Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Guest Submission: KJ

I will never understand anyone who can question the emotions Trista is going through or the words she speaks from her heart.  She allowed her cherished daughter to be with the child's biological father while she worked to improve herself.

The result of that choice was that she LOST HER CHILD.


Trista has every right to feel what she feels and to state it in any manner she wishes.  No one out there can judge her, no one, because there is not one person, who currently trashes Trista (whether secretly behind closed doors or outwardly in the public) that has ever been in her shoes.  Not ONE.   While they can casually state what they BELIEVE they would do in her shoes, if they were honest, not one of them can actually say what they WOULD do because they haven't experienced it.  I pray none of those who judge Trista so harshly ever have to find out what they would do either; I cannot imagine that kind of horror.  If they do, I hope that people will be kinder to them.


Trista wakes up every day wondering where her child is, if she is OK or if she is dead. I believe I can fairly state that anyone with a missing child has wondered these very same things (whether they state them or not, is another thing). It is a natural instinct to believe that the last person who was with a child before they went missing knows what happened.  That's natural folks, whether it is true or not.   It is no different than when we lose a set of keys, we will keep going back to the last place we remember seeing them.


In the case of Ayla being missing, it is easy to see why anyone would keep going back to where Ayla was last seen for answers.  LE clearly stated that the people in the house that night (Justin DiPietro, Elisha DiPietro and Courtney Roberts) are not telling all that they know about what happened.  Trista has tried many times and many ways to get answers from Justin, to no avail.  Justin is not talking and neither are his family members (giving everyone the impression that they truly are hiding information about Ayla).  Justin will not answer her most simple questions.   Is it really any wonder that Trista would feel the worst might have happened to Ayla?  How many people out there, given what they have read or know to be true, also feel that the worst has happened to Ayla?  And those people did not have an emotional bond to Ayla.


For anyone to judge Trista in a harsh way merely because she voiced her doubts about Ayla being alive, is cruel.  It is being "mean girl" at their worst.  Trista is not perfect and she has never claimed to be perfect (not that I have seen anywhere), but what she does not deserve is anyone's judgement about how she acts, how she feels, how she speaks or what she chooses to do.  There is no handbook for Mommy's on "How to behave when your child goes missing from the child's father's House".  If there is, I have not seen it.  Those of you who relish in your judgement of Trista, if you have that book, could you send it to me?  Or are you in the process of writing it now?


And while I am talking about "mean girls", let me just add that if I was under as much stress as Trista is, my face would be broken out in so many pimples that I'd look like I had chicken pox!   Can you really believe it?  The "mean girls" are picking apart (what looks like) two pimples on Trista's chin.   Seriously!?!?!  Are they in High School?  I'm not saying that they are pimples or not pimples.  I have every reason to believe Jeff's explanation regarding the cut on her hand.  He has never lied to me yet.   But has the oppositions defense of Justin really reached the point where some blemishes or blood on Trista's face is going to free their man?  Talk about grasping for straws!


A reasonable and intelligent person can separate the valid arguments and theories from the bullshit that is so prevalent out there.  For anyone to speak badly of Trista because of her despair or her thoughts that Ayla may be deceased or to speak badly of Trista because of some blemish on her face is, quite frankly BULLSHIT.

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  1. It is BULLSHIT and very highschoolish. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who still have the same tendences as they did in highschool...and these are middle aged people. You should never question a mothers bond to her child. A mother knows when there is something wrong or that there is something they need, or if they are scared or just want you. They can just look at you and say nothing, but you know exactly what is they want or need. Nothing or no one will ever change that. Ayla and Trista will always have that bond. No matter the outcome...Ayla will always, always be with Trista.

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    1. You are absolutely correct Corbinsmommy, The bond between Trista and Ayla can never and will never be broken!!

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    2. ITA! And, they WILL be reunited, no matter how long it takes. Then they will be together forever.

