Sunday, March 25, 2012

Phoebe-The Matriarch of The DiPietro Family

Ever since Phoebe's infamous interview where she outwardly lied to the media and the public about the events that transpired the night Ayla was last seen, I have vocalized my opinion that Phoebe is involved in Ayla's disappearance and the events leading up to Ayla's disappearance more than than the DiPietros have let on.

On a CNN interview Phoebe mislead the reporter as well as the public by inferring she was home the night Ayla went missing.

Sitting in her living room, steps away from Ayla's bedroom, DiPietro said she heard nothing while she slept that night. She wasn't the last one to go to bed that night and wasn't sure whether the doors were locked. She and her son suspect the child was abducted

"I can tell you there was not a party here at the house. Just beyond that, I can't answer any questions." She says her son put Ayla to bed every night.
DiPietro says it was her son Justin (Ayla's father) who told her Ayla was missing. She would not say what time, where she was when she heard or elaborate

To read the rest of the initial cnn interview click here

The next day Phoebe attempted to set the record straight.

Ayla's grandmother, Phoebe DiPietro, who first spoke exclusively with CNN on Friday, said she now wants to clarify a detail about her interview.
DiPietro now tells CNN she was not among the adults at the home from which Ayla disappeared that night but instead was at another location that she wouldn't publicly disclose

She said she didn't specify that she wasn't home that night in her initial CNN interview because she was trying to follow the directions of police, who have instructed her not to discuss details about the night Ayla disappeared

To read the rest of this article click here

Phoebe intentionally mislead the public in an attempt to protect her son, if her son was innocent he would not need to be lied for. For many of us, that was our first real glimpse into the kind of person Phoebe DiPietro is.

I believe Phoebe wasn't exactly lying when she gave her initial interview. I do not believe Ayla went missing on the night of the 16th and I think that Phoebe was home the night that something happened to Ayla but because the story would look more believable with one less adult there that night Phoebe was asked to go somewhere else the night that they were going to say Ayla was abducted. Phoebe could honestly say there was no party there that night and that it was a regular night because they had all planned it that way and she knew beforehand what was going to be required of her. I believe Phoebe may even have been in on the planning and would do whatever necessary to protect her perfect children even lie for them to cover up the murder of one of their own.

From witness reports and accounts from people who claim to know Phoebe and the rest of the DiPietros, they say Phoebe has her own history of alcohol and drug abuse and has left the kids to fend for themselves many times throughout the years in order to go party. It has been reported that all three children have different fathers and not one of them are involved in their children's lives. We do know that Phoebe has never been married or if she has been her and the children have all retained her maiden name. People who know the family also report that the kids were bullies and troublemakers in school and Phoebe was the first to deflect blame off of them and onto anyone else they could. That seems to coincide with the pattern of behavior that is going on now with blaming first a nameless person, then Justin Linnell, and now Trista for being responsible for taking Ayla.

Phoebe's sister, Selena Johnson, has commented on this site and other sites in defense of her sister saying she is an extraordinary woman who put herself through school and singlehandedly raised three children on her own and even bought and paid for her home all on her own. According to online records readers have been able to ascertain that Phoebe is an employee of the state of Maine and is listed as a department supervisor with the Dept.of Waste Management. We were also able to see that she appears to own not one but two homes, the other being in Belgrade, Maine.

Selena apparently is seeing a different person than the public is seeing. Phoebe has come off callous at times, complaining more about the inconvenience of the police taking over her house for two weeks and then when releasing it to her it was destroyed. She admits she only made it to Portland one time to meet her granddaughter. When the story came out about how Ayla broke her arm, it was Phoebe who told Justin not to bring her to the ER and was more worried about Justin possibly re-breaking his wrist than Ayla breaking her arm. It was Phoebe and Elisha that hired an attorney relatively quickly given the fact that Ayla was reported missing a week before the holidays started. Why the need to hire an attorney if you are innocent and why isn't that attorney also representing Justin? Is it because it is a conflict of interest and an attorney cannot represent all of them if defending one of them will implicate another? I wouldn't be surprised. I had initially thought that maybe Elisha was responsible for Ayla when Ayla had an accident and they all covered it up. That theory no longer seems plausible with the release of the blood information from www.answersforayla.com. If Elisha was responsible why was over a cupful of Ayla's blood found by Justin's bed?

If Phoebe expects us to believe that she is a doting grandmother and would give all she owned if Ayla would just be brought home, why has she refused interviews and directed all requests to her attorney? If her attorney believes she is innocent why wouldn't he advise her to speak to the public as much as possible and plead to the kidnappers to return Ayla home safely? I believe Phoebe is a doting grandmother to Gabby but I don't buy it with Ayla. Getting Ayla was solely so Justin could reap the benefit of her by ceasing child support payments and to collect as much money as possible for her.

