want to drudge things up. Is it at his blog?

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    3. Kit He has posted a page to the incident. His mom is handling it from what I can tell. He, at 14y/o is taking the high road and inviting Justin to continue posting on his blog. He is truely a great young man!

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    4. That's horrible! I will go read it. :(

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    5. I'm going to have to go check this out too. He has a bunch of women do most of his talking for him, but comes out of the woodwork to harrass a 14 yr old - who's doing more for Ayla than he is?

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    6. Remember, bullies never pick on anyone their own size! Just another example of Justin's lack of priorities.

      I have not read about Trista bullying anyone who has spoken negatively about her. Oh! That's right! She is more concerned with finding her missing child, Ayla! Trista is not hiding from the media.

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  5. This is kinda off topic for this post... hope that is OK.

    In my mind I keep going back to the LIP. I do NOT believe it was a coincidence that he purchased a LIP and then Ayla goes 'missing'. An unemployed dad soon to be strapped w/ 2 child support payments would not have 2 pennies to rub together to make the payments on the policy for any length of time.... especially for 16 years until Ayla was of age to attend college.

    2. Initally, I believe he intended to make her death look like an accident in order to collect on the LIP (a fall down the steps, etc). Two things could have happened.... 1. After going through with the accident, it did not look like and accident and he thought he would get caught or 2. he actually did kill her accidentally in a fit of rage before the planned killing took place. Neither of these would have passed the sniff test for LE, he would have been arrested, charged with murder, etc.... so he abandons LIP plan, disposes of her body never to be found because any trauma to her body could be linked back to him and the basement blood.

    I probably wasn't very articulate in all of that but bottom line, I believe the LIP was purchased for the short term. Poor Ayla.

    Justin, you sorry piece of shit, where is Baby Ayla?

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    1. I believe either one of those loulou. Unless the LIP was backdated. LE must know if it was backdated though, no? I believe the told Trista it was purchased a few days after Justin took Ayla. What would the paperwork show as "purchased" date? The original date, or the backdated date? How much digging around would they need to do, to find out the real purchased date?

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    2. I hope this makes sense but I am agreeing with 2-2. The policy was purchased early with an accidental lan to collect. The injuries incurred were failed attempts at something worse. In a rage (drug induced if drugs are ever verified) the death occured before it was the right time. But he thought he could out smart everyone and still collect. JMO

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    3. Justin took truck driving classes and he bought a LIP on a baby. Both things sometimes are associated with the drug trade. I am leaning more and more toward there being a drug trade reason for his actions and believing the abuse and murder, assuming they happened, was not planned, just Justin being Justin and doing the things Justin had a habit of doing.

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    4. The LIP was NOT back-dated.
      Justin scammed Ayla's SS# out of Trista, using the "savings account ruse" around the SAME TIME that the LIP is said to be dated.
      Justin would've needed Ayla's SS# in order to purchase the LIP against her.
      He and CR botched the staged "accidental death". It didn't look "accidental" and/or left Justin vulnerable to felony child-endangerment charges that would nullify his ability to collect a policy payout.

      The ONLY way they could think of to save their $25,000 payday, was to stage an "abduction/murder" that they assumed/hoped LE would pin on an unidentified "suspect".

      They ORIGINALLY wanted Ayla's body found..probably long before NOW.

      Ayla's botched death happened between Dec.8th and Dec.10th, IMO...accounting for WHY Trista was given the run-around regarding Ayla being "unavailable to take her calls".

      Justin and CR---likely with other DiPs as accomplices and/or having knowledge of Ayla's death at this point--- hid her body in the shed. They devised a plan to report her "missing" sometime in the near future.

      They DIDN'T count on Trista filing custody-related paperwork the Friday she did, and were NOT quite ready to "report Ayla missing", but couldn't risk having DHHS come knocking BEFORE they had a chance to claim her as "abducted".
      The hasty and ill-devised "abduction" reported to LE was the result of having to cover for Ayla's absence from Justin's home.

      Obviously, now that LE has failed to believe their "staged abduction", and have focused on Justin and co. as their ("unofficial") prime suspects, they're no longer hoping her body "surfaces".

      They KNOW that it's likely the only thing standing between them and first degree, premeditated MURDER charges!!

      The Tudela's got involved in Justin's defense because they were afraid of losing their insurance business, or having Derek be seen as a co-conspirator in Ayla's murder, IMHO.

      JMO/MOO

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    5. I don't really think the LIP was backdated either. I was wondering though, how that even works? There would be paperwork showing the original date right? I *think* when LE found out about the LIP they must have looked into it further. Especially looking to see when he purchased it, not just the effective date. I've heard it mentioned quite a few times, so I was wondering if anyone knew for sure how it works, and how the paperwork is handled.