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    3. The laws shall change too in order to stop these farcical staged abductions plaguing the homicide survivors and public's minds.
      I think they are all stressing out over those secret indictments.

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    4. You are right AM. I am going to see to this personally. It will be called Ayla's Law.

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    5. That is AWESOME AM and Grace. It's like extra justice for Ayla AND helping all the innocent children of the future!

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  2. I completely agree! Now lets see what the LE press conference brings tomorrow. I am afraid they are only going to confirm what our suspicions are and what evidence has led us to believe. I pray justice has arrived for the Reynolds Family!

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    1. Let's pray they take a few suspect's into custody.

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    2. I'm praying that it is "time for the truth". Justin said the truth would come out "when the time was right". There is no time like RIGHT NOW! I hope that we hear that they are making progress in finding out what happened to Ayla. - KJ

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    3. Agreed! It has been too long and absolutely heartbreaking to follow. Trista deserves answers NOW and I think justice for Ayla is about to be served!

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    4. ITA M-I-M, The time has to be right and MSP has to have the answers which will provide Justice for Ayla!

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    5. She should have thought of the babies while dong her drugs. No I have no feelings one way or other for any camp. The press meeting will most likely say. " there is no new info to announce as of today......" no evidence to stir us in any direction" unless you ask Jeff H how he is getting his info. He is supposedly getting info before it is public. I am not trash talking its fact. I would not wish this on my worst enemy . I feel bad for Ayla's mom and dad and families. None of this is right.....

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  3. Absolutly! I get sooo angry watching people trash talk this poor greiving mother. Like she has not gone through enough. I would not wish this fate on my worst enemy. Although I think people are angry and doing it because of whats being said about justin. There is a difference though, justin does have evidence against him and that give reason to speculate. It relates to the case.

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    1. ITA Stormy, Justin and Trista are different in so many ways!!! I say let Trista grieve, Justin knows and Trista does not. Don't judge her, judge him!!!

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    2. John if I wanted to write my own guest submission, would I email it to someone or how would it be done?

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    3. You know John, when you said "Don't judge her, judge him!!!", that made me think of something.

      If Justin was a REAL man (not just 1/2 decent), he would put an END to all the Trista bashing. She is the Mother of his (missing) child, Ayla! As a real MAN, he himself should be telling people to judge HIM and not her, the innocent Mother of his child.

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    4. Unfortunately,since he won't speak for his daughter,he aint gonna speak for her mom! Justice for Ayla and Trista! mountain mama

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    5. I agree, any man who can sit silently while his supporters trash the mother of his child is no man. It's bad enough he can't speak up for Ayla, he sits silently while people beat on Trista.

      Courtney, take note! Is this the kind of person you want your son to grow up around? A person who stays silent when his child goes missing and one who also stays silent while the woman who birthed his child is trashed?

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    6. Thanks for responding to Stormy Grace. My internet is going in and out with the tropical storm winds around here!

      Kit, Don't i wish JD would speak up for Trista, but I would prefer he speak up for Ayla. I know he is not a man that can do either, which actually makes him a COWARD!!!!!!!!

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    7. Yes thank you grace!

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    8. NO KIT, A REAL MAN WOULD STEP UP AS SOON AS HE FOUND OUT HE WAS INDEED THE FATHER OF SAID CHILD. ANY ASS CAN FATHER A CHILD IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO BE A DAD. Honestly, I see love in pictures of AYLA AND HER DADDY.

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    9. Anon 9:23, I agree with most of your comment but I have not seen a picture of Ayla and her daddy where Ayla was showing love for JD. Actually she looked fearful in most!

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    10. I'm sorry John. Anger is blinding. It is hard to have open mind when you are on one particular drive. It takes someone who is not involved to see openly and possibly clearly. I mean no disrespect. ANNON 923

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    11. The picture at the end of blog shows love. Daddy kissing his little girl.......:-((((

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    12. I disagree Anon 923 and I think one all comes out hopefully tomorrow at the press conference (When the time is right?) you will see just how much Justin cares for Ayla...zero.