Phoebe knows enough about the system and how it operates to know that if Justin was going to be stuck supporting Ayla by paying child support he would never get ahead in life but with Ayla he could milk the system and make a decent payday. Many suspect Phoebe had a hand in persuading Justin to take physical custody of Ayla while Trista was in rehab. It has been reported that Phoebe accompanied Justin to Lewiston to retrieve Ayla and that it was Phoebe that Karen Small gave Jessica Reynold's address to. I would think that DHS releasing information such as someone's physical address would be against DHS policies. If Phoebe was not who she claimed to be over the phone and instead was someone meaning to harm Jessica, DHS could have been putting Jessica's life in danger. Many have speculated that Karen Small and Phoebe actually are related or close friends, although I have not been able to provide proof of that, it could be that Karen Small abused her power in DHS to facilitate Justin taking custody of Ayla and may have advised Phoebe that Justin did have every right to take Ayla in the situation that her mother could not. I don't dispute that Justin was entitled to take Ayla by law, however the circumstances about how that change of physical custody took place and the events that happened afterwards are extremely suspect to say the least. It was upon agreement by all parties that if Justin did not return Ayla to her mother, the only person she had lived with and known since birth, that consequences would arise. When Trista reported that Justin reneged on his end of the agreement, DHS working through the order of Karen Small, did nothing. They refused to help Trista to regain custody of Ayla even though according to the Reynolds, they promised to do just that.

Why was it so important to Phoebe that Justin keep Ayla? Could that extra money really be worth all of the effort? Phoebe had to know Justin probably wasn't going to contribute to the household bills, especially if he had a drug problem so for Phoebe it was going to mean that he was back living in her basement, more mouths to feed, higher oil and electricity bills, a responsibility that she was going to have to help raise another child while already helping Elisha raise Gabby and raising three of her own. She had to know that Justin had no idea on how to take care of a baby, most single guys his age don't. If she cared so much for Ayla why wouldn't she point out that the best thing for everyone involved was to keep Ayla with her mother and suggest Justin play a bigger role in her life?

And where was Phoebe the night Ayla went missing? There have been rumors that she was seeing a woman and did not want her sexual orientation brought to light. I don't know if that is true nor do I care if she is a lesbian. I have my suspicions that she was actually still on Violette Ave. visiting a neighbor whose own wife was working the overnight shift. Is that why Phoebe is so determined to keep the whereabouts of that night unknown? She doesn't want it to come to light that she was having sleepovers with an married man whose wife is also her friend? If that is true, it certainly doesn't coincide with Selena's portrayal of Phoebe being mother of the year.

Phoebe where is Ayla? What did Justin do to her? Show Gabby the importance of taking responsibility for your actions and do the right thing, do it for Ayla. Everyone knows you know what happened to her including law enforcement and you can make this situation right. Stop protecting your children, in doing so, you are going to possibly lose your home, your job, your freedom, your reputation, and any dignity you may have left. This is not going to be swept under the rug. Ayla is not going to be forgotten, you can't protect your children this time. In the end the truth will come out. Why not end this whole thing and tell the truth now?






60 comments:

  1. You amaze me, Justice. Great little diddy. It has been bred into this disgusting gene pool to be liars. I don't believe for one second that they ever considered Ayla part of their family, that is why they don't care and are only willing to cover their own asses and each others, rather than sacrifice themselves for the greater good, which is Ayla and giving her justice. The world we live in is changing and people are getting sick and tired of monsters like the Dipietro's and the Casey Anthony's we have living amongst us, getting away with murder. People are getting sick of waiting for karma and the justice system. It is getting to the point where people are going to start taking justice into their own hands because they are disgusted with the blatant lying to their faces by people like the Dips. Sick of these people hurting their children and getting to go about their business like that child never existed. This shit needs to stop NOW. These bastards need to start feeling the pressure and getting uncomfortable. It is total bullshit that a child can't even survive in their own family, can't depend on their own family to protect and care for them. Bullshit that a child's own family can hurt them in the most unimaginable ways and not pay for it. I want these fuckers behind bars and paying for what they've done to Ayla. If they weren't guilty, there wouldn't be all this hiding and shit disturbing they're doing on the internet. They are cowards and the so below the vilest of human beings that they barely even qualify anymore. Let Ayla come home, you walking shit containers.

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    1. I totally agree BooKat! There are too many children that have been killed at the hands of their piece of shit parents and then to add insult to injury the parents lie about what happened and dump their children like trash somewhere. I am so sick of it all and am sorry it had to literally happen in my own backyard for me to finally do something about it instead of just watching the news feeling helpless. T4A and I have discussed keeping this blog going after this case concludes and trying to bring Justice to any other child that doesn't have a voice. I love your blog and love that you tell it like it is without feeling the need to sugar coat it for the masses.

