This post consists of two articles; the first, this one, is long and for that I somewhat apologize. My articles on this site tend to be detailed and the equivalent of a five-page long Word document; some of the Readers have complained about that, but it’s impossible to cut these types of posts in half when there is such important information to grasp and allow to fester within our minds.
This first post is our source’s sharing copied and pasted again, similar to J4A’s original post linked above, only this one includes my initial commentary in blue font as well as bolding/italicizing/underlining of pieces I find important; consider this a refresher of sorts to the original post by J4A a few days ago. The next post (Part 2) will be referencing the research articles I located online that support this theory (which, I might add, find absolutely plausible).
Please Note: As we have stated time and time again, these are just theories to think over and assess; these are not facts, so please do not assume them to be
The recovery of human remains is sometimes an extremely difficult or impossible puzzle to solve. I became aware of Ayla's existence by chance and developed respectful affection towards her and her loved ones. For three weeks I searched for a kidnapped little girl named Ayla. Many of the things I discovered did not make sense and seemed illogical but I persisted hoping I could gather information of value to the authorities and other searchers.
After too many irregularities I stopped searching and detached from the situation. Within forty-eight hours I came to peace with the situation and transitioned into a search for her remains.
The previous search while operating under false pretenses was partially successful in that a lot of valuable information was gathered that was not available publicly at the time. I felt reassured that with forethought, and planning, a second full scale search might determine if Ayla is recoverable. There is a required rest period between searches that allows the body and mind to recover its strength.
Having spent three weeks searching for Ayla the kidnapped little girl I can honestly say I served Justin DiPietro for three weeks of my life in the desperate search for his daughter. Having ascertained that Ayla was not abducted on December-17 from Waterville but was abducted from Portland around October-20, I gained my primary strategic insight about Justin.
In order to lie, Justin requires a parallel event to lie about. All statements regarding Ayla's abduction from Justin are descriptions of the Portland event:
"She has adjusted well."
"She probably thinks it's a game."
Once the strategy of "Parallel Lying" was notated all statements regarding her whereabouts became relevant to whatever parallel event he chose as a mirror. In the early stages of the pursuit of Ayla's kidnappers I consulted with a talented person who described Justin's parallel lying technique as a "Mirror Protocol", a way to tell the truth even when lying by displacing events onto an unrelated event. (Peter Hyatt at Statement Analysis has gone into detail about this type of lying in his articles, but I believe it was labeled differently.)
An example of parallel lying: "Ayla did not meet her demise down in my house." In this example his house is in Portland and the statement is therefore spoken as truth. It is the same technique used in the CNN interview of his mom but honed to perfection. (IMO, it is of no surprise that we see such direct lies coming from Justin; recall Phoebe’s direct lying on her now-infamous CNN interview. Is it safe to assume that this distinct form of lying “runs in the family”, and that Justin learned from the best, so to speak? You be the judge on that one.)
The absolute misery Justin has created for himself is a result of the reliance on two functions: The over reliance on parallel lying to manipulate and a deep rooted sense of loss because he has no father-son structures. (This is where this becomes a psychological theory, and no longer a psychic’s perspective; this is a good thought to consider in our list of theories, in that Ayla’s life at the time of the “TRUE” abduction of Ayla from her Aunt’s house was essentially relative to the deeper-seeded issues of Justin’s from childhood. Keep in mind the emphasis on how Justin relies on his parallel lying in order to manipulate; I think that is also a good thought to consider in that he seemingly manipulated the entire situation in order to manipulate Trista to agree on Ayla staying with Justin while she was away. Imagine how vulnerable Trista must have been given her circumstances and surroundings; what other choice did she have but to cave and allow Justin to remain with Ayla? After reading and re-reading the timeline of events, it doesn’t sit well with me even more-so than before.)
When I search the totality of Justin's life experiences for an understanding of the rationales that compose his pathology, always there is a return to issues of personal identity. In Justin's mind he perceives a lack of a father as the all inclusive cause and effect deficit that lies at the root of his inner conflicts. On that perceived injustice of destiny all of his narrative rationales are based.
In the current tragedy it became an emotional license to kill.
Similar to the idea of parallel lying, Justin needs two objects to measure in comparison to determine the true and false of any line of thought before engaging in deception.