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    13. Anon 9:23, I think you may have misunderstood my comment, "I have not seen a picture of Ayla and her daddy where Ayla was showing love for JD. Actually she looked fearful in most!"

      In the picture you cite, the one at the end of this post Ayla is clearly pulling away from the man that is trying to kiss her. That, IMO, is fearful! My comment was not fueled by anger but fear that Ayla is not going to be found safe and sound. There is a distinction in the words "anger" and "fear"!

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    14. AnonymousMay 30, 2012 9:23 PM

      Honey, you need some help seeing. But for what you got, I don't think there are any doctors that can help.

      Pictures of Ayla and Justin all confirm the truth. And the truth is Justin does not love Ayla. By Justin's age he should know that you have to show a child that they can trust you. You have to demonstrate day by day that you are someone they can count on for protection and for taking care of them. FORCING phony baloney kisses on a child is just disgusting. I wish I could tell Ayla I am so sorry that he was trying to force her to pretend everything was okay and the way it should be for showing off purposes.

      If you want to know the truth, look in Ayla's eyes. Look at Ayla's body language. Look how Justin seems to not care!

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    15. No truer words MsP. Ayla did not appear comfortable in the pictures of her and JD together, her eyes were always looking away and she is consistantly pulling away with her body language.

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    16. John you and others took the high road and were being respectful. Always doing your best out of respect for Ayla, her family, J4A and every sincere poster. But the poster at 9:37, what crap!!! That could be a sincere comment in some circumstances. But, not here and not with you. Maybe they are just trying to engage you in a game of Twister??? I don't know buuutt, I don't trust them. :0

      AnonymousMay 30, 2012 9:37 PM

      I'm sorry John. Anger is blinding. It is hard to have open mind when you are on one particular drive. It takes someone who is not involved to see openly and possibly clearly. I mean no disrespect. ANNON 923

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    17. I have to agree MsP. I have been so frustrated since reading the previous post and comments. I tried to take the high road here but really wanted to argue with the disrespect of the poster. Clearly a supporter but I am actually glad that there was no response. Clearly trying to twist my words but they have difficulty with logic!

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    18. Maybe anon 9:23 does not have and has never been around children in order to know how to read their body langauge? I have children and I see her discomfort. Any way I have just sent in my guest submission, I hope you like it...

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    19. No twister, no games, not trying to do anything. There is no pulling away in picture nor any restraint. No special agenda no particular member of any one or thing. AYLA IS THE FOCUS NO ONE ELSE.

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    20. Oh please! John has blinding anger? Not even close, as a matter of fact quite the opposite. So you are threatened by Johns work here!!!

      John always makes an effort to discuss the facts and theories with anyone who is genuinely here for Ayla. John is actually contributing. And you are sitting around thinking of ways to bug John buuut, not disrespect him. Pfffft!!! OH, YOU are so gooood at keeping the FOCUS on Ayla!

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  4. Praying for justice

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  5. I totally agree with this post. Those people are sick. I pray that Trista can stay strong and ignore the BS and one day soon will receive the answers she deserves!

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  6. GREAT post KJ! ITA with every single word!

    Oh, there is one thing I just can't help myself...

    Speaking of lost keys... Maybe someone should tell Justin to look in his truck for all those missing keys. That is where he saw them last, right? ;)

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  7. I know I have posted this many times before, but I just wanted to post this prayer again, ahead of the news conference...

    The light of God surronds Ayla;
    The love of God enfolds Ayla;
    The powder of God protects Ayla;
    The presence of God watches over Ayla;
    Wherever Ayla is, God is!

    I believe that Justice will prevail for Ayla and Trista and may whomever harmed her or have taken her, be punished to the highest extent of the law.