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    2. BooKat, There is only one thing I have to say, and that is I don't believe the DiPs actually considered Ayla "FAMILY". To them, she was a state check and free food in the fridge. It is a crying shame that these POS's are still walking the streets. It is my opinion, that if the parent of a missing child refuses to assist LE, they immediately go to jail indefinately until they speak. We need to change the law that obstruction in the case of a missing child, by the parent or parents means immediate jail time, much like contempt of court, until they start speaking up for thier children.

      As for Phoebe having ties to Karen Small, I think it is obvious and LE already has that tie. Phone records of both will be compared and Karen Small will be included in the charges when all is said and done.

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    3. I love that you both discussed keeping this blog alive for children in cases similar to this one. I had thought of emailing you to ask about your thoughts on that! Great idea. Agree with all of the above.

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  2. The language is important in the Portland abduction.

    First Karen Small maneuvers Trista away from Ay;a.

    "Lose the booze or lose the (TWO) KIDS"

    Once she isolates Trista by a threat she had no legal right to make and forced her to get AN ALTERNATE child care ARRANGEMENT for Ayla and Ray she then rebukes the very situation she caused illegally by declaring.

    "The father TRUMPS the aunt."

    Not that Jessica is illegally caring for TWO KIDS, but that the father who is the son of her friend/relation has mysteriously (planned all along)decided he wants his biological daughter. She created an illegal situation of separating the child from its mother then punished the mother for being separated from her child by allowing the biological father who has had only five previous visits assume The rights of FULL CUSTODY without a hearing in front of a Judge and refuses to enforce the CHILD TO MOTHER return agreement when she successfully completes the rehab used to separate mother from child to allow the father undue rights.

    That is INFLUENCE PEDDLING that stages a KIDNAPPING.

    Then murder. Hopefully she is charged appropriately as an accessory to murder before the fact and kidnapping by posing as an official on public business while in actuality abusing the powers of her office and codes of conduct.

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    1. Sounds like Ms. Karen Small out to get her butt in gear and start TALKING to the authorities. Sounds like she may have knowingly or unknowingly been an accomplice in this crime! I hope the police have interviewed her and anyone at DHS who assisted in the initial "kidnapping" of Ayla.

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    2. PFC Aylas Army,

      Do not forget the fact that Karen Small did all of this with a pending abuse charge filed with DHS by the Dr. Karen ignored/did not check for open or pending charges which is further evidence of accessory before the fact in the furtherance of Kidnapping!!

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    3. I agree. He had a formal agreement witnessed by 3rd parties that he should have had to adhere to, and this agreement is telling because it shows Trista has actual custody of Ayla, in absence of a judicial order, as per precedence.
      Justin did not have legal or physical custody(this must be granted by a judge), and due to the nature of how he got physical possession of her(very shady, probably illegally), not custody, as they are very different, any court would have given custody back to Trista...
      Justin was already ordered to pay child support by a judge, meaning Trista had IMPLIED CUSTODY the entire time. I went through this very thing in my divorce and custody hearings.
      Ayla lived with Trista from birth, her entire life. Justin had visitation only.He was ordered to pay child support to Trista, and Justin consented. She had implied custody, so he had to use subversive means to override this and convince Trista that he had the power. And he did, because most likely, he had a connection in DHHS that abused their power to assist him.

      This is taken directly from Maine's DHHS website: ------http://www.maine.gov/dhhs/guardianship.shtml----

      "IV-A Case

      A child support case in which a custodial parent and child(ren) is receiving public assistance benefits under the State's IV-A program, which is funded under Title IV-A of the Social Security Act. Applicants for assistance from IV-A programs are automatically referred to their State IV-D agency in order to identify and locate the non-custodial parent, establish paternity and/or a child support order, and/or obtain child support payments. This allows the State to recoup or defray some of its public assistance expenditures with funds from the non-custodial parent."

      (See also: Temporary Assistance for Needy Families; Public Assistance)

      "The parent who does not have primary care, custody, or control of the child, and has an obligation to pay child support. Also referred to as the obligor."