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    6. Kit,
      I'm not entirely sure of the particulars regarding when/under what circumstances a LIP could be legally "back-dated" to an earlier effective date. To me that sounds hinky and illegal, but apparently it CAN be done, according to some people who claim to know about such things.

      It has been suggested that Ayla's LIP was either legally or ILLEGALLY backdated by the Tudela's AFTER Ayla was already dead. Meaning that either Derek didn't know the baby was deceased when backdating, or DID and was conspiring to rip-off State Farm on behalf of His Boy Peach.

      I say this is BS, that the LIP WAS purchased when as the date shows, just after Justin took Ayla, and LONG BEFORE she "disappeared", because the date roughly coincides with when he is said to have scammed Ayla's SS# from Trista..
      JMO

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    7. I do agree with that VTLady. I think it was purchased when LE confirmed it to have been purchased (to Trista/Jeff), and yes, it coincides with when Justin scammed Trista for Ayla's SS#.

      I never even knew LIP's could be backdated, until reading about it due to Ayla's case. Obviously it CAN be done, but you're right, that def. seems hinky, whether it really is or not.

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    8. I never looked at it that way, and I should have since timing is usually everything. I had always thought that the life insurance policy was backdated but now I have to think that it was not. The worst part about thinking that is that it throws the accidental death scenario out the window and now it appears it was premeditated.

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    9. J4a, I am inclined to agree with the reasoning of VTLady as well. But I still believe the final harm was a case of rage. The LIP, the possible failed attempts, all this I think was premeditated as a part of what JD was hoping would turn into the huge replacement drug connection that BR was before her arrest. The day of the 16th though, after partying all night and having to go back to WV to watch Ayla while hung over and possible high, he snapped on this little angel and commited the act without thinking. Not the first time he did that right. Then afterwards has been trying to greedily collect anyways, even though it is probably not going to happen. Hope that makes sense.

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  6. I would *guess* his reason(s) are similar to LouLou's point #2. Probably the LRC wanted him to go public, give interviews, etc. and he doesn't want to do that. His reasons for not wanting to talk could/may well be that he worries about 'slipping up' in his words. It could also be that he has seen how talking to the media and LE has only caused more problems for people that are suspected of hurting/killing their child. Here, I'm think of Deb Bradley and how initially she gave several interviews, but her every word was scrutinized and misinterpreted to make her look guilty. Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. When you know the public is looking at you as a suspect and you know that every word you speak and every facial expression is going to make you look even worse, why bother.

    Heck, look at my posting here. No matter what I write, it is interpreted as support for Justin and I am accused of being a troll or some LLOM alias. I'm neither. This just goes to show how bias and wrong some of you are.

    I do not have children, so I have never felt the automatic love that a normal parent usually has for their children. Sadly, all parents do not love their offspring. I don't think Justin or his family had a very strong attachment to Ayla. I don't think they are all that concerned with her missing, if they are innocent. If they are guilty, then their concern is only saving themselves from jail.

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    1. The start of your comment is actually my #3 reason. I believe that LRC would have had him doing every interview Trista has been doing and right beside her. He does not want to slip up anymore because his defense team is getting frustrated with him.

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    2. Chicago... WHY BOTHER? Are you kidding me?! You bother because your child is missing.... maybe being tortured, raped, etc. Under NO circumstance does an innocent parent whose child is missing shut up in fear of how their words will be interpreted. NEVER. Because a parent loves their child more than they love their self! So, no amount of speculation by the media, hateful bloggers, etc would shut an innocent person up.... Trista is a prime example of that!

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    3. Amen, loulou! Chicago, you just do not get it. Or maybe you do. Your reactions are most curious to this whole case. Only my opinion. "Why bother?" if your every action and world is scruntinized? Why bother to speak out and ask for help in finding your child, even though you may come under unjust suspicion? Not only are you not a parent, but you sound like a sociopath with little understanding of the human heart.

      You have a fine-tuned agenda my firnd, IMO.

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    4. "Friend" that should be. I was so upset, I could barely type at Chicago's "Why bother?" I am still shuddering at her "logic".

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    5. Chicago and VTLady are the same person I think. I also think it is LE.

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    6. Yeah VTLady, I don't know where that came from. :/

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    7. Lol, Kit!
      Glad I'm not the only one!
      I've been trying to figure out if I missed something, or what...

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    8. VTLady, Why are you asking us so many questions if you are LE you already know the answers!!!

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  7. In my opinion, Justin stopped working with LRC because one, it was too much work because even if he was not working with them, why hasn't he been out hanging posters? He was all gung-ho in that first television interview and was out posting flyers etc and that was it, you never saw him posting another one.

    LRC tells all the families they work with in order to keep your child's name and face in the public's eye, do every interview possible, set up a website, talk to the media, call them if they don't call you and if Justin talks there is more of a chance he will slip up, the same with the others in the house, that is why none of them talk. Chicago hit that nail right on the head.

    The one thing that that you said, why bother? If your child was truly kidnapped, it doesn't matter what LE or the public say, you should be pleading with that person every chance you get asking them to please bring your child home. That is why you should bother.

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    1. By the way, I don't think it is fair that commenters are accusing anyone of being anyone, as long as someone is respectful and can have a decent debate or discussion, I don't care who they side with. We all here should be siding with Ayla anyway

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    2. Justiceforayla... I think he was all gung-ho in the beginning because he had no idea of the train that was coming (media, bloggers, etc). I am sure he has had a history of skirrting the law and thought he could outsmart LE. And then we all jumbed on board... blogs, websites, peter, nancy grace, etc.... so he shut up and hid on the hill with sweeping views. He thought he could pull off his lies.... not very smart.

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    3. the little birdieMay 19, 2012 at 5:11 PM

      Justin has fled the state.

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    4. Hi, hit and run! I detest this kind of "look at me; I'm so smart" posting. How's that elbow you insist on using in our ribs?

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  8. ITA Tori, your comments are exactly on point. When the lies and fabrications started being caught, Justin kept talking for a short time until he realized he had to keep silent or be found out for what he really is. IMO what he really is is a COWARD! No parent let's the face or name of thier missing child be forgotten. My grandchild just went home with her mom and dad and I didn't even want them to go home. The emotional bond for any parent is just too strong. Unless you have no emotion, no heart, you are a COWARD!

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    1. I agree with that John!

      If Justin WANTED Ayla found, he would PUBLICLY be doing something. He would be communicating with LE. He would be calling reporters, or at least returning their calls - instead of, not being able to be reached for comment. He would not care what the general public thinks of him. Actually, if he had done those things, the general public may have a little bit of a different view of him. Instead, he is basically hiding. He IS a coward. JMO

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  9. I figured that Birdie, inexperienced baby killer truck driver, it's of to hard to flee Maine, no investigative journalism there. Waterville newspaper could care less about real Justice for Ayla, I think the owners of the paper are friends with the Tudelas.

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    1. It's not too hard to flee Maine if you are a truck driver.

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    2. LOL Suz, I knew what you meant.

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  10. I have a theroy cr may have done something out of jealousy. Thought that if ayla wasnt there to create that link between jd and tr then jd would have no reason to communicate with tr. I spend alot of time thinking about this and this is the only other theroy I come up with besides, jd didnt want any responsibilitys including cs and only took ayla because it provided an oppurtunity to not only noy have to pay cs but to also recieve money from a lip. Poor baby ayla, I pray for your safe return and the person(s) who did this are held responsible and punished accordingly.

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    1. Justice For Ayla Must Be Served!! Absolutely.

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  11. I'm addressing this to the bloggers who continue to jump down Chicago's throat. You are starting to sound as opinionated and rude as "that other site". If you read her post SHE wasn't saying she thought "why bother", she was throwing it out there as if an "innocent" Justin was thinking that. Playing Devil's Advocate is sometimes a good thing. I thought Tori set this blog up for everyone to be able to express themselves, there opinions, frustrations and scenarios so that sweet baby Ayla is not forgotten and that she might get justice. JMO

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    1. Thanks Maine-iac for the support. See, this is precisely a good example of what bugs the heck out of me. People take a word or sentence where someone chose the wrong word or phrased it incorrectly, and they are trashed up and down the gazoo for it. Now I am a sociopath without a human heart, according to one poster. Don't you guys see how wrong this is????!!! You have judged me just based on a few posts I've made. Some of you actually decided to dislike, even hate, me, right? This all because you don't like my view points and they don't agree with yours.

      There are so many examples where comments are criticized because people have already decided they aren't going to believe what that person had to say.

      Take Elisha, for example. She said "we didn't do anything wrong". I interpreted that as the 3 people in the house did not do anything to harm Ayla or cause her disappearance. My thinking is that 'we' meant the Dips + Courtney. Whatever, I take it as her saying she is innocent of any crime.

      Another good one is Justin's interview where he was asked what was special about his daughter. He paused while thinking, and said something like "she's my daughter--she's my world". He was criticized for that because he didn't have something cute, warm and fuzzy to say about Ayla. I've loved a few people in my life, especially my father. If I were asked, "what was so special about your dad?", I would probably pause and not know what to say either.

      People need to understand and accept that everyone in this world does not think and feel and react like you (generic) do, and that may be a good or bad thing.

      I shouldn't care but I'm peeved that the people on here think I have some kind of agenda or that I am connected in some way to the paternal side and his friends. I am not.

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    2. In Statement Analysis, when someone mentions something in the negative, something that DIDN'T happen, it is a flag for deception. As in Elisha saying "we didn't do anything wrong". MOST LIKELY, They DID do something wrong.

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    3. Maine-iac... I was not being rude. So you are stating that Chicago was asking the "why bother" based on "What an innocent Justin was thinking"? I do not believe Justin is innocent so I responded accordingly.

      I assure you, I have nothing in common with the other site you refer to. I am here for Ayla AND the Reynolds family. It is my understanding that Tori did set this blog up so we could all express our opinions... mine included. If she or any of the other blog admins would like for me to stop posting, I will.

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    4. loulou... I don't think JD is innocent either, but there are evidently people who want to believe he is. I would really like to understand why because, to me, all the evidence points to totally guilty.

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    5. I did set this blog up so that we could all have respectable, intelligent discussions so as to go over all theories regardless of who thinks who did what. I know at times emotions are high and things get heated, I can only implore you all that if that happens, you walk away from the computer for a minute or two. We all want the same thing or we wouldn't be here, Justice for Ayla. (Well except for the few stray angry anons who want Justice for Justin) We are all intelligent adults and should be able to have a debate without personal attacks, I would think that after seeing me getting personally attacked on a daily basis and knowing how upset it makes all of you that you would not want to inflict that onto another person who has Ayla's best interest at heart. Some people cannot articulate as well as others and some people may read something and omit a key word and jump on someone unnecessarily.

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  12. OT to this particular post but refers to statement analysis post.

    Because of that post I've been thinking of where she could be.

    Where does Justin have ties to besides Waterville & Portland???

    Also, has anyone thought of Ayla being stored (at least temporarily) in a summer home? If power was on @ the summer home - maybe in a deep freezer until the times was right. Or maybe even using a large wood stove to "dispose of" any evidence.

    Somewhere where he or a close friend/relative may have had an acquaintance/friend work at a summer property & they knew how to get in & out.

    Would explain why no remains have had been found.

    I know this is out there & just gross. But I kept thinking how are they keeping this charade up???

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    1. ^"Time was right" was supposed to be in quotes. As in JD, "time is right".

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  13. Whos the jackass anon on Jeffs blog that claims people know that Ayla is alive? How do they know that?

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  14. From Jeffs Blog, Anonymous May 19, 2012 1:20 PM
    hey ayla, dont know you much, but i know deep down your alive and well somewhere, and ppl know this, so hope they bring you home soon i know your grandpa and mom miss you dearly, so need bring you home already lets end this nightmare. wishing you the best a yla, come home

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  15. Where Is the Common Sense?May 19, 2012 at 8:58 PM

    Only GUILTY parents would worry about how their statements/appearance is analyzed by the press or public.
    INNOCENT parents don't care how they are perceived.

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    1. Amen. But none of this matters (knowing that he is hiding by not talking) if the prosecutors can't provide the evidence to convict. That is why Justin is keeping his mouth shut. Yea it makes him look bad but being free and hated is better than being locked up in his opinion. If he talks he's going to prison, if he doesn't talk it's a toss up, he could be convicted or not so he's going with not talking. In my opinion, he'll never get the money either way and he has ruined his life, and if he goes free he will eventually tell someone something. You can't hold that stuff in forever, no matter how much of a monster you are. People will conive ways to get him to talk.

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  16. Hey Anon, from Jeffs blog if people know she is alive they should be questioned by LE.Who are these people who know?

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  18. Didn't I read that Justin planted a tree or some trees in Aylas name? Wasn't it freezing at that time? Who plants trees in freezing weather? Has that area been searched?

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    1. What, seriously? I have not heard this.

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    2. I think someone else planted a tree for Ayla. Someone online who is an Ayla's Angel or the like. At first, everyone assumed that it was Justin who did the planting, but I think that idea was corrected to mean a tree was planted...and that Justin was going to follow suit...or thought it was a good idea. I can't access TLLOM , but I think it was reported from there that a tree was planted by an Ayla supporter to commemorate her birthdate.

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