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  8. Amen! Hopefully Trista can ignore those evil individuals who take up space in her head "rent free". Never mind their harsh words against you Trista. You are better than that. You are a loving and caring mother and don't let anyone tell you different.
    I am praying for you everyday that this gets resolved soon.

    Hugs for you and your son.

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  9. I don't blaim Trista one little bit for thinking Justin has done the worst. Look at the facts, he has a $25,000 life Insurance police on her life when he was only going to have her for what 5 days. Ayla obveusly didn't trust her own father and DID NOT want to go anywhere with him, she was kicking and biting the police officer trying to get away from her father. My son loves his father and never crys when he wants to hold him. I fill so bad for Ayla and Trista. Because of that monster who would think that Ayla is safe "and she thinks its a game". And if I was Trista I would believe the same about Justin and co. and what they did because the facts are facts and I would deffinatly still be taking donations and keeping her face and name out anyway I could (and the trash talkers would be doing the same) for many reasons. I know in her hart she wants to see and hold Ayla agin and if the worst has happend to her baby girl then she WOULD want justice for Ayla and want everyone to know what her beautiful baby was like and what happend to her. Everyone needs to know Ayla's story and never forget about her. It's not Tristas falt and it deffinatly was NOT Aylas falt, It's 100% Justins falt. I'm so sick of helpless baby's getting hurt and if everyone could keep talking about baby's like Ayla maybe we could make a difference and save them from the same fate.

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    1. I agree with your whole post. And I truly agree, we need to keep talking about what happened to Ayla. Ayla very much matters!
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  10. These people who seem to literally want to persecute Trista are so extremely childish. I don't know Trista personally but I am very sure that this horrible situation has forced her to mature beyond her years. I am SURE no one will ever be able to accuse her of being "childish". No, she will carry a certain maturity that those who criticize her will probably never possess... at any age, even if they experience their own tragedies... because what could be more tragic than having a child who is MISSING? Anyone who could add hurt or injury to Trista is just plain WICKED.

    I think Trista is beautiful. She is a strong, intelligent young woman. And, as horrible as this sounds, and I know it is horrible... this nightmare will develop a kind of wisdom and compassion in her that these bozos will never possess. That's what tragedy does if it doesn't kill you first.

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  11. Justin....

    " I hear the train a coming..it's rolling round the bend...and I ain't seen the sunshine since...I don't know when...I'm stuck in Bolduc Prison and time keeps dragging on".

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  12. Gee, I wonder how long it will take "It" to copy this blog post too. Bets anyone?

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  13. This is just my opinion, but I really don't think Trista cares at all what those looney Dip supporters say about her. I know if I was in her shoes, I don't think I would. Simply put, they just don't matter! Trista put herself out there early on, to get answers. I think LE was playing a skillful game of cat and mouse with Justin through Trista, and she did an amazing job. I don't know if I could have had her composure, standing next to Justin at the vigil, texting with him, etc. BUT the ONLY think that mattered was getting answers and helping the investigation. The bashing, the super secret group, the slimy pink blog, that's all just insignificant bullsh*t. The only that matters is getting justice for Ayla. Sometimes the end does justify the means.

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  14. The grand jury info http://news.yahoo.com/ayla-reynolds-grand-jury-list-illuminating-225500015.html

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    1. Thanks for the link.

      How does the GJ work? Are the people called to speak/answer questions? Are they all in the room, or is it done seperately?

      Sorry if these are stupid questions. I'm not too familiar with the GJ.

      Plus, I know they are not supposed to speak about it, but I find it hard to believe if they didn't speak about it after.

      What happens if it is found that they DID speak about it?

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    2. Each is called in separately and questioned. They are under a gag order with respect to anything happening in the grand jury room. There are criminal penalties for violating the secrecy rule.