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    4. yes! Nice Blog. I have been writing for a long time about JD's emasculation, and his manipulative personality, etc...and how I think this was taught(more like brainwashing than classical conditioning using positive and negative reinforcements) by Phoebe and her family and friends...I am betting PD used bribing with things they really wanted, fear and probably physical and emotional punishment to keep her kids in line, and manipulation, lying, shame and denial of basic needs/emotional needs to shape and mold them to be the least amount of trouble FOR HER, at that time...this is probably how she has kept her seat of authority over them all(she also has all the family resources)...not a good long term behavioral conditioning plan unless you are training your kids to be criminals... I never thought of her as a grandmother for a second...she seemed very collected, and rehearsed in her interview, and like a tweeker lady with a huge loud nasty mouth who was checking herself constantly, always holding back, only letting go what she thought we the public, and LE , wanted t hear to clear them...She seemed like a master manipulator with a lifetime of experience in deceiving people on many levels...

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  3. Phoebe's children three spuns has different fathers. Well, you don't say! Lies, Selena and the rest of you bitter bitches, I want to see how you and your minions are going to spin this. Phoebe your old ass is going down, at least for perjury if not more. YOU, admitted that you lied, silly rabbit. I can't wait for the Dip(s)hits and that piece of trash, weave wearing Courtney to be in handcuffs. Charge Aunt Selena just for being a nasty bitch and shit starter. lol

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  4. Courtney Roberts is the weakest link. Goodbye, Dip(s)hits. Justin don't drop the soap. lol

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  5. I remember hearing Pheobe say something along the lines that she would give everything she had to have Ayla back....that statement has always bothered me. I have thought that exact thing before...right after a friend of mines child passed away:-(

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  6. The hardest part of all of this, is that no matter what Justin IS Aylas father. He has not done right by her, a parent is supposed to love, protect, and even be willing to die for their child, not see harm come to them. Okay, and here's the thing, people need to focus more on that broken arm. People Ayla suffered a break in her Distal Humerus, that is the upper arm, and connects to her funny bone. The fact that, that is the part of her arm that broke is what bothers me. A toddlers bones are very pliable still, and hard to break unless there is a lot of force. Has anyone checked the other place in Belgrade for any sign of Ayla? These people have no soul, and what goes around comes around. They will get theirs, and when they do, justice will prevail. Thinking of you Ayla, today and everyday. We love you baby girl.

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  7. She said something like, it's hard for me to go in the room because that's where Ayla was last. Is it ok for Gabby to sleep in that room? Where a "kidnapper" stole her other granddaughter? How about the basement? It's not hard to go down there? Where so much of Ayla's blood was/is?

    She also said something like it's a creepy feeling to know someone was watching you/your house. Ok, so it wasn't Trista, Jessica or JL at that point? When did that change?

    She said she hopes the person who too Ayla is not sick and twisted. And at another point, she said, I don't think anything happened to Ayla beeides someone took her.

    She is the sick and twisted one, well one of them anyway. How can a grandmother care SO little about her granddaughter? It's so sad. It's true none of them probably thought of Ayla as family, probably as Trista's family, Trista's kid.

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  8. Phoebe protects her children as payback for being a terrible mother using basic metrics all mothers are judged by. She has 3 bastard children and nobody seems to know who their Daddy is. She lived in 29 Palms whic tells me 2 things, some of I f not all her children are the result of service-men. Who knows. 29 palms is where the most meth is made. Given it's abundance and PD's alleged drug addictions, it wouldn't shock anyone. Maybe JD knows his daddy is or was a marine, maybe that was the reason for the sticker.
    Either way she is a lyIng, twitchy, pig who knows who killed Ayla and she doesn't care at all.

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    1. Maybe she doesn't know who the fathers of her 3 children are...? All these people talking trash about Trista should take a look at Justin's upstanding, hardworking single mother. Take a look at Justin's upbringing or lack there of. Selena dares to talk trash about Trista, true loving mother of a "missing" baby girl, her great niece? Then try to put Phoebe on a pedastal?! It's true, the truth WILL come out. Phoebe's past and present skeletons will come out, even if just to prove her character. How did she pay for school? Her 3 kids? Did she receive welfare? Where were her kids when she was at work/school? Who was paying for them? The state? How did she buy 2 houses? Before all these people talk trash about Trista (especially Selena), I think some questions should be answered about Phoebe, Elisha and Courtney. Those great, wonderful mothers, who were present when Ayla "vanished". Most of those same questions go for Elisha and Courtney too. Also, they should answer about their own drug and alcohol use. And especially Justin should too. Trista's issues have been made public, which doesn't seem to bother her too much, because she has stepped up for her daughter. If every skeleton brings Ayla home, then so be it. So, how about it Justin & Co., is Ayla worth it to YOU? She hasn't been up to this point. I guess they're going to wait until trial to be humiliated and proven liars...
      I can't wait for these monsters to squirm on the witness stand and to be caught in lie after lie.

