Someone must not have received the memo or otherwise does not care. It seems Lance DiPietro has taken it upon himself to put together his own vigil for Ayla. While it initially started as just a vigil for Ayla it seems that on March 14th he decided it should be a birthday vigil for Ayla.
While I think it's great that someone on the paternal side of Ayla's family cares enough to do something for Ayla, I also think since there is already a birthday vigil being thrown by Ayla's mother it would be pretty low to throw another one on the same day. Why can't you ask Trista what you can do to help with the vigil already being planned? Put the animosity aside and do it for Ayla. I'm sure Trista would appreciate knowing that someone from that side of the family cares. Or do plan another birthday vigil on a different day. What kid wouldn't love two birthday parties?
It makes me sad that there is this much seperation that the DiPietro's can't even help with a birthday vigil being planned for Ayla, they don't even offer to help, instead they plan their own.