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    3. could there be any more scumMay 31, 2012 at 7:44 AM

      courtney, lance, pheebs, elisha, trista and ron reynolds were called to testify. no jessica. interesting. also no bob vear. and of course no justina for obvious reasons.

      the most interesting onthe list is lance. he wasn't there tat night according to scary harry, but might have shown up to help clear the house of pot plants,pheebs and other illegal items so police wouldn't find them when justin had be bothered to call 911 to report ayla 'GONE' .what achore, right. and the nerve of th 911 operator to ask questions and call back to harrass duhpietro about the stupid kid, right?

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    4. could there be any more scumMay 31, 2012 at 7:52 AM

      courtney and elisha NEVER SAW AYLA
      pheebs was kept away from the house as to not get implicated, and it unusal for her to stay at a motel when she had a house in town. couldn't produce a credit card receipt to show this was something she normally did. whoopsie. and she LEFT WORK EARLY that fri, also unusual. cell pings have been triangulated, cell co's subpeoned, hey what was justin doing hanging around the kennebec river at 3 am? wy was lance at bob vears in he middle ofthe night after stoping at violette ave first? no cell pings from dereks ph that fri for the play date?

      text msgs pulled frm the server of justinas ph show him taunting trist about ayla being taken.

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    5. Where would this information come from,the only ones that would know this would be Justin ,Trista or LE? Or one of them told you.

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    6. Thanks for the GJ info. I have to wonder how much each of their testimony differed, seeing as how they weren't all still living together at that time... I hope there were questions asked that they never thought to discuss ahead of time together.

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  15. Is it possible that the news conference is only to say they found items , tested them and nothing was a match? I have been following this case and it breaks my heart , my prayers are with Trista and her family , I can't imagine 1 minute of not knowing where my child was, never mind 5 months. .. Praying from Boston <3

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    1. It could be,but last time they just said it in the newspaper.I think they've only had press conferences after searches.And the family is not commenting at all,they usually tell us if we are wrong.Nothing tonight.TLLOM didnt even post that there was a press conference,I thought that was strange,Justin is only working with them,you would think they would keep people informed for anything that has to do with Ayla.

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    2. It could be anon 9:48. As the news article above your post said, the police aren't talking about what they will address tomorrow. It could be big news or a total bust.

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  16. Great post, KJ!!
    I'm sure that your words will fall on the deaf ears of The DiP Minions, but your message bears repeating, all the same!

    Those without compassion for Trista Reynolds' loss, have an agenda. Period.
    They can deny it all they WANT, but their cruelty betrays them!

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  17. I don't want to speculate but my guess is it has something to do with those items found. I don't know if this is coincidence or not but on Jeff's blog he has a post about the news conference tomorrow and immediately below it he listed links to related news articiles... one of those related news articles was pertaining to the items found, the others links were news reports about the scheduled conference. I just hope whatever info LE is sharing that Trista has been informed first so she learns before the public. She has that right to emotionally process any findings before they are made public. And I pray that whatever it is, small or big news that it brings her and her family closer to resolution. They have waited and endured enough. Any news at all would at least be one step closer to truth. I don't think that it is agoing to be a total bust....I would hope LE would not take time to schedule a conference and notify media in advance implying there was some news only to not report anything new. While they have obviously not been able to report everythng they know to avoid compromising their investigation, they seem to have been vocal in communicating major points thus far, such as the ruling out of abduction, and the blood found. I also don't think they would make such an announcement if it wasn't something substantial they were sharing with the public. Prayers to Trista and to her family...its time for Justice for Ayla!

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    1. Has MSP and WPD both, been at/participated in all the previous press conferences?

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    2. The articles I read say MSP spokesperson, seldom does it include WPD!

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    3. I think so Kit but not positive. I know they had the warden talk about the search at one of them.

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    4. PRAYERS FOR AYLA AND HER WHOLE FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( no matter what anyone believes.)

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  18. Does anyone know if there have been any searches in the past week in particular, OR secondary, in the past few weeks?

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    1. I havent heard of any searches,but LE have said that there were more planned.