      J4A, I don't doubt your knowledge/theory of Phoebe's extracurricular activities, but I'm not sure she would be with her friends husband that particular night, unless she didn't know the kidnapping was going to be staged that night/morning. I'm not so sure she would want that info to be made public (which it absolutely will at trial). Unless she/they had no idea how much this kidnapping was going to blow up (in their faces). What do you think? Did she think that would be a good alibi that would never be made public? Why wouldn't she find an alibi that wouldn't completely embarrass her? It is clear though, she def did not want to say publicly where she was that night.

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    2. Kit,
      I do agree with you. There was a reason I added that part and if you want to email me at justiceforayla@yahoo.com I will share it with you. I do think she did not have any idea as to how big this was going to be and that it has blown up in their faces. I think they were so smug they thought they were going to get away with murder.

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  9. I hope Phoebe gets a hard time from the public at work and in town. She knows something, or she wouldn't need a lawyer. Why the need to state "there wasn't a party"? So, obviously there was a party if she felt the need to state that without being asked such a question. Why is it such a big freaking deal where she was that night? Obviously she was there in the am, maybe after she got back from the Methadone Clinic? Maybe that's why she can't tell us where she was? y

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  10. CR may be the only one to talk. She has the best chance at a sweet deal. She could get out of it alltogether if she drops the dime. ED lives there and her brother and mother have lied to police. Good luck convincing a jury you had no knowledge of the abuse Ayla received. Cr was only there sporadically. She could say he got mad, hurt Ayla, and he threatened her with blackmail if she did not help. JD probably knows a lot about Bri's operation.

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    1. Plea deal requires truth, not a story.

      Could that be true? Unlikely. Why would JD demand Courtney's help in the cover-up if Courtney were not there, did not have some involvement in the event, or if he had not previously covered for her with Ayla?

      CR was only there sporadically yet she chose to be there the night the fake kidnapping went down. She typically would have been there the night of the broken arm because it was a Friday, but there is no mention of her being there (impliedly she wasn't) in Justin's account of the broken arm.

      What if... CR were responsible for the broken arm and feared being investigated and drug connections in her household being uncovered... so Justin took the blame thinking he could "smoke it" with the ER doctors and no one would ever think it was abuse... then CR is tied in and owes JD to be there as an outside the family witness that Ayla "disappeared" and was not harmed in the house...

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    2. I think a few different things about Courtney. I'm not sure which one is true yet.

      1. Possibly she is so messed up in the head, so desperate for someone to "love" her AND her son, that she wanted or felt the need to be "loyal" and stand by her man (YUCK!). Justin may have even played the "Don't you love me?" card.

      2. Possibly she is way more involved in Ayla's "disappearance" than most think/thought. Whether in the action itself and/or disposal.

      3. Possibly she was there, but not so involved, but was suckered into thinking she would be charged with whatever happened.

      Whatever her involvement, she is as guilty as all of them. She has not spoken a true kind word for or about Ayla. Is that how she would treat her own daughter/son? I think it's a mixture of 1 and 2.

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  11. Not sure if a sister of this woman is the same Karen Small you are referring to, but she also worked for cfs http://obituaries.kjonline.com/obituaries/mainetoday-kennebecjournal/obituary.aspx?n=susan-small-hanson&pid=156611993

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    1. yes, that's her, Karen J. Small.

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  12. "because the story would look more believable with one less adult there that night Phoebe was asked to go somewhere else the night that they were going to say Ayla was abducted." I think otherwise. Either they were protecting Phoebe, they perceived her as prone to screw up the story, she masterminded it with herself away, or she knew but didn't want to be "involved."

    Kit raises an interesting point about the alibi. If Phoebe owned another home, why didn't she go there? Unless there was being used for something else. If she was going to invent an alibi, the only reasons I can think of for choosing one that might prove embarrassing if publicly revealed are 1. no other options (a hotel would look really suspicious) and 2. reverse psychology- who would put themselves in a compromising position? No one, so Phoebe must be innocent. Unfortunately, a number of factors point to Phoebe's knowledge if not direct involvement as J4A points out.

    Anon 7:57: I don't think CR is in a position to deal. If she didn't have her mitts into this deep, she wouldn't have been there when the kidnapping was staged. It's her sis who went down in the drug bust. There may not be proof we know of that CR herself was involved in drug trafficking or murder, but the signs suggest she was in this deeper than merely an innocent bystander standing by her man even before the apparent cover-up started. If the DiPietros had it together, they'd work out a deal for Elisha to protect Gabby. Unfortunately that might well mean her ratting out Justin and putting herself and her baby at risk of retaliation from drug traffickers if the drug trafficking is a serious part of the story and not a sideshow.

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  13. When asked about her initial reaction to the report of Ayla’s alleged kidnapping, Phoebe said her first thought was she did not want Justin kicking in doors looking for Ayla. She did not express concern for the baby who was allegedly kidnapped, whether she was alive or dead, whether she was scared or hurt or hungry or in immediate danger.

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    1. She has / had no emotional connection to Ayla.
      The victim in this is Ayla.
      No concern for the victim is a huge red flag.
      But then Phoebe was not versed in SA.
      Now, they have shut ther cake holes as Nancy Grace would say.

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  14. Why wouldnt Phoebe come out and say what the oddities were in the house since kidnapping was ruled out.

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  15. I just think Phoebe is a chronic liar.
    It was good PR to have the Grandma interviewed and to say there was no party, blah blah. And to present it as a fact that she was there. I do remember Susan Candiotti ( sp ) saying that Justin was there and he was going to speak with her the next day. Then he didn't.
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    Phoebe as a single Mom would know the system and even if the Dad or Dads weren't involved, she was probably getting child support from them when those kids were younger. And getting the single Mom benefits. Just like Elisha is most likely doing. She probably trained Elisha in how to get the Dad out of the picture or at least enuf out of the picture to get child support and also the government benefits.
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    Justin D's income would go UP if he had Ayla full time. He was a reluctant Dad and this entire thing with Karen Small and Justin gaining physical control of Ayla just is so suspect. I know how the laws work here, not in Maine, but to pounce so quickly when Trista went to rehab without a court hearing or anyone looking into Justin's fitness as a father is just wrong. Now, if Trista was coerced and then gave her permission that is another story. Was Trista told that DHHS would place Ayla in a foster home if she didn't agree ?
    Here, they don't change the physical custody of the child without a court hearing and that takes forever, even with emergency hearings.
    And,the Best Interest of the Child is put first. It wasn't in Ayla's best interest to go with Justin was it ? Phoebe must have given her permisssion for Justin to use her address as his in this charade. I don't think he was there much and the entire thing was a hoax, just so that Justin's income could go UP.

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  16. Logic, I also think the story would have been more believable with the grandmother being home the night her granddaughter was "kidnapped". When I very first heard of Ayla's story, I thought wow, there was a dad at home with his daughter, his mother, sister, and niece. It sounded very innocent. Then... Bam! All these lies and strange facts come out. It all went down hill once it was,made public that grandmas wasn't there, but dad's girlfriend AND her son as well. The story went down hill and just kept going and going. It's pretty much as low as it can go now. They've lied and hidden so many facts. I can't imagine it getting much worse, but I'm sure there is so much more we don't know. Each new piece of information is more heartbreaking than the last. I hope LE is on the verge of solving Ayla's mystery. I actually think the probably are pretty sure they know what happened to Ayla, but really need/want her body for convictions. Who knows what her body could tell. It could tell a lot more than anyone could imagine.

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  17. its so sad this is a baby an innocent little girl who suffered more in her short lil life than most have in their long happy lives...Sick to think these people wont speak...the ONLY reason people do not talk is out of guilt...and to lie in public get caught and want to be seen as innocent...this liar raised those children...the ones who want to be seen as victims and innocent..just hope child protection services steps in and saves those other children from that home before more lil liars and murderers are breed.

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  18. Everyone involved and in the house should be locked up in solitary confinement....including grandma and the DHS rep, no windows, no visit until someone speaks......enough of this free to roam shit.....eventually someone is going to rat out the right person (s) in order to get themselves out of jail....... Just need a little OLD TIME JUSTICE to take place here. Too many innocent children die because of sick abusive parents.......IF YOU DON'T WANT THE CHILD, GIVE THEM UP FOR ADOPTION AND GET YOU TUBES TIED........I HOPE YOU ALL ROT IN HELL!

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  19. I'm guessing the property and area around Phoebe's other home has been checked already? doesn't her sister live in that area too, is there a lake in that area?

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  20. Justice; You're on the money with that article.. Phoebe is not the timid grandmother that some people would be led to believe, Trista says that even her kids are afraid of her..

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    1. Jeff,

      Thank you for posting this. It shows the love and desire you and your family have for Ayla. I really needed to be reminded that Aylas true family loves her unconditionally!

      Whether or no the Dipietros themselves will ever lift a finger to help Ayla is overshadowed by the drive your family has to bring Ayla home!

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    2. Thanks Jeff, I appreciate all you have done in making sure the truth is known. I will continue to do all I can to bring Ayla home even if it takes exposing the liars in the house that night and pushing their buttons.

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    3. Ha! I found it :D

      Emerald said...

      Research suggests that, “psychopaths are a stable proportion of any population, can be from any segment of society, may constitute a distinct taxonomical class forged by frequency-dependent natural selection, and that the muting of the social emotions is the proximate mechanism that enables psychopaths to pursue their self-centered goals without felling the pangs of guilt. Sociopaths are more the products of adverse environmental experiences that affect autonomic nervous system and neurological development that may lead to physiological responses similar to those of psychopaths. Antisocial personality disorder is a legal/clinical label that may be applied to both psychopaths and sociopaths” (Walsh & Wu, 2008).

      It is thought to be a question of nature versus nurture- psychopaths are thought to be born that way, the fringe population dispersed among us, which reside at the end of the naturally occurring emotional spectrum, genetically influenced/controlled.

      Sociopaths are thought to "made", developing tendencies and personality traits due to environment, experience, and other factors...

      that would make JD possibly either, or both...semantics really...
      My take on JD is that he is a very flawed human being, to the core... Emotionally stunted and devoid of TRUE feelings of love and intimacy with anyone(the closest is his family, and CR, but even these are not genuine unconditional love...he is not capable of such a profound, selfless act and has never had this from his mom or dad, so does not even understand it). He is angry, deceitful, controlling, arrogant and self-important/considers himself superior(perhaps narcissistic?).
      He lacks both impulse control and patience(delayed gratification is not an option, it is boring) and articulate, detailed(and moral) reasoning-
      he is not a critical thinker, but he thinks he is and thinks he is smarter than others, and often misses small details due to his arrogance and impatience. He probably did mediocre to poor in high school, or dropped out. He is also chronically emasculated BY CHOICE(weird, but there is a reason--Phoebe--he hates women for this too, as Mom ran the show.
      He chose to stay with courtney because she had an education, and earning potential with a degree, and a family with property, and really low self-esteem.
      This made her easy to manipulate and control, and she is now an acquired resource, her son makes her vulnerable.
      Some chicks will do ANYTHING for a guy to keep him...pimp the kids put, sell drugs or themselves, lie, cheat, ruin their lives and others,steal and kill.
      She was a resource, and participated because she was his puppet, and was run by her insecurities, fear, and anger over her past with men. And now she is screwed. And so are the rest of them for what they did to Ayla.
      Mon Mar 19, 02:21:00 AM EDT

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    4. Narcissist and manipulator.

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  21. J4A
    I am apologizing for the lenght of this post in advance.

    I just saw on your TLLOM Expose that AH is trying to claim copyrights to a photo posted on TLLOM. Does she really live in the DC area, so do I, and right now I want to slapppppp this BEOTCH right upside her head! One slap for each time I read direct quotes from her that tell even the blindest of followers on that site that she thinks she is "more important than Ayla"! Beotch, noone is more important than Ayla!!!!

    The title of this page says Phoebe is the Matriarch of the DiPietro Family. I have to differ because it is obvious to my blind neighbor down the road that HT is Justins Matriarch and AH is the matriarch to everyone! What right does this broad have to try to prevent the world from using a picture of Ayla to create a poster for Ayla! To me, this beotch should be charged today with interferring with an ogoing investigation, withholding information, one count of contributing to the stupidity for each member of TLLOM who thinks she is doing right for Ayla, and anything else they can think of so AH ends up under the friggin' jailhouse!!! What a slap in the face of the Reynolds efforts and desires to BRING AYLA HOME!!!

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    1. You know, I had three MI's and coded with each one exactly 66 days ago. In all my recovery since then I have not felt the chest pains I am feeling right now for this sorry ass beotch! I need to take a few minutes to calm down but before I do, I have a message for AH "Take your sorry ass to the nearest LE and tell them everything you know about Ayla and don't forget that no-one is more important than Ayla"!

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    2. John P ~ I know your heart is with Ayla and we all understand the sadness and anger. I have read things and my heart will start pounding out of my chest and I have had to take a break. Be sure to take care of yourself.

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    3. John P,
      Never apologize for the length of your comment, you are a well respected commentor here and we all enjoy reading what you have to say. We all are angry and that is understandable, Ayla has touched many hearts.

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    4. J4A & Chicky

      Thank you for the kind words. It is very true Ayla has touched many many peoples hearts! I wish that certain people would not try to benefit personnaly from the misfortune of others. I wish certain people would understand that there are biggers things in this world than any one person. But most of all, I WISH AYLA IS BROUGHT HOME SOON!!!

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    5. John P. I enjoy your posts as well! The caring in your heart is very evident.

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  22. "Neither will Phoebe DiPietro. She says detectives have asked her and her son not to divulge details of what happened that night to avoid possibly hindering the investigation."
    I went and reread the transcript very carefully.
    She spins the lie that she was home. Then she hides behind what the detectives told her when the hard / real questions were asked. Did the detectives tell her to lie ?
    No wonder she has a lawyer. She can't even claim she was misquoted.
    Oh, and she feels "violated."
    ....
    She is in this and should be very worried about spending her retirement years in prison.

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  23. How long does methadone treatment last? Isn't it just a temporary thing to help you get past addiction?

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  24. Maybe one of Heidi's cousins brothers or even father is Justin's male parent. It sure would explain giving him sanctuary.

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  25. NM looked up methadone. It's used to treat opiate addictions and can continue indefinitely.

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  26. Some peeps are on methadone for the rest of their lives.
    No one ever get past addiction. Once an addict, always an addict. It stops the withdrawal and helps with the physical cravings. The addiction is still there like a sleeping dragon because the drug fit that part of the brain like a key in a lock. And the brain says, I like this, I want / need more.
    IMO, methdone is a step into something better, but then to get off that, you have to go the rest of the distance, like a 12 Step Program. Some do, some don't, but going to a methadone clinic is better for society and the person than doing ilegal drugs.

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  27. This article is clearly libelous. I hope that Phoebe DiPietro sues you for defamation.

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    1. it's a private blog open for public comment, not an article... huge difference when it comes to libel and defamation of character she would lose

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  28. What this blog site is all about is having somewhere for the blog owner to spew her anger. What Ayla is about, for her, is having something to focus her anger on. What all that anger has been about all these years is something that the blogger will have to look in the mirror and answer to herself.

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  29. Wow. The venom in Tori's heart is somethin' else!

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  30. Can you please point out where the article appears to be libelous, because I'm not seeing it.

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  31. Kit,

    I doubt they even see it because it is not. It is again an ANON trying to "start fires". Once again, they have failed.

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  32. Oh, I know John. I thought they should point out what part(s) they thought were.

    Yup, fire starters. Put something out there, then not bother to back it up.

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  33. Projection much?/Lies : Go back to your own blog of lies with that bullshit. You are a liar and a thief. In one of my comments to you, I asked, projection much? when you were bashing Trisha and her self-father. ( at least be original, demon spun) Get the f**k out of here, you non-factor little demon.

    You are the one that's libelous, for all the lies you posted on your blog about trisha and her family, you pos.

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  34. ms.peridot19

    Wonderful work J4A. All of it is so heart wrenching, but, I am afraid all will be proven in the end.

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  35. ms.peridot19 (warning - a long venting post.)

    Phoebe has been so blessed to have, truly beautiful Ayla, as a granddaughter. And instead of loving and treasuring Ayla, Phoebe has used Ayla for her own needs, wishes, power and control. (After all, actions speak louder than words.) All was done with total disregard for Ayla and Ayla's needs. And in the end Ayla is the one who has paid the total consequence of Justin's and Phoebe's choices and actions. Phoebe what happened to Ayla??? Phoebe if you know where, pleassse, where is Ayla???


    There are no words to describe the utter hell that has been prevailed on Trista! And all of Ayla's real family, the ones that are not just blood but that have love in their hearts and are missing Ayla, they too have to live with all of this everyday! I don't want to presume and be specific, (it is not my place,) but we all know that each and every adult and child has the hell of now living with Ayla's absence from their lives and the worry of what has happened to her and the wonder of where is she?!

    <3 Ayla needs to be found <3

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  36. ms.peridot19
    Grandma's can use their influence and power for good for their own grandchildren. Most Grandma's choose to make sure their grandchildren are safe and help the grandchild have the best lives possible. But, with some Grandma's they seem to think they can replace the mommies (i am sure this happens to daddies too)? I am thinking of what happened to Zahra Baker. Zahra's mother left Zahra's with her father while she suffered severe depression from PPD. It is said, that then the paternal grandmother helped to keep Zahra's mother from always knowing Zahra's whereabouts and helped kept mom from contacting Zahra. Also in the HaLeigh Cummings case, was Crystal depressed or have PPD when she was not functioning? The father got custody with the help of mom/grandma and sister. I personally think in the case of Ayla, Zahra, and Haleigh, that all three grandma's knew exactly who their son's were/are, what the sons were and were not capable of doing parenting wise, and last but not least each grandmom knew their own son's personal character. Whatever were the grandmom's personal reasons: anger for the children's mothers; control of the grandchild; using the grandchild to control their own son's lives; using the little girls to make son's 'straighten up'; the need for the son's then to have to live with mother's; hoping son will bond more to them over taking sides against child's mother; maybe even to prevent son's from paying child support just out of piggishness? Whatever the reasons, now all three little girls have come to harm?

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  37. The fact that grandma works at the waste management facility disgust me
    ...have they searched there for miss ayla this shit completely disgust me......Justin seems so much more then guilty

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