Part of the difficult to understand projection and transference from Justin's internal world outward to his external world is the all important crux issue of Justin's Father-Son themed conflict.
In this emotional conflict, parallel lying is the twisting force necessary to translate (parallel lie) within his internal Parent-Child conflict, and then translate once again into the third step of the deadly conflict of Father-Daughter ending in his murder of Ayla.
Father/Son - Conflict Origin (Began at childhood.)
Parent/Child - Conflict Base (Phoebe and Justin; life long battle between the two.)
Father/Daughter - Conflict Twist (The conflict between Justin and Ayla began when he learned she was his daughter. The power struggle began immediately.)
From within Justin's worldview it would be impossible to believe a child would reject a parent. The entire structure of the Father-Son based system of thoughts is based on idealistic dreams.
The parallel lie stated as a rational is, "I grew up without a father so..." Within that rationale is the idea that Ayla is better off dead than living without her father. When Justin murdered Ayla, he engaged in a surrogate transference of murdering Himself and his Mother-Fatherless Son relationship. (I suppose in other words and if this theory were proven valid, in Justin’s mind this could be deemed as the true “Justice For Ayla”.)
Though Trista Reynolds and Ayla Reynolds may have served as surrogates, the conflict between mother and son over a fatherless home remains. (It is true, that children and adults remain resentful of one parent over the other oftentimes for not involving the absent parent throughout their lives, regardless of the situation. In some cases, there is a struggle between the Parent and child over this one issue within the home which ends in an unresolved issue or an issue that is worked at over time between the family members. In this case, I have assumed throughout that the children held resentment towards their mother just by their actions and apparent life choices that are so in line with Phoebe’s, and the overall commentary (and lack thereof) delivered by said family members.)
Killing the Justin surrogate (Ayla) as a child version of himself (a/k/a “his twin”) does not end the internal conflict of Father-Son identity issues based on the Mother's life choices.
After the murder, a period of extreme emotional affliction occurred due to the inability to properly sequence the parallel lie. The lies are an entire system and worldview similar to a symphony of thoughts in a "disharmonious transposition."
The twist is not resolvable as Father-Son/Parent Child/Father Daughter. There are thousands of logical arguments to the internal rational used for Ayla's murder and cover-up abduction. This argument addresses the key coping strategy "Parallel Lying" and the key application "Fatherless Son" that becomes Ayla’s murder. (The psychology of a mad man?)
The correct parallel lie to Fatherless Son is the relationship of Motherless Daughter. A child who has no same sex role model as a parent, Justin created a Motherless Daughter by seizing control of Ayla. That was the last securable island of delusional thinking, the last stable place before the twists and inaccuracies would cause an internal emotional collapse. Once he crossed the line and took possession of Ayla by subterfuge, any threat of disruption to the Fatherless Son verses Motherless Daughter would be unresolvable.
Father Son - Fatherless Son
Parent Child - Parentless Child
Mother Daughter - Motherless Daughter
Justin's surrogate murder of his self using Ayla as an object created a Daughterless Mother, not a Motherless Daughter. ("Payback" to Trista for giving birth to Ayla, perhaps?)
The murder of the parallel mirror used for parallel lying dissolved the ability to parallel lie concerning the now Daughterless-Mother and Daughterless Father created by Justin's murder of Ayla.
A whole new trauma dynamic far realer than conveniently blaming every personal flaw or defect on the Father-Son lying system.
The system of Parallel Lying Justin applied to Father-Son conflict collapsed irrevocably leaving only Trista as a mother mirroring object to the shattered system. Hence the ongoing Trista (Phoebe Surrogate) is to be hated and reviled for creating Motherless Daughters and Fatherless Sons. (Hence both sides of the fence continuing to speak most of Phoebe and Trista, versus the man-in-question; has he manipulated the public? I have felt this way since the beginning.
Hence the removal or inability to acquire a parallel object for a lie relationship has caused an inability to lie and the need for silence. The murder of Ayla as a surrogate for the "Father-Son" identity issues has only exacerbated his relationship to his Mother's life choices. Now in a new setting (aka Heidi’s domain) he begins constructing the same situation from which he just tried to escape from.
A constant belittling by Justin, the original Fatherless-Son, angry at the Mother's choices onto the "surrogate object", Trista Reynolds. The real target and subject matter of the attacks is a parallel lie system detailing Phoebe’s addiction to methadone and lifetime reliance on government assistance and government employment to survive in her role as a lifetime unmarried mother of three with an alternative lifestyle. (Was he trying to get back at Phoebe throughout this whole tragedy? It’s plausible, at the very least.)