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  19. Your post is spot on KJ! They are simply middle-aged bored and ignored by their spouses-housewives who secretly pine for JD. I hope Trista doesn't pay them any attention, she has far more important things to expend her energy on and doesn't need to be bothered with any of that nonsense.

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  20. I just made an astrology post about the news conference on my blog www.gracewilsonastrology.com. I didn't want to hijack this blog and I know some of our readers don't want to read about it. Thanks everyone!

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    1. Great post on your blogsite, Grace!
      I hope you're right, that 'The End Is Nigh', for DiPshit and his primary accomplice.

      I've been searching out information regarding what Suz posted over on the Start blog---
      if it's true that Phoebe was investigated by McCausland back in 1991, regarding her possible involvement in ANOTHER murder?
      Well, lets just say...I'll have to reform my opinion of what HER role was, in all this!!

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    2. McCausland is a PR guy, a spokesman. He doesn't investigate anyone.

      Just more unreliable nonsense.

      There was a wide ranging investigation years ago in which over 700 people from the area were questioned about a fire in a house in which two local people were found dead. Possibly drug dealer related. No one was ever tied to the crime or charged, including anyone connected to the Ayla case. The victims were well known to many locals. There is no validity to any claim that Phoebe or anyone else from Waterville must have done it because they were local and knew the victims. Everyone knew them, and that is why everyone was questioned. Guilt by association just doesn't cut it when you are talking about arson or murder. Just the facts, mam'.

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    3. VT Lady, is there any info on the name of the murder victims or anything else to use to research this?

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    4. Anon747- if the link doesnt work for you either> maine.gov then go to MSP and homicides. Theres a list of unsolved homicides. The case mentioned: in Waterville/ V.White and L. Brackett.

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  21. VT Lady-
    .I've heard that a couple of times on the net.

    As for it being true - I have no idea.

    I've also wondered about that as well

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  22. Trista's behavior after Ayla went missing needed to be judged, just as did Justin DiPietro's behavior needed to be judged.

    Behavioral analysis concluded or "judged" the behavior of both:

    Police concluded that Justin DiPietro (and Elisha and Courtney Roberts) were not telling all they know.
    They did not say this about Trista.

    Trista's behavior after Ayla went missing was to cry out to her child.
    Justin's behavior after Ayla went missing was to be silent.

    Trista's behavior was to call out Justin, which made him finally speak out.
    Justin's behavior showed deception; that there was no kidnapper to bargain with, and that he would not cry out to Ayla.

    Judging their behavior (Behavioral Analysis) showed both innocence (Trista) and guilt (Justin), which would not have been seen had they not been judged.

    As to Trista believing Ayla was dead: She saw that she went missing, learned of the life insurance policy, saw the father being silent, failed polygraphs, lies from him and Phoebe, and then learned that her baby's blood was spilled in the home.
    For her to entertain that Ayla was dead is judged to be not only appropriate, but sober minded thinking.

    Judging both Trista and Justin DiPietro has helped the police and the public to know which parent has guilty knowledge of what happened to Ayla Reynolds.

    Thank you, and Tori, for yet again, keeping Ayla's name in the public's view.

    Peter Hyatt

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    1. Peter, Excellent point. Certainly when I say judgement, I meant the harsh, nasty judgements that have taken place against Trista. I was also referring to the petty comments regarding her appearance. As for her beliefs, she has come to her own judgement of people and that is why she feels as she does.

      Surely we all judge people every day, we make judgements that allow us to know how to feel toward others. We all need this type of judgement tool to survive. What we don't need is the nasty comments that only have the intent to hurt or belittle another person.

      By the way, I love your statement analysis blog. It's another great tool in determining what we believe about others. - KJ

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  23. VT lady:

    Here's a link to PD's ALLEGED involvement in a murder case.

    http://www.maine.gov/tools/whatsnew/index.php?topic=state_police_unsolved&id=10877&v=Article-homicides

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    1. Thank you, VT Lady.

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  24. Yeah. I'm not all that convinced the 1991 murders have anything to do with PD. Whether or NOT she was questioned. She happened to work in the bar the pair were last seen in, before they were killed and had their home torched.

    I think the commentator I was referencing had a some of the details wrong, and I'm not sure WHERE the McCausland thing originated.

    Still...it's a little weird that the same woman can be (at least tangentially) connected to two other murders!
    Maybe it's just a case of "birds of a feather", due to the DiPs surrounding themselves with shady criminal types?
    :/

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    1. VTLady, I agree with you regarding the old murder. I think Phoebe just happened to work at a bar the murder victims visited. I'm sure everyone was questioned who ever came in contact with the victims.

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    2. VTLady, Tim Crews was the one that posted on the open discussion page that PD was a suspect in the murders.....

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    3. Oh, then Tim Crews must know. Maybe he was an eye witness. Hmmm. Wasn't Tim Crews like three years old in 1991?

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  25. I'm sorry but I did some research and nothing is coming up on Phoebe Dipshit havning anything to do with this alleged arson. Maybe she was mistaken for Selena Dipshit Johnson seeing as to they are both butt ugly old crows. Just sayin'

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    1. Lol!
      I can't find any independent connection looking at these articles either.
      It was said by others that she worked at the bar that the two were last seen at, the night of their murders, and was subsequently questioned in connection to the crime.

      However, I didn't find anything that mentioned McCausland, OR PD by name.
      I'm definitely not comfortable considering it relevant until/unless a more substantial corroboration of the rumor can be established, but I'm not going to "circular file" it yet, either.
      Maybe someone will turn something up.
      Who knows??

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    2. What I heard was that she was questioned because she was at the same bar as the people that night .I read over 200 people were questioned.If you want to read the article google ,Fatal fire linked to cocaine trafficking in Central Maine.

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    3. Not saying she was not a suspect,I have no idea, but the people were at the bar before the fire,so everyone was questioned.

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  26. If you work in a bar, I suppose you're exposed to a wide variety of people and the odds of being "associated with" or "questioned concerning" a murder rise. Her association with the Ayla Reynolds case is much more concerning.

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  27. Excellent post KJ, I could not agree more. I want to hug you for so succinctly putting into words my frustration with those who would judge Trista so harshly.

    Trista is no saint. But not one of us is. I have never met a saint and likely won't. To err is human and I don't think we have some skewed view of Trista. Most readers here are in agreement, Trista made some mistakes, she is not however, the Antichrist or deserving of some scarlet letter and public shaming.

    To those who would call her names, accuse her of spiriting Ayla away to some secret location, claim she is scamming the public for money, etc:

    I will afford you the courtesy that you cannot bring yourselves to extend to her. Should you ever have to experience anything close to the nightmare Trista lives daily - I pray the world judges you less harshly than you have judged her.

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  28. OH so well said
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  29. Another thought occurred to me- police keep saying the Waterville 3 aren't telling all they know- even after the grand jury met. http://www.wmtw.com/news/maine/central/Ayla-Reynolds-search-turns-up-empty/-/8791976/9693536/-/1rqbo7z/-/index.html Elisha and Phoebe's lawyer went public with the same old story after the gj met. http://www.onlinesentinel.com/news/Lawyer-Aylas-aunt-telling-the-truth.html That suggests the gj didn't hear anything enlightening from them. Could perjury charges be coming?

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  30. KJ, I am so happy you wrote this article. This all really needed to be said and you did a great job. I hope most adults actually don't need to be told to respect others feelings especially, when it involves life and death and a mother's living hell. But some have become so caught up and twisted in their 'Justin mission' they seem to live by the rule that there are no limits for them in attacking a mother with a missing baby girl. I know they have dreamed up some great rationalization, that allows them to live with themselves.

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