No parallel lie object still exists.
The use of Trista to attack Pheobe seems shrill. The system is broken and seems insane to outsiders. A man murders a child and publicly taunts the mother of the child. The Father-Son conflict verses The Mother rages internally, outsiders see only insanity.
Even were Justin to consider himself a female in a male body he is still not a Motherless Daughter, that was Ayla after Portland. By murdering and covering up the murder of his daughter he has murdered The Self & His Mother without His Father. His internal system of structured self deception has now collapsed as evidenced by commission of murder he awaits the inevitable arrival of a Justice Process & Possible Incarcerated Corrections.
An unverifiable story of Justin's youth told of an adventure in a Radio Shack. Justin secreted himself away in the store for mischievous purposes but found he could not escape. He waited until he was discovered as the store personnel arrived before opening to the public for the day. A simple event, but possibly indicative of how Justin may approach the criminal justice process as a whole. If the future repeats the past, he remains silent, pleads innocent and is tried by a jury determining his future. (How similar that sounds to brother Lance, in pleading his innocence for a crime he knowingly committed against Justin Linnell; very interesting to say the least, huh?)
I would wager that with the forces arrayed to prosecute and convict him that he shall die in prison of old age. His system of self deception now complete, he never escapes this future version of the Radio Shack experience unto death.
If history repeats along those lines the outcome is thus:
He shall never admit guilt and plead out for a lesser sentence and recite the facts. I conclude that he shall never return the remains of Ayla Reynolds under any conditions. He shall die in prison proclaiming his innocence until he dies unable to dismantle the error in his primary parallel lie that lead to murder.
Father/Son - Conflict Origin
Parent/Child - Conflict Base
Father/Daughter - Conflict Twist
Father/Son - Conflict Origin
Parent/Child - Conflict Base
Mother/Daughter - Conflict Parallel
Justin's case is a very similar parallel to those rare abduction and murder by stranger cases, with Ayla used as a dehumanized object of his own delusional projection system. A system originally built to prevent injury and limit trauma from the loss of a father figure role model, a system left unchecked and unbalanced due to the introduction of parallel lying as a primary strategy that then causes the far greater loss of Ayla’s entire natural life and Justin’s natural freedom when Parallel Lying is applied to the Father-Son conflict using Ayla as the resolution object.
Ayla does not fit into Justin's internal father-son conflict system that is managed by parallel lying. (Did Ayla ever stand a chance in his care? It is heartbreaking to assume that this answer would be NO.)
Here is the portion that made everything come clear to me; the psychological make-up of Justin’s perfect murder, if this plausible theory proves to be valid, that is:
He truly did not know the person he came to control; a maximum of five visits over an eighteen month period. She suffered a series of injuries and disappeared mysteriously. It had the same predictable outcome of the rare stranger abduction. The victim fulfilled certain deep pathological needs and is then discarded.
A true and profound tragedy of the first magnitude. Studying the ongoing attacks on Trista Reynolds helps to understand the Phoebe-Justin dynamic. Having escaped the family home and Phoebe, Justin is free to attack the Phoebe surrogate object Trista. (With the help of his new surrogate “mother figure”, Heidi, of course; and the support from Courtney…someone equally as far-off mentally as he is. Yet as of last week, Justin requested from ‘the public’ to now return the focus to Ayla, instead of Trista. It’s the things that make us go, HMMM, right?)
Now in a new setting (Tudela home; unending enabling support and public voice for Justin) he begins constructing the same situation from which he just tried to escape from in an inescapable loop.
His primary role is no longer as a Fatherless-Son. His primary role is now as an attacker of objectified female surrogates. Ayla Reynolds, Trista Reynolds, Heidi Tudela, Angela Harry, and Courtney Roberts are stepping stones that lead to the revenge upon and destruction of Phoebe DiPietro.
The Son unable to acquire A Father destroys The Mother. The crime and aftermath is satisfying to Justin as long as he remains silent. Periodically, the silence becomes stifling and he speaks out in burst of incoherence.
Justin has departed sanity.
Thoughts? Again, this is another theory being revisited and should not be assumed